I Divorced My Husband, This is How God is Helping Me Heal… (Testimony)
I Divorced My Husband, This is How God is Helping Me Heal… (Testimony)
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Just blessed Giselle , Thanks for shaing the truth
So what the heck happened? Him and his family had so much love for you over the 5 years you knew them before getting married and then the cheating and the physical abuse? I’m confused…
You sound like you have an amazing church
This guy sounded like a narcissist, love bombing, the mirroring (talking about God because you do), then the mental and physical abuse starts.
We are sons and daughters of the most high Christ Jesus. We lack nothing God wants us to depend on him and only him. I would like to tell you that you are covered by his grace and his grace alone. You are amazing regardless of whatever you are going through right now. Give it all to him and he will carry you through it all. Jesus Christ is Lord!
I too am a divorced women and a believer. I wanted to share with you that the good Lord commands us to stay celibate so as long as our first spouse lives. So stay focused on Jesus ❤️
I got bit by dang dog one time. I screamed my brains out and was like “STUPID DOG WHATS WRONG WITH YOU BOY” about that time some fat dude ran up and started screaming at me. He’s like “DONT YOU DARE SCREAM AT MY DOG HES A GOOD BOY” I was like “bro this dog just bit the crap outta me!” I showed him the bite and he insisted I did it to my self for attention… I was like “bro you and your dog SUCK” he went NUTS and picked his dog up and tried to use it as a weapon on me. I ran away screaming like a maniac with him chasing me yelling “GIT YER FAT BUTT BACK HERE AND FIGHT ME LIKE DAGUM MAN BOY!!!” I escaped him and spent the rest of the day crying like a small girl scared to death he was gonna find me and beat the snot outta me with his beagle mutt.
3 weeks later homie shoved his dog through my kitchen window and was outside the window scream “KILL HIM BOY BITE HIS DANG THROAT” long story short I called the law and they showed up and for whatever reason pepper sprayed me right in the face. They gave that fat guy a hug and told him everything would be ok. Turns out I was a wanted criminal all because I stole a bunch of cars and robbed 7 banks. I went to prison for 18 years and got out early because they said I was literally too stupid to even be in jail at that point. I am now the proud owner of a 1999 Ford Focus and I live as a full blooded Cherokee Indian in a teepee outside the city limits. Life is good
Thank you for this. I have 4 small children’s been a stay at home mom, i’ve forgive over and over again and he talked down to me so much i started to believe it. Now he’s wishing death upon me, i’m ready to leave i know if God is leading me no matter how hard it is as long as he’s with me me and my kids will be great.
Giselle there are PLENTY of christian men that would marry you whether or not you feel like cooking, cleaning, looking good. Youre a prize.
God is good! All the time.
In most Christians marriages God was never really part of it from day 1.It was just you and husband. He did not provide the partner. He was never seek before the marriage. Dating 5 years without God ends eventually in divorce.,10, 20,30,40,50,60years later.
Divorce is on the table but it isn’t etched in stone. This ministered to me in ways I wasn’t looking for. I was looking for how to let after a divorce but instead you exposure to verbal abuse and giving it out ministered to me. I’ve experienced verbal abuse as a child and adult and I struggle with it. Thank you
Been there and done it. Was brought the same way. Lost a marriage of 23 years. Now on my own and keep God in my life first . Try to pray about anything and everything now.
I am happy to hear your story and thankful that you tried your best to stay married. You sister, have the only exception to divorce as Jesus said "except for adultery." Please if you can stay single and dedicate your life to God you will always be happy and blessed but if not I pray the next time that your husband loves God as much as you do. Oh one last thing please avoid divorced men that way you can be a little safer with God’s way.
May I recommend my favorite yt ministry showing Bible prophecy fulfilling in current events. Midday Power Surge/ Prophecy Again.
Can I possibly give a testimony like this: about living with a Christian monster, it would take a lot of Courage. 22 years in
God has an amazing way of embracing us as we look to Him and He becomes our all sufficient and He builds up through circumstances our faith in Him. He becomes our all in all and through all. Teaching us that, truly, He never leaves us nor forsakes us. His understanding of us truly is infinite.
God hate divorce…. I’m doubting this
I felt that when she said "God I’m sorry for putting my ex husband and his family before you." Wow! For her to admit that puts her closer to God than ever before. I know because I, myself was in a similar situation. Thank God for His revelation and allowing me to surrender. I know that she is feeling that same way. May God bless hou my Sister. Yes, you are worthy of happiness. Continue to put God first by allowing the Holy Spirit to lead you..stay in your Word which is your armor.
There is a Women for me out there that I will Cherish. I have been engaged but never married one day God has the right one. I do have a daughter & son. There mother is deceased from her choices. Sad she overdosed 3 time’s. But Jesus is holding on to All His children. God Bless.
Thank you for encouraging us with your testimony. Thank you Delafe team for doing God’s work. Praise God for all His goodness and grace!
Despite what everyone has been through that led them to divorce and they believe in their heart that they can remarry and its all fine in Gods eyes, it is called Adultery. Nobody wants to talk about this uncomfortable topic because feelings and opinions get involved rather than the Word of God being the guidance to follow on this subject
Women do that all the time ,there tang moves ,and controlling , and still expect the man to be romantic,
Men are expected to ‘love and cherish’ their wives. Men have to create a miniature model of the church in their home. Humility and respect for who your are keeps everyone ‘secure’. There is always ‘protection’ in your faith. Men can ‘put on an act’ and ‘act’ like they are your friend but in reality they ‘use you’ to their own ends. Respect is not based on domination or bullying. To make people feel rejected is not the true Christian faith. We need to respect people no matter what their circumstances. Money does not buy you happiness and contentment. The son of man has nowhere to lay his head. He had no ‘home’ while living here. If its too good to be true, it is too good to be true. A house is not a home. Many who are abused leaves themselves open to naracist abuse. Physical abuse and verbal abuse are not from a heart of love. You need to set boundaries and find yourself ‘true’ friends. Can Naracistic abusers actually ‘forgive’. They have no empathy and just ‘use’ individuals to their own ends. If a partner is totally in love with themselves, then they are unable to love anyone else. Naracists love to belittle and make their partner feel like ‘rubbish’. They throw you ‘crumbs’ which to them cost nothing but you are addicted to them and grasp at the crumbs thrown at you. God is with you through the stress. The truth will set you free. God loves and protects all his children no matter what you are going through. God is our hope and strength. He never makes mistakes. You are respected for who you are and you have a genuine support community around you. If people manipulate, bully and humiliate you, they are the people who have the problem, not you. People who are empathetic are often manipulated and used by others to their own advantage. Abusers only target people who have got something they do not have. A thief does not steal from an empty house. The Lord Jesus Christ looks after his children. I will never leave you nor forsake you. The truth is always victorious over evil. We all need to walk humbly in faith along the narrow way, as there are few that find it.
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This is a wonderful testimony,I’m really touched and blessed you’re brave and your integrity shows that indeed God is with you! Emmanuel Jesus with us!
Not sure if the way she treated her husband is from her childhood? Many women that I have met that grew up in loving christian families treat men the same way, it is exhausting to try and carry that weight. Just my thoughts.
Never ever compromise your union with God.
This is so my testimony right now! God bless her! And God bless you for putting these videos out!
I related to your story so much. Thank you for sharing
I new ,how it is pain full however thankss God for evething.
Thank you for your testimony sis. Crying happy tears because I can relate. Its very hard without God but once I surrender and trusted God. I could feel God carry me thru this difficult time in my life. Even though it resulted in divorce. I am in peace and I am worthy and God loves me for me. Let go and let God.
God bless you my sister.
Omg girl. God bless
Did you ask God the father for his approval to marry him? If you did, you might have not been in this situation. Jesus send his spirit to lead our lives. We live this life for Jesus. Jesus is perfect and we are not. Listen to the perfect person and do what he says. We are called to be a living sacrifice to please God… Even if you are married, we have to act like single when we worship and obey God..
I appreciate her honesty about the entire situation and her abusing him verbally. So many people are quick to blame the the other person for everything but think about yourself, if someone tells you, you are not good enough, worthless, calls you names, points out your flaws and weaknesses, tells you that you are not what they want or envisioned, over and over and over, it will have an affect on them, then on you. Respect, understanding and love are bi-directional emotions and sentiments. Golden rule my friends, golden rule.
Men… Western males… actually pursue females like T-H-I-S. There is no way in Hell that a grown man with a functional brain would involve himself with someone like this.
Go your own way
He needs healing too from divorcing you aswell.
I am advocate for healing. Deal with your childhood traumas before you say I do.
Thank you for your testimony. I too went though a divorce . She was having an affair. I forgave her, however she alienated our two children. I know God has a plan for each of us. Why do people use children to hurt the person they promised to love?
Be well sister! You got this !
May God bless you for your work for sharing such uplifting testimonies❤️
Years ago, I married a woman that God told me not to. After 17 years of hell she left me and later got involved with someone else. It took me another 5 years for me to get over that. So I wasted about 25 years of my life, just because of my disobediance to god. Sin is not worth it.