Depressed, marriage failing & hopeless – God has not forgotten you

Depressed, marriage failing & hopeless – God has not forgotten you

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Anne asks:
“Hi Don, I am a backslider. I watched one of your concerts in the Philippines, until now I feel light when I listen to your songs. But I stopped attending church and stopped reading the Bible. My life seemed lonely, I am not happy, my marriage is falling apart – like there’s no love, trust and respect anymore… I have 3 beautiful kids (all boys). I have sinned, I’m confused, I’m depressed, like I feel there’s no hope. I wanted to attend Christian church again, so my family will be complete again. I don’t know how to start my faith with the Lord, but I do know I’m thirsting for God’s healing and love. Please help me Don. Touch and heal me and my husband. Question is, after all the hurts and pains, and fights, and traumas, will God still be there to heal and save us? Myself, my family, my marriage – how will He do this? Thank you so much.”

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  1. Rumble Reverend on October 6, 2022 at 1:42 am

    Please pray for my marriage and family. We are going through something similar.

  2. Riteshkong King on October 6, 2022 at 1:43 am

    Please pray for me… I am facing a tough time since last four years… Broken marriage, depression and failure in every aspect ofw lyf… I want god to work on my life again… And restore my life again

  3. Aleksandar Miletic on October 6, 2022 at 1:43 am

    I discovered your video on Secret fixer blueprint – there are plenty more awesome videos there that will help you

  4. cherry rami on October 6, 2022 at 1:44 am

    Help me too.. Now I’m suffering depression and sadness I don’t know what I do I try save my marriage for my kids but painful much I lost my trust and love.. I’m feeling now I lost everytime I cry alone if I look at my kids.. I’m not happy only I feel painful and sad inside me…

  5. Anna アンナ on October 6, 2022 at 1:44 am

    Anne, if ever you are reading this (I really hope you do), please reply under this comment or please send me a private message here on YouTube, I will be more than happy and willing to listen to you and give advice. I’ve experienced something very similar last year, and although I admit I am still in the healing process, I’ve learned so much, especially with God as my anchor. I would like to share those learnings to you, hoping they will enlighten and guide you as you seek reconciliation with the Lord and your husband. You went to Don Moen’s concert in the Philippines? Are you Filipino? I’m Filipino. Praying for you.

  6. Umendra official on October 6, 2022 at 1:45 am

    I am so depressed becoz of my relationship, she is so egoistic, how shall i overcome my depression?

  7. Melanie Oosterman on October 6, 2022 at 1:46 am

    My dad used to be a forest ranger. Now he is a pilot.

  8. Diane Lopez on October 6, 2022 at 1:47 am

    Wow, sounds like I’m the one who sent you that letter Don. I see this video is from a few years ago. Thank you. This has blessed me today in my own personal life.

  9. Byahera on October 6, 2022 at 1:48 am

    I was drowning from my depression,I was so denial that I was being depressed.I tried to overcome it for 2 years and on those years I hurt him, say things, I decided the separation which I shouldnt, I sinned and lost my respect on almost everything we tried so hard to keep, so I walked away and tried to find my way to gain myself back,my love back, he wait for 700 days for me to come back.I already have my love back, my better version of me the lesson Ive learned and found myself praying again,but I guess I was late, he already move on and has a new woman in our house.I dont know how to deal with it.I feel like the ocean is pulling me back while I only thought I was drowning on it now I am floating through this pain,waking up sad and sleeping so sad,feeling everything is falling apart.But I kept praying that he will take me back.

  10. Candy Shira on October 6, 2022 at 1:51 am

    Please pray for my marriage. My husband left me its been 8months

  11. spider123 on October 6, 2022 at 1:53 am


  12. Arichu Limz on October 6, 2022 at 1:54 am

    Hlo Don
    I have no peace in my heart i have many breakthrough in my life. My husband threatened me because i dont have job, my mother in law takes all my husband salary on the other hand thinks that i hate them i have son to look after i cried to the lord everyday i dont know what to do because i has lost all my hope please pray for me

  13. S Wichern on October 6, 2022 at 1:54 am

    I am going through exactly this today and have been for many months now. My husband and I are separated and my heart feel so broken. I’m ready to start again but I feel he can’t left go of the stronghold holding him down. We equally hurt each other and are usually on opposite pages but I loved hearing and watching this because something broke inside of my heart with just let me earn for healing again. Please pray for me, my name is Sonja my husband of 23 years is Jerry and I love him, miss him, but I miss being close to the Lord more. Because with the Lord I wasn’t unsure of where I stood. I know I’m securely loved. I need this so bad.

  14. Burn Sanchez on October 6, 2022 at 1:55 am

    God is the best! and Don u are God’s sent to us… to be the encourager tru Music and Gods word. God bless u and your Family. you are my favourite song writer/artist since i was young… your song always calm me every morning, everytime i hear your song it makes me happy and until now it throws me back those happy simple life when i was young. thanks for sharing this and Stay bless

  15. Arlene Calderon on October 6, 2022 at 1:56 am

    Let Your will be Done Father! Amen

  16. CATSintheFLAT on October 6, 2022 at 1:57 am

    God is always there. He’s been always there for me and I believe for you too. Don is right, humble yourself and just tell God everything, pour out everything to God. Remember, ask for forgiveness and do His way, through His Word, obey. Yes, obey. God will tell you what to do, through His Word. There’ll be peace in your heart. God will put love in your heart, just ask Him. If you humble yourself, you’ll be able to see God’s love, and you’ll be able to forgive others, and you’ll be able to apologize to others too. His love through Jesus Christ is absolutely contagious.

    James 3:17
    But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. NIV

    God bless you.

  17. Mimi Gee on October 6, 2022 at 1:58 am

    GOING through a divorce
    He hates me
    We have 3 kids & I’m seeking God for help but it’s not coming fast enough

  18. Patti Rody on October 6, 2022 at 1:58 am

    Such heartfelt advice, Don. I will be praying for this lady and her family too. God can turn our lives around as all of us Christians know. So thankful for His forgiveness to us, all because of the Cross we are free in Him.

  19. Caliman5 on October 6, 2022 at 2:01 am

    You can ask the whole world to pray for you, but YOU must act first WITH FAITH and sincerity with YOUR PRAYER FIRST !!!

  20. Chauntelle Nelson on October 6, 2022 at 2:03 am

    God good all the time heal helped me heal my mother from cancer I am so grateful

  21. 4lightworkers on October 6, 2022 at 2:05 am

    Thanks Anne for this question, I am where you are now…perhaps not any longer. I have been sent back to the Lord by a friend, and will be reborn again through baptism on the 23rd in 2017. I gave my life to God, I am hoping this will assist in restoring my relationship with Richard, whom I love so dearly. He brought me back to God and I’d like our relationship to continue with God in both our lives together. Thank you for the answers Don, this was a great answer with many solutions. Bless you!!!

  22. Simhadri Mangalagiri on October 6, 2022 at 2:05 am

    Plz pray for my future and marriage.

  23. Stan on October 6, 2022 at 2:06 am

    I’m also in a backslidden condition, depressed and pressure to move forward..plz pray for me…

  24. Harpreet Singh on October 6, 2022 at 2:07 am

    God Bless You!

  25. Amy Miller on October 6, 2022 at 2:09 am

    My marriage is falling apart and it’s getting to the point where I rather be dead than to go through another fight

  26. Marcus Compton on October 6, 2022 at 2:12 am

    Please pray for me and my wife Ann not to go through with divorcing me as she has filed divorce

  27. lateef oladejo on October 6, 2022 at 2:14 am

    Thank you so much sir. You just ministered to me with those words. I love your songs; they’ve ministered to me over and over. Your songs have been a source of inspiration to me in diverse ways……And yes, I will sing and I will praise you Lord. God bless and increase you more sir.

  28. ven on October 6, 2022 at 2:15 am

    I am really depressed cause my life is just drifting away

  29. Reizl Quiobe on October 6, 2022 at 2:16 am

    My name is reizl Quiobe and my husband name is arth jay Quiobe .

  30. Evangeline Deshpande on October 6, 2022 at 2:17 am

    Recently I found out my husband cheated on me with a 20years old bar girl. I don’t know how to move on. I’m depressed. I feel miserable. I feel dirty whenever he touches me. Help me.

  31. SleeperNo1 on October 6, 2022 at 2:17 am

    I was meant to find this today. It ministered to my humble brokenness.

  32. chgofirefighter on October 6, 2022 at 2:18 am

    God has not forgotten? We have poverty, homelessness, diseases, murder, injustice, wars, rape, child abuse, drug abuse, you name it… yet God has not forgotten about you? Seems to me that God forgot about humanity a long time ago

  33. giggleberry juice on October 6, 2022 at 2:19 am

    Please pray for me and my marriage. I feel as though it’s over. I suffer from depression and anxiety so this is very difficult for me. I feel as though God has forgotten about me. I’m so scared. Anyone reading this please keep me in your prayers. Thank you and God bless you!

  34. Sow AG on October 6, 2022 at 2:22 am

    ah come on now

  35. Jeannie Ocasio on October 6, 2022 at 2:24 am

    My marriage is in danger. I feel I am the only one fighting for my marriage. As a Pentecost Christian women, I don’t know what to do. Mental abuse, ignoring me,
    Acting like his a stranger. My husband sleeps in quest room. If I text him he won’t respond. If I call he won’t answer. Did I say I can’t take it anymore. But I am holding to walk away just because I love God and I love my husband. But enough is enough.

  36. marcus peters on October 6, 2022 at 2:24 am

    Like the movie ghost-" Molly-it’s amazing-the emptyness you take it with you -Love it

  37. christeena ps on October 6, 2022 at 2:28 am

    Please pray for me. I am soo depressed and I feel empty in my I feels like I am abandoned by everyone even God..I am soo lonely

  38. Arletia etoga1 on October 6, 2022 at 2:29 am

    Yeaaa Amen

  39. A ForJesus on October 6, 2022 at 2:30 am

    Your wonderful Don. Jesus is great showing you His way. Pray for me as I have been seperated from wife. God I have been praying and praying but it may be me that needs more prayers and healing. NZ❤ thank you

  40. Jasmin Olimpo on October 6, 2022 at 2:32 am

    Thank You

  41. Angel Angel on October 6, 2022 at 2:35 am

    God bless you Don!

  42. Nancy on October 6, 2022 at 2:36 am

    Listening to your music on I Tunes Awesome!

  43. Jani Liebenberg on October 6, 2022 at 2:37 am

    Please pray for me, it feels as if my life is spinning out of control. We’ve lost our daughter 3 years ago, and now we’ve also lost our son. On top of everything we’ve lost our business and are financially in a desperate situation. We are born-again believers and don’t know we all these things are happening to us. I love and trust God but my husband has turned away from God, not believing that a loving father could allow this to happen to us. What’s going on?

  44. Michelle pamor Narciso on October 6, 2022 at 2:40 am

    Please pray for me and my Husband
    And our marriage

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