how I got through my WORST breakup | TIPS FOR GETTING THROUGH HEARTBREAK | Christian perspective

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  1. Julianna Jean on August 27, 2022 at 12:15 am

    Love this !!! :)))) amazing advice !! I just made a video about how to find a godly man!! You can go check it out if your interested!:)

  2. Stephen Lechuga on August 27, 2022 at 12:17 am

    Can you do a bible study series on politics?

  3. KatherineMarie0416 on August 27, 2022 at 12:18 am

    Not a Christian, but I enjoy your content! Best wishes <3

  4. Maxxii_Music on August 27, 2022 at 12:19 am

    I went through one as well. I found staying busy in the past was helping me. This time I chose to sit in my pain and ask God what he was trying to teach me. That’s when everything changed. I had been making similar mistakes for a long time and I wasn’t learning my lesson by staying busy to not feel what I was going through. Then God started putting me in situations where I had to help others going through pain. I guess realizing there were other people going through trouble helped me. Also staying in his word! Hope this helps!

  5. His Canvas of grace on August 27, 2022 at 12:19 am

    I had one of those wrecker ones too, girl. Because we were friends before dating, and he told me he loved me and wanted to marry me..only to text me that is wasn’t working and abruptly leave my life. I had no idea anything was wrong until he began pulling away.
    I believe he wasn’t fully healed honestly, but it hurt like hell. I didn’t want to eat or do anything. I relate that mornings are the forget the pain when you’re asleep, and then you wakeup and the pain and stomach churning begins and you fall apart at random places.
    Healing took a while and the scar is still there, but it did bring me closer to the Lord, thank God, and He did bring me someone who is ready to love me how I need and loves unconditionally. And I’m so glad you have found a wonderful man too! ❤️
    I wanted to stay friends but looking back that hindered moving forward. Anyone going through a breakup needs to cut ties, not talk to him, put the photos and mementos away and then throw them out when you are ready. You need to stop praying he comes back, and pray that God shows you whatever he needs you to see. Use it as a time to draw near to God and have Him give you clarity. Repent of any sins, recognize unhealthy patterns, and mature in Christ. And then you will be more ready for when Mr Right comes along! Don’t listen to depressing breakup music lol and dwell in your grief that way. Writing down your feelings helps and you can turn it into a prayer to God. He wants to hear what you are going through even though He does already know. He wants to heal and redeem. And girl, whoever reads this, know that God will not let it fall apart unless it was not meant for you. He has better. Read the Word and listen to what God has to say; be honest with yourself and God, and set those boundaries you need for yourself to heal. Protect your heart ❤️ sending love and prayers to you all who may be hurting. God has not finished your story! Lean on Him and His love xoxo

  6. Aizza Santos on August 27, 2022 at 12:21 am

    Ah for real… I’m going through a breakup right now and I’ve literally been praying for healing in my heart and searching for a Christian’s perspective on heartbreak and this pops up today. Thank you and praise Jesus !!

  7. alexia on August 27, 2022 at 12:21 am

    Hey beautiful people, I’m here to share the gospel. Please take the time to read this ❤️if you’re seeing this God wants you to know this. I pray in Jesus’s name that this message gets to the right people.All good things come from God. He is the creator and father. God sends sun and rain over people who reject him too, he blesses those who are sometimes wicked too. Jesus died for us and we will die for him too so we can have eternal life in heaven and we will be with God the almighty. We will be happy no stress no anger. We can’t even imagine what heaven looks like. He’s waiting for us in heaven with mansions and a great life with him and his people. The temple of God is within us. If we had a second to see what awaits for us in heaven we would all drop everything that gives us pleasure in this world for God. Those who are born again and those who are filled with the Holy Spirit will be saved. Jesus is the way to eternal life. But don’t just believe in Jesus because you want eternal life.. believe in Jesus because you want to give your life to him and because you love him and he is in you’re heart, have Jesus the king as your only saviour. Go to him for everything, fasting and prayer will keep the evil away and bring you closer to God. There’s not gonna be many people that make it to heaven because not everyone wants to die for Jesus because they are afraid of death. Do not fear, for the Lord is with you. The people that will go through the tribulation when they about to get executed they will be asked one last time to renounce their faith to Jesus Christ. They will say no. Soon as the blade hits their neck they won’t feel a thing because Jesus will be with them holding their hand. We the children of God will be saved and we will be with God for eternity. People are gonna be nasty to you but ignore and forgive them just like our Father forgives us. Ipray that more and more people open their eyes and turn to Jesus Christ. Jesus loves you! Seek him and all your answers will be answered, all your problems will be solved. There’s nothing and no one more powerful then God, he was always here so trust him, he knows what he’s doing. He has a great plan for all of us. When you pray to him for something and you don’t get it it’s not because he didn’t listen to your prayer, it’s because what you’ve asked for doesn’t fit in what he has planned for you already. Say you had a kid or you already have a kid..if they ask you for something that you know is not good for them would give them it even if you know it’s bad for them? No same goes with God. We are all children of God. God listens to every prayer. Put your trust in God, every problem you have or worry no matter how small it is go to him, he doesn’t judge. He forgives your sins just like you should forgive people who do you wrong. He hears every thought of yours and he’s there with you and for you even if you don’t know it. Every time you’ve cried he was there by your side supporting you. God is love. Jesus was disrespected, beat, made fun of, ignored, betrayed, lied to, sold, and way more, died on the cross for our sins because he loves us, even though people did him wrong he didn’t use violence or anger But what he did use was love and love should be our only weapon and most powerful too. Treat everyone with love and kindness because you never know what God has sent them here for. Don’t worry about elections because the only one who rules this world is Jesus! He is the one sitting on the throne in heaven, In Jesus’s name may we all be protected by God and filled with the Holy Spirit ! God bless everyone Amen

  8. Meghan Ridgell on August 27, 2022 at 12:22 am

    Hey beautiful- love this video and perspective. Thank you for this. I am working on a video very similar for my channel, so thank you for some sort of guidance. I like how you did this!!

  9. Roshi Anderson on August 27, 2022 at 12:26 am

    Great video! I also posted a video about getting over a breakup as well!

  10. Chantale Cherry on August 27, 2022 at 12:26 am

    Such a powerful message! I too have focus and found the Lord thru a breakup and giving up on law of attraction and all that shakra drama! God is good and focusing on Christ is all worth it!

  11. Who Cares on August 27, 2022 at 12:29 am

    It’s so sad how so many women put their self-worth into men. They stop doing their hobbies and put all their time and effort into the relationship. I don’t seen men do the same and that’s probably why they can move on so easily. I’ve been there, it’s the worst. I really want to teach my future daughters self-worth and living their own life. Glad you were able to move forward!

  12. Seth Daniel on August 27, 2022 at 12:31 am

    I’m going through a break up now it’s hard I completely understand God please help me!!

  13. turquoise lilac on August 27, 2022 at 12:33 am

    Thankyou sister . U don’t know how much it helped me ❤️❤️

  14. nobodysperfect06 on August 27, 2022 at 12:33 am

    Why do you think it’s the guy’s role to make the first move or ask the girl out?

  15. Megan Eliana on August 27, 2022 at 12:36 am

    I went through a breakup really young, (still am young haha) but it was the worst pain I’ve ever experienced. It’s been over a year now and God has done incredible things since then, and I’m so thankful he got me out of the situation. If you wanna read my whole testimony you can follow my Instagram 🙂 awesome video ❤️❤️

  16. Anne marie on August 27, 2022 at 12:37 am

    Hii, can u pls make a video on what u feel about ppl who r gifted with visions AKA spiritualists/ light workers/ astrologists/ mediums or ppl who do tarot readings. Example – ppl like tyler Henry, Edward and Lorraine Warren ( Christian perspective ) they probably r gifted by God but idk something just doesn’t sit right with me . If u r aware of ppl like them and r comfortable doing a video on it pls do a video on it and if u think it is supported in christianity according to scriptures Because I’m not surrounded by ppl who would give me a clear and honest answer on whether it’s the right path or not

  17. Bethany Fung on August 27, 2022 at 12:38 am

    Omg i feel you waking up everyday and feeling the pain!

  18. Marinz on August 27, 2022 at 12:38 am

    Love your make up here!

  19. Amanda on August 27, 2022 at 12:38 am

    Don’t forget that this also applies to friendship breakups too!

  20. Fedora Brookshields Prasad on August 27, 2022 at 12:42 am

    It’s funny that i clicked this video because I lost someone who was never mine and will never be. We were never in a relationship to begin with.

  21. Jane N on August 27, 2022 at 12:44 am

    I went through my first breakup around this time last year and I have been depressed since then. This video has helped and uplifted me at all my lows. May God sustain my hope in Him. Thank you Nastasia for sharing this message with us it lets us know we are not alone.

  22. JKLRedeemed on August 27, 2022 at 12:45 am

    Nastasia, just wanted to say that you really gave me a new (better) perspective on singleness and finding ‘the one’. (I’m mainly referring to your previous videos) Now, I’m a guy (I was actually born in 1996 too) and I was struggling through the exact worries as you… " When will I meet her?" "Where will I meet her?" "Should I try to go to ___ and see if I’ll find her there?" I’ve always thought I’d have a family and recently have been too focused on what I can do to improve my chances on finding ‘her’. That is, until you said something like, "If God wants you there to find ‘the one’, you’ll be there. Your decisions can’t keep that from happening." That really opened my eyes to what I was doing… So I just wanted to say thank you for that. Your fiance is lucky to have you and I pray that my future wife will share in your love of Christ.

  23. Tyra j on August 27, 2022 at 12:47 am

    I’m going through it now. Long story short, been on plenty of dates and never had a relationship. I met someone who I had such an amazing connection with, but as time went by, I realized there was a lot of red flags I was ignoring. He ended up ending things with me. Although I’m sad, I am grateful. I know God has someone out there who is amazing for me

  24. Shay M on August 27, 2022 at 12:50 am

    Hi, was wondering if you could maybe do a video on your Christian relationship and if you ever had any struggles, disagreements, arguments, any problem and how you went about handling it?

  25. Luyando Mweemba on August 27, 2022 at 12:54 am

    I love your hair

  26. Derek Brown on August 27, 2022 at 12:57 am

    Great video

  27. Adventures of XyZ on August 27, 2022 at 12:59 am

    Thanks so much for sharing your perspective. It is true that there is nothing we can do without God. He has already set us up for success and for overcoming whatever obstacle is in our life. What really helped me through my last breakup as you said was to refocus my energy. i just want to encourage the eprson reading this right now to continue to take the time to heal and find avenues that work for you. Sometimes we try to put ourselves in boxes because one thing worked for another person. Allow your interests to direct you in the direction that suits you best!

  28. His Canvas of grace on August 27, 2022 at 1:05 am

    And yes Stas, so true that God will use our journey of heartbreak and healing, to minister to others. It’s not just about us. There’s a bigger picture. We are family in Christ and here to help bear one another’s burdens ❤️

  29. Thelma John on August 27, 2022 at 1:05 am

    can you talk about the capitol riot? it was heartbreaking for me to see people proclaiming that Christ is King and then proceeding to threaten violence and kill 5 innocent people…I know you don’t usually talk about politics but it breaks my heart to see Christians be silent when the consequences are so grave. I really want to hear the perspective of someone I trust…

  30. Destiny Luna on August 27, 2022 at 1:06 am

    I’ve been trying to find good videos in regards to a break up… I needed this so much.

    A little over 2 months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. We had been in a long distance relationship for over 3 years…. I didn’t want to admit that it would happen, but it did. I made a lot of mistakes. It was my first Christian relationship. I feel sooo apathetic at the moment and I have lost so much passion for things… I’m trying sooo hard to move on and enjoy the hobbies I did before, and I feel just sooo hurt and angry. I’m trying so hard to move on, but it’s been sooo difficult. I’m trying to have passion for things like worshiping God and having joy in it, but it’s been so difficult. Please keep me in prayer. I really need it and I want my joy to return and my anger and apathy to cease.

  31. Emma Raymond on August 27, 2022 at 1:06 am

    Ahhh I live for your breakup videos. You’ve been really helping me girl

  32. AmazingGrace on August 27, 2022 at 1:07 am

    Jesus loves you all personally have a nice day:) Please turn from your sin and follow Jesus for today is the day of salvation!:) Jesus is coming back very soon!

  33. Andrea Simon on August 27, 2022 at 1:08 am

    Haven’t had a boyfriend yet and don’t plan on it until I feel ready for marriage in the near future and even though that is still hard for me I know it’s God’s best

  34. Maria Kelly on August 27, 2022 at 1:09 am

    I’ve been depressed over a breakup for a whole year now. I think the worst part of it was that he was one of my best friends and I lost our relationship and friendship when we broke it off. Also, after we broke it off, I realized how much I really did love him. It sucks because I knew that he had put in my life and taken out of my life for a reason, but it was too hard to see that at the time. Now, I’m finally finding myself and realizing that I need to take responsibility for my actions. But I also know that part of it was his fault. It was such a toxic relationship that we just couldn’t save the friendship after. Part of me still wishes we were together so I could still have that friendship, but I know it’s not in God’s plan for me at the moment. If any of you are really struggling, I suggest praying but also seeking professional help. That has really helped me. I know that God pointed me towards a therapist who has helped me with my mental health issues. I’m definitely not at my best, but I’m now realizing that I need to take control of my life and stop putting the blame on others. I’m so glad that I found God during that time and that I had my church community to back me. Maybe one day I won’t be depressed anymore, maybe I won’t. But I know that I haven’t lived out my true purpose yet.

  35. Daniel Baldwin on August 27, 2022 at 1:10 am

    Are you going to be naming names? Because that would get you a TON of views.

  36. CoNsUmE nAgEeToS on August 27, 2022 at 1:11 am

    Yikes, we just separated this winter

  37. Amber Crombie on August 27, 2022 at 1:11 am

    I really needed this video right now. About 7 months ago, I really liked this guy & although we never dated, we talked everyday and hung out & he would write me sweet notes. We had such a connection but then he started pulling away & said he wasn’t ready for a relationship. It honestly broke me because I had put him on such a high pedestal in my life that it all just came crashing down. I also was going through family issues and felt I had no one to talk to. While I am still not completely ok, I am healing everyday, and looking back I have been able to see how this has made me stronger and how the Lord has helped me. While I still struggle with missing him, I now know that we wouldn’t have been good together.
    The song Seasons by Hillsong has really helped me. Especially the lyrics "You’re the God of seasons, I’m just in the winter" because it just reminds me to trust Him through it all.

  38. debby duarte on August 27, 2022 at 1:12 am

    Can you make a video on biblical hospitaly and how its portrayed in your life or how are you living out biblical hospitaly

  39. Nastasia Grace on August 27, 2022 at 1:14 am

    What’s your worst breakup story??? or were you blessed enough to never go through a breakup haha??

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