7 LESS POPULAR Reasons a Christian Should Break Off a Dating Relationship RIGHT AWAY!

7 LESS POPULAR Reasons a Christian Should Break Off a Dating Relationship RIGHT AWAY!

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How to you know when it’s time to break off a dating relationship? I get it. You’ve been dating for some time and you’re REALLY feeling this person. It’s not perfect, but the thought of breaking it off and starting ALL OVER again with someone else is depressing and terrifying. So, you stay and try to “make it work.” But, is that the wisest decision especially when you KNOW you should break off that relationship and it’s just not what you REALLY want? In this video I give you 7 ways to know it’s time to break off that dating relationship!

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  1. Mitch Hilton on July 25, 2022 at 11:09 pm

    We have a divorce problem because the bible says its best not to marry!

  2. MightyThor97 on July 25, 2022 at 11:10 pm

    I need some Godly counsel. I have a 7 month old child with a woman who isnt saved, and we are not married. I recently got saved. We are also living together. I told her a few days ago that if we aren’t married, then we shouldn’t be living together or having sex. I told her i have felt convicted about it. She sort of chuckled and She told me i shouldnt feel that way because we’ve already had a child and we need to live together to take care of the baby. I just dont feel right about it. Ive been praying and praying and i just dont know what to do. Im young in my faith and i need help. Do I continue to live with her and try to be a witness and abstain from sex, or do I walk away?

  3. JesseJackson on July 25, 2022 at 11:13 pm

    I have a girlfriend she is Christian and i have been in relationship in 3years … should I leave her?

  4. Kelly Richards on July 25, 2022 at 11:16 pm

    What happens if you have a child together

  5. ponarichan on July 25, 2022 at 11:22 pm

    Just ended a relationship with a christian guy. 6 out of the 7 reasons are spot on. Have been second guessing and doubting myself a lot because of this relationship. But this video gives me clarity and reaffirm my decision. Thankyou God for directing me to this video! For anyone who’s struggling through this I feel you and I will pray for you!

  6. Fluffy_07 on July 25, 2022 at 11:24 pm

    Thanks for telling me this, this makes me happy tremendously. Though being single now sucks, i know things will get better and for sure ill find the one.

  7. Darker4Serenity ASMR on July 25, 2022 at 11:26 pm

    if someone cheats

  8. _Zina on July 25, 2022 at 11:29 pm

    One big one is if he’s not leading me to Christ

  9. Tracy Huhn on July 25, 2022 at 11:29 pm

    Wow, just wow. I really needed this right now and have had a hard time trying to breakup with someone that hits most to all the pointers mentioned here. Thank you for being straight up and please pray for emotional strength through this situation I’m having a hard time with.

  10. Nardough on July 25, 2022 at 11:30 pm

    Good looking bro got some good key points in here . God bless

  11. Hoyt Hendrix on July 25, 2022 at 11:30 pm

    Thank you so much for this video! Watching it a few years later, and I am actually speaking with her tomorrow. Numbers two, four, and five are super personal for me. This gave me much courage and peace about the situation. Praise be to God!

  12. Bethel FunFam-UK on July 25, 2022 at 11:31 pm

    How do I help someone who fell In love with a Muslim but is now a Christian but can’t get over that Muslim man, constantly talking about him and can’t let him go?

  13. Twelve Keys on July 25, 2022 at 11:31 pm

    These 7 reasons in the video are not rules. I dated a non christian girl, that didn’t want to listen to anything about God. Some year later she confessed me that she accepted Jesus as her Savior and we started glorifying God together.

  14. DJKD on July 25, 2022 at 11:33 pm

    If he lies on God saying that God took lying out of him and then you found out that he was lying and knew it when they said it… RUN!!!!!

    If he makes your stomach hurt to the extent that you have to take medication because your gut is telling you that he is wrong for you… RUN!!!!!

    …. And everything Alan said!!! RUN!!!!!!!!!!!

  15. Lauri Sher on July 25, 2022 at 11:34 pm


  16. Kirushanthan Krishnapillai on July 25, 2022 at 11:36 pm

    I have question. I was dating an unbeliever. But through me I was able to share God love with her and God used that relationship. She accepted Christ. I’m still dating her and were both believer now.

  17. Bobby Leach on July 25, 2022 at 11:36 pm

    I’ve been talking to this girl and it turns out she’s Muslim. How do I handle this?

  18. Zachary Cook on July 25, 2022 at 11:37 pm

    What if you thought they were a believer and then later find out she’s not?

  19. evelyn sommerville on July 25, 2022 at 11:38 pm

    What about if your Christian boyfriend has no intention to marry you?

  20. Erika Jaena on July 25, 2022 at 11:38 pm

    ‼️Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day. If you want to be saved, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour‼️

  21. Erika Jaena on July 25, 2022 at 11:40 pm

    ‼️Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day. If you want to be saved, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour‼️

  22. Vickie Adams on July 25, 2022 at 11:45 pm

    One has to be careful dating a divorced person. According to the bible, you should not be even considering dating or remarriage of a divorced person. The person may be divorced because of fornication on their part. A lot of people may lie about why they are divorced. They may say their ex spouse cheated and they didn’t. Time is your friend. I know the Lord warned me about someone. Also listening to loved ones is a good tip. That’s why arranged marriages may work better than the romantic notions.

  23. Veronica Chow on July 25, 2022 at 11:45 pm

    I really wish I had the knowledge before I started dating. My bf & I began two years ago, & half a year into the relationship, I became Christian. It turns out that my bf doesn’t like anything about Christianity. I’ve been praying, asking for advice, sharing the Gospel w/ my bf, trying very hard under the guidance of God in hopes of touching my bf’s heart, but to no avail.

    I did learn the hard lesson of converting someone isn’t by our own efforts, but by God’s grace, so I’m praying every day & night about his salvation. But should I break it off w/ my bf, or should I be patient w/ him?

  24. Joe Rivera on July 25, 2022 at 11:45 pm

    I don’t know I think we should all be humbled. God relates his relationship with Israel to a marriage and all the signs he mentions are the signs God over looked. Israel was unbelieving, had character flaws and loaded with baggage. Yet if Israel didn’t become a spiritual adulterous he would still over look it. Not ever Christian is the same we shouldn’t be putting a line in the ground telling everyone “this is where you need to cross to enter a relationship with me” it sounds a lot like pride. The race is different to different people.

  25. Fluffy Diva on July 25, 2022 at 11:46 pm

    Thank you so much for this video. I needed this.

  26. Family First on July 25, 2022 at 11:46 pm

    There reasons for all things happened to our Life. God has a plan and purpose in your life.

    *Why God allows Breakups Relatonship?*

    Yo will praise God when you came to know the truth Why its happent to your life.
    A Biblical Answer from….

    Family Counselor ,
    Director : Institute of Christian counseling.


  27. THE BEAT by Allen Parr on July 25, 2022 at 11:46 pm

    So, what are your thoughts on this? PLEASE, PLEASE do me a favor and share this video with the singles that you know. We have a DIVORCE problem because we have a DATING problem. Let’s get it right on the front end! Love you all!

  28. Jenson Price on July 25, 2022 at 11:47 pm

    Another unpopular reason: you simply just don’t jell with them or connect with them at a deep level. You have major differences in personality and find it hard to connect

  29. Nish Heard on July 25, 2022 at 11:48 pm

    I think I should leave my boyfriend not because he has any of these issues but because I feel like I’m not good for him anymore. I don’t want to hurt him. I really live him and want to be with him and he says he is happy but I feel like I’m just on the verge of sabotaging us with my own emotional instability. I was just diagnosed with a situation clinical depression (we’re in college and I’m really unhappy with my major and my purpose or lack there of) maybe I was just meant to bring him to God but I’m just afraid I’ll ruin this relationship. I feel like I’m Gomer and I can’t last in love. I love him a lot and want happiness for him.

  30. David De León on July 25, 2022 at 11:49 pm

    I just want to say to believer women, (in general, I know many exceptions): please don’t be so arrogant and so hard with men…it is way easier to find a nice, lovely, self-caring, polite and tender woman among non-Christians, sadly, so we men have to really struggle with the thousands of pre-requisites Christian women set on us

  31. Flourish&Thrive on July 25, 2022 at 11:50 pm

    I just prayed right now for God to eradicate all pests and weeds intending (willingly or unwillingly) to cause confusion and turmoil in the area of relationships within the body of Christ. Anything not ordained by God will never bring peace. Worse off when it involves relationships.

    Single hood in right standing with God is among the most beautiful gifts I can ever think of, and praise to God when one can stand in obedience regarding this. With God, nothing is impossible, He will orchestrate every plan necessary to drive His purpose for you, He makes all things work together for the good for those who love Him and are called according to His plan.

    And just how amazing it is that eyes of the Lord range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to Him

  32. Darkie Maloney on July 25, 2022 at 11:52 pm

    Thank you Allen very up lifting video I really did needed that

  33. Miguel Arkanghel Dela Cruz on July 25, 2022 at 11:53 pm

    I’m currently Having relationship with None Believer should i break up with her? Hes starting know about Chtistianity if i break with up with her is it unfair for her and it could ruin her reputation of Christianity

  34. lucy valadez on July 25, 2022 at 11:53 pm

    My fiancé believes in god but he’s an alcoholic, god has been answering our prayers for him a I and things have been good for like 3 weeks but he messed up . I feel like I been doing my part , I been praying for him , he doesn’t want to get close to god . Ppl say to keep praying and stick with him but my mental health is important too , I’m tired of crying . Things could be good for a while but then he ends up messing up and it hurts . I don’t think I can do it anymore , I been asking god for a godly man or for a change in my fiancé but he’s not changing it’s been 3 years . I have a baby with him also so it’s hard to just leave but tomorrow I don’t even want to argue , I just want to pack my stuff and leave . I’ve told him so many times that if he doesn’t change I’ll leave . At one point in the relationship I felt a lot of resentment towards him and he felt that things were off too but he only realized things were off when we got done being intimate . I’ve been trying to do devotional plans for marriage and he was doing them with me too but look where I’m at now . Watching these videos and this isn’t the first time I watched them , this is actually my third time watching videos like these. Am I being cruel to just want to leave him to do better for myself and my son ? Idk anymore

  35. _Zina on July 25, 2022 at 11:56 pm

    Wow I said yes to each one glad I walked away I used to feel like a horrible person to break things off

  36. Flawless Wallace on July 25, 2022 at 11:56 pm

    I just ended a 2 year relationship with who I thought was my the love of my life. We had an amazing relationship and he was a sweet guy, but we were unequally yoked. And our union kept leading me into sin…I finally decided to obey Gods direction away from that relationship and closer to him. I can tell you that obedience is better than discipline! I’ve grown so much in the past month with God than I ever had in the 2 years with a non-believing boyfriend

  37. Tau Rian on July 25, 2022 at 11:56 pm

    I had to end a 3 year relationship cause of being unequally yoked, n to answer the question as y was i in the relationship in first place, cause my ex started going to church wen she knew i was a believer n wanted to accept Jesus christ but then i thought it was of her interest but then she couldn’t let go off her traditional believe n rituals as well, moreover wen we were 3 years into it she started skipping sunday services for stuff which weren’t really important n wen i understood her thing to church was only based our feelings that bothered me….finally we had to take a call…though it was hard for both of us had to make her understand….i still pray for her though…….unless God almighty changes man can do nothing…

  38. Dirt Road Diva on July 25, 2022 at 11:59 pm

    Great advice!

  39. Jay Be on July 25, 2022 at 11:59 pm

    What if you live with your unbelieving girlfriend and you have a kid? (Saved when you were already in that situation).

  40. Hyunbae Kim on July 25, 2022 at 11:59 pm

    Thank you so much, I needed this

  41. Oud • 13 years ago on July 26, 2022 at 12:00 am

    I want to show my twin brother this but he’ll just get mad, he isn’t Christian but still. His girlfriend encourages him to sneak out, and yet he WANTS to be with her. I’m so disappointed in his choices, but pray for him to be wiser.

  42. Ashley on July 26, 2022 at 12:03 am

    I had no guidance in my life. I messed around and married an individual at the wrong time in my life…when I was lost. (I was saved, but lost.) I soon realized that I made a huge mistake. Yet, we are still married and everything manifested itself 10 times greater after marriage. Smh. I wish I would have had watch this video and many others 13 years ago. Being unequally yoked isn’t good, but to those that are… stay grounded in the word and do your best, until you have the proper grounds to leave. Pray for me.

  43. Ben Hirons on July 26, 2022 at 12:04 am

    What if you’ve been together for 10 years but not married

  44. Fluffy Diva on July 26, 2022 at 12:06 am

    Thank you so much for this video. I needed this.

  45. DressedLikeNess DIY on July 26, 2022 at 12:08 am

    Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  46. Kwaviddong on July 26, 2022 at 12:09 am

    What if the lack of peace is just different temptations?

  47. Miguel Arkanghel Dela Cruz on July 26, 2022 at 12:09 am

    After watching this , i broke up with My ex because i want to follow more Jesus

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