Getting ready for marriage! | Christian Marriage Advice

Getting ready for marriage! | Christian Marriage Advice

Special thanks to Derrick & Marlee for their take on how to know if you’re ready to get married! The two of them are actually getting prepared to be missionaries in Cambodia! Follow their journey at

What would you add to the discussion on getting ready for marriage? Any key tips or suggestions?

Today we tackle the question, “How do I know I’m ready for marriage?”

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  1. Janessa Tosh on April 28, 2022 at 7:20 pm

    Marriage is not easy. It can be very hard at times but you got to always trust God.

  2. Voice of Reason 4u on April 28, 2022 at 7:23 pm

    Get wealthy 1st then think of being married
    …why do Christian people feel an urge to be married

  3. ꧁Beans ꧂ on April 28, 2022 at 7:26 pm

    First I need a boyfriend, amirite?

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  5. Amy Schuhmann on April 28, 2022 at 7:31 pm

    Wow so helpful! Thanks for stressting that we need to be selfless in marriage!

  6. Ado Puro on April 28, 2022 at 7:32 pm

    Thank you so much, nice message….

  7. C G on April 28, 2022 at 7:34 pm

    I thought this was going to be a little more biblically based. …..

  8. Carmen Caldwell on April 28, 2022 at 7:35 pm

    Truly a blessing!

  9. Amber Blyledge on April 28, 2022 at 7:35 pm

    I have no money to give to the homeless. However, if they ask for something to eat, I will buy them a burger or something, even if it means I have to go hungry. I can go hungry for a day, that’s fine. If I absolutely have to I can raid my parent’s kitchen.

    I hope to one day be able to talk to the people who ask for food more, and help them out in other ways too. My goal is to be able to buy them some nice clothes, let them shower at my church, and give them a little work so they can start earning. Even if they cut my yard (tieny tiny) for 50 every two weeks or so, that’s something. I don’t have much to give, but I do try to give what I can.

    Before you ask, no, I don’t want congratulations. I don’t want praise. I don’t care about that crap. I want to point something out as Christians.
    I have noticed that a lot of christians judge HARSHLY. I, too, have been guilty of that, as I am less likely to give stuff to someone asking for money (unless I offer food and they take it). I have looked at people in Wal-Mart and had nasty thoughts about their appearance. We are human. We make mistakes. I make mistakes often.

    If I do my absolute best not to judge people baised on their appearances, we should also do our best to not judge behaviors unless directly putting ourselves or others in danger. Even then, we aren’t supposed to *Judge*.
    Remember this in ALL things. Remember this when you see the gay couple walking down the street holding hands. Remember this when looking at politicians and their followers. Remember this when seeing the homeless and the rich. Remember this when you see the depressed boy in the alley cutting himself. Remember this when you see the woman with the Hijab. They are human. So are you.


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  11. jvolstad on April 28, 2022 at 7:36 pm

    Paul says it’s better not to marry.

    Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. 9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

  12. Solaceboy on April 28, 2022 at 7:36 pm

    I regret getting married. I was stupid enough to listen to Christians. Marriage isn’t for everyone. And no, I wouldn’t have been sleeping around if I never got married.

  13. Monica Abdel Malak on April 28, 2022 at 7:38 pm

    I am saving myself for marriage….who else???!!!

  14. Joy Porter on April 28, 2022 at 7:41 pm

    chip and joanna gaines… pure prefection

  15. She Sees Fortress on April 28, 2022 at 7:43 pm

    Love the song!

  16. Christopher Gallardo Jr. on April 28, 2022 at 7:44 pm

    You guys are such Jesus Geeks, I like it!

  17. Madyson1811 on April 28, 2022 at 7:45 pm

    Hey guys just wanted to say your videos have helped me so much that I share these with my friends and I subscribed thank you

  18. The Goldsmiths on April 28, 2022 at 7:47 pm

    Great advice ! Marriage is a beautiful thing especially when we do it God’s way. There will always be things you have to learn in a marriage but I totally agree that there is a certain " readiness" you should have before pursuing marriage. Often times we want things we aren’t quite ready for which results in us contaiminating our blessing. It’s definitely possible to meet the person God has for you , but ruin it because of a lack of self development and preparation. I have learned from personal experience. I got married when I wasn’t completely whole and it led to many unecessary problems in our marriage that we overcame by God’s strength. It could have been prevented if I had been patient and allowed God to make me whole first, but it has given me wisdom to share with people who desire marriage.

  19. Nancy Medeiros on April 28, 2022 at 7:47 pm

    Thank you for your information and Amen

  20. Bill Baehr on April 28, 2022 at 7:48 pm

    There is no authority given in the Bible for any marriage license or marriage ceremony by the clergy. Marriage license and ceremony performed by the clergy is a function of the state and not the church. A so-called church that performs licensed marriage ceremonies is a fake church and an agency of the state to entrap men in family court and destroy the family.  
    Today and for the past 100 years a marriage license is required by the church and the state to marry. A license is: License Definition: A special permission to do something on, or with, somebody else’s property which, were it not for the license, could be legally prevented or give rise to legal action in tort or trespass. A marriage license makes it legal to abrogate Common Law coverture marriage by statutes. All states except for Louisiana are Common Law states. The Common Law is the law unless abrogated by statute. All statutes abrogate the Common Law. The Common Law is based upon Biblical Law so when a church requires a marriage license it is abrogating God’s Laws on marriage. The church has no authority in the Bible to marry anyone by ceremony or license. All that authority comes from the state by statute. So the minister/priest is an officer of the state solemnizing a marriage that is against the laws of God,

  21. ZZZ on April 28, 2022 at 7:50 pm

    Yeah my cooking skills are ☹

  22. Rafael Machado on April 28, 2022 at 7:55 pm

    I need a girl

  23. tihitna shigute on April 28, 2022 at 7:56 pm

    Beautiful couple! God bless you my family in Christ!

  24. Raquil Morgan on April 28, 2022 at 7:57 pm

    Why is the thumbnail of a BRIDE getting PROPOSED to?

  25. doctorw560 on April 28, 2022 at 7:59 pm

    Please pray for me I’m going through a really rough time and please pray for my parents and my mom’s boyfriend who they are unsaved and please pray for my cousins they’re on drugs

  26. andrea crawford on April 28, 2022 at 8:00 pm

    Dude sick song

  27. Yours Truly, Chris on April 28, 2022 at 8:03 pm

    The first shall be last is here today and might get spammed again

  28. Kalyssa McWilliams on April 28, 2022 at 8:04 pm

    I’m 23 and a single mother of 2. I’m always asking God when the right mans gonna come along but then he reassured me that he is ready for me but I am not ready for him. Idk if that’s my faith or my appearance.

  29. Aubrey T on April 28, 2022 at 8:05 pm

    I love the song at the end!!!!

  30. Kent Peterson money talks on April 28, 2022 at 8:09 pm

    Wait did he use the F-bomb in that song?

  31. Tierra Richardson on April 28, 2022 at 8:10 pm

    Amen, great video

  32. Surabhi Pradhan on April 28, 2022 at 8:10 pm

    So blessed advice thank you very much

  33. Paul and Morgan on April 28, 2022 at 8:14 pm

    Derrick, that song was legit. I was really getting into it!

  34. Tell-It-Like-It-Is on April 28, 2022 at 8:16 pm

    Don’t forget the box of condoms. Lol.

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