Christian Advice: How to Get Over Someone I 4 Christian Tips After You Breakup

Christian Advice: How to Get Over Someone I 4 Christian Tips After You Breakup

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Christian advice on how to get over someone starts with grieving well.

Christian advice on how to get over someone #2: It is important to repent of any idolatry.

Christian advice on how to get over someone #3: Set up healthy boundaries after the breakup with your ex.

Christian advice on how to get over someone #4: Let go of the hope of rekindling the relationship.

For more Christian advice on how to get over someone:

Here’s the RELEVANT Magazine article I wrote about healthy Christian boundaries between you and your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend:


  1. Joseph on April 2, 2022 at 5:57 pm

    Hmmm… relationships, very sentimental topic. I just pray and hope in the name of Jesus, nobody’s having sex within their relationships. There’s a word for that, it’s called fornication. It’s called mortal sin. Save yourself for marriage and if you do that, the break ups won’t hurt so much. Heaven is real and so is hell. Time for you to choose!

  2. Sunday Dachomo on April 2, 2022 at 5:58 pm

    wow, i just can’t thank spelltabernacle@Gmail com enough for they helped me bring back my Ex lover to me they’re good

  3. Larna Van Niekerk on April 2, 2022 at 5:59 pm

    A boy broke up with me when I was in high school. We were together when I was in grade 10. Then broke up and we got back together again in grade 12. We broke up 2 days before I wrote my final exams. I cried for a few minutes and then pulled myself together because I knew I couldn’t fall apart before my exams. I am currently 38 and I have knocked into him again. A few years ago I was at a wedding where he was the best man. I surprisingly experience feelings that I didn’t think I would. I felt bad. I saw him again in this year. Due to the virus he couldn’t work as he is a chef. So he was selling food and delivering it to people’s homes. My parents also ordered food from him and as a result I got to see him again. I immediately felt bad and uncomfortable. I started remembering things about our relationship. I feel like I need to talk to him so that I can heal and move on but I am scared and I don’t know how to reach him. I also feel like he might not want to talk about the past. I think he might be married which might also make him hesitant to talk to me. I desperately need advice. Pray for me.

  4. Annikaelisaa on April 2, 2022 at 6:00 pm

    Dealing with a difficult breakup right now and to make matters worse he is also my direct downstairs neighbor. He sleeps directly underneath me and ugh I literally can’t escape from him. Prayers for us both would be appreciated! Because we both need to heal and move on.

  5. ALLEN GRIGGIE on April 2, 2022 at 6:00 pm

    Thank you I needed this

  6. Rishon Tsosie on April 2, 2022 at 6:04 pm

    Help me

  7. Code Dee on April 2, 2022 at 6:11 pm

    I have been prone to engage with partners who are not equally yoked. I have idolised being in a relationship and those who I’m in a relationship with. I need to repent. Please reader, brother or sister in God, pray for me.

  8. Nathalee Clarke on April 2, 2022 at 6:12 pm

    This is so true thank you for your video I just broke up with someone I really loved. Now looking at it I did idolize this person I put them first over my self and I wanted. All I hope for is they find their own way and I can heal from all this pain and heartbreak.

  9. Kar3n on April 2, 2022 at 6:14 pm

    Close the book not the chapter. Every men i been with is a different story and different book. Ever hear people comparing u to others or saying stuff that happened with someone el. They have one book one story and everybody is in it toguether. Also talking about exes to new relationships i dont think is good unless is necesary. They should be irrelevant.

  10. M. Daddy on April 2, 2022 at 6:16 pm

    Sucks when they still want to remain friends.

  11. Ryan on April 2, 2022 at 6:18 pm

    wow this was
    spot on. thank you very much!

  12. Matt Torres on April 2, 2022 at 6:21 pm

    who else got cheated on :{

  13. Katya Medovnyk on April 2, 2022 at 6:23 pm

    Thank you very much!

  14. Mango on April 2, 2022 at 6:24 pm

    Yea that the thing I don’t wanna get over him and no NO he is not hurting me there’s so much history with him I don’t want to

  15. Kar3n on April 2, 2022 at 6:26 pm

    Ok i think i have perfected this.
    What i do is when i break up,
    * i mourn the guy and the relationship. I dont do rebounds or try to replays right away.
    *i disect the relatiinship in my mind to find my mistakes to learn for the next time.

  16. Darricka Dukes on April 2, 2022 at 6:27 pm

    24 years on and off

  17. Horn knee Man on April 2, 2022 at 6:27 pm

    " Lord either give me her,
    Or give me the strength to destroy the love I have for her"

  18. Evangeline Marie Rossi on April 2, 2022 at 6:27 pm

    Fellow Christian Youtuber here!!! Been binging Christian heartbreak videos all week, loved yours! Just posted mine too and I love how we’re in a community spreading the love of Christ!!! God bless.

  19. Piso Blog on April 2, 2022 at 6:28 pm

    i’m a guy and just got heart broken. it is so depressing. I can’t eat, I can’t drink, I can’t sleep, I can’t focus on anything. It’s not something I can deal with like physical stress or pain.. But thank you for your advise, I pray that everyone of you out there like me will find joy and grow more maturely from your breakups.

  20. liesenjj on April 2, 2022 at 6:29 pm

    I listen to this, multiple times and the tears..

    thank you for the strong, leadership thetoric…. God bless

  21. Felipe Castillo on April 2, 2022 at 6:29 pm

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  22. Thepupps5 on April 2, 2022 at 6:30 pm

    This help me so much. Thank you. my only idle is jesus, not a girl im dating.

  23. janeline on April 2, 2022 at 6:31 pm

    Pls pray for me to help me move on from a recent relationship. It was my relationship after knowing the Lord but we failed sexually. He said he is also a Christian but was also struggling with it since the beginning of us getting to know each other. Due to my loneliness, I compromised and instead of letting him grow in Christ, I distracted him but in turn it also revealed my past hurts and feelings of abandonment. I’m learning once again to trust the Lord and confess my sins to people of God whom I know loves me and prays for me. Pray for me that I won’t listen to the attacks of the devil that I will not be loved anymore and will not see myself as a damaged goods but as a redeemed daughter of Christ.

  24. Anne Ngigi Official on April 2, 2022 at 6:33 pm

    I was attached to guy for 9 months.. we had not made it official but we talked daily… He then told he has promised to marry another gal ..we weren’t even dating but wait…am hurt like hell….God help me

  25. Erika Alisauskaite on April 2, 2022 at 6:34 pm

    … to me was really not difficult to stop thinking about anyone coz I never have kids with them…

  26. Felipe Castillo on April 2, 2022 at 6:35 pm

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  27. SYLVIA-MWANGI. on April 2, 2022 at 6:35 pm

    Am seeking a healing in my heart.. We go to the same church and I don’t know how to react when I see him….

  28. Doggy World on April 2, 2022 at 6:35 pm


  29. Jeska Haley on April 2, 2022 at 6:36 pm

    What about someone you really LOVED

  30. Kristel Malabanan on April 2, 2022 at 6:37 pm

    I need healing so bad. We are engaged and one day he just decided that he don’t want me anymore. And the pain feels like killing me. I need healing so bad. So bad.

  31. Tabitha Headington on April 2, 2022 at 6:37 pm

    Thank you so much for this video!!! Really helpful! Xx

  32. Tau Rian on April 2, 2022 at 6:40 pm

    2:53 to the point…damn truth!!

  33. Joel Emmanuel on April 2, 2022 at 6:43 pm

    After the break up is it ok to be friends with the guy even though that guy still has feelings over the girl(but it is not God’s will for them to be together so they broke up)

  34. Drew Wesley on April 2, 2022 at 6:43 pm

    #4 is hard when the heart set on someone, especially one the Lord seemed to have provided. What’s currently helping me (through a resolving heartbreak) is resting in God’s ability to provide mutual confirmation between man and woman, make a good way between them, and guidance for them. I erred in idolizing this relationship earlier and overthinking future steps rather than trusting in God with necessary faith and action. This video is gold.

  35. peter tancred on April 2, 2022 at 6:45 pm

    Great points Brother Idolatry was the last thing I could think for the failure of my marriage . As one observation I have heard ‘We got married because it was better than burning for all eternity’. It failed because my eyes and heart went elsewhere…

  36. Laura Padron on April 2, 2022 at 6:50 pm

    im dealing with heart break. please pray for me. thank you so much

  37. Scott Gann on April 2, 2022 at 6:51 pm

    Do you have scriptural basis for this advice? I’d like to read what the Bible has to say about this sort of topic (even if it’s not specifically about breaking up)

  38. karen on April 2, 2022 at 6:52 pm

    this helped. Thanks

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