Four Words That Can Change Your Marriage

Four Words That Can Change Your Marriage

Pastor Greg continues his series “Happily Even After” with a message titled “Four Words That Can Change Your Marriage” (Ephesians 5, 1 Corinthians 13)


  1. David Barnes on March 24, 2022 at 5:30 pm

    Good to listen to and some truth yes husbands must love their wives! However, Because this is not a full Gospel teaching pastor loses The credibility of Holy Spirit Inspired teaching !

  2. Paul Kelly on March 24, 2022 at 5:32 pm

    I loved what he said I saw my own mistakes in his words . I and we must change the direction we are going ,,we must get back to the start of our relationship . Start over,bring back mutual respect .for it has gotten lost over time .

  3. Butterfly Girl on March 24, 2022 at 5:32 pm

    shut up? really? seriously ? that isnt Christ like, pastor like,. a true Christian we should see the Lord flow from them …you are saying a lot of words w/out saying much of the Lord’s Word. I have heard that you are a false teacher. i believe it now. the pastor i follow will be reading from, quoting from, living like and representing the Lord’s Word, all the time.. people come to church to hear God’s Word and to learn how to be a better and more loving and forgiving Christian.. i heard nothing here that inspired me to do better, be better or to try to emulate the Father. a pastor also acts and behaves like we should. his behavior should be above everyone else’s so we dont stumble because of his behavior. saying shut up could cause someone to stumble. they will think , he talks like that then i can too. you will be held accountable for those you lead to stumble..

  4. Rose on March 24, 2022 at 5:33 pm

    Six years down the line and this sermon is most relevant and vocal in 2019 and more years to come.
    It deserves millions views.
    God bless you pastor Greg.

  5. ColdSteel0204 on March 24, 2022 at 5:37 pm

    This is a game changer. I amazed how when step outside of this and each time I return to church. I’m blindly walking into the message that I NEED. That’s not a coincidence, God delivers.

  6. Healing on March 24, 2022 at 5:37 pm

    Every marriage is unique. There is no perfect marriage. Be honest with yourself. Tell your spouse how you want to be treated. I believe that if you ask God about your problem with your spouse…He will only tell you "why don’t you talk/discuss it with him/her? Communication is the key.

  7. Cli & Mils TV on March 24, 2022 at 5:38 pm

    This message really got me. The most important is being conneted to the source because only He can enable you to obey what you are called to.

  8. Nsikakobong Eyakz on March 24, 2022 at 5:39 pm

    give it a try after church

  9. Eve F on March 24, 2022 at 5:42 pm

    If "husband’s love your wives" is the 4 words.. we there prayers…

  10. Sade Ojolola on March 24, 2022 at 5:43 pm

    Listened 30/7/2020 and i feel so blessed, alot of lessons learnt. Very knowledgeable, truly the word of God conquers all. God bless you Pastor Grey Laurie

  11. Jason Brown on March 24, 2022 at 5:43 pm

    Awesome message Pastor Greg!! Thank you.

  12. Big John on March 24, 2022 at 5:43 pm

    A "Perfect Marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

  13. Sir Pepe of House Kek on March 24, 2022 at 5:44 pm

    If you’re a man, I got four words for you: DO NOT GET MARRIED.

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  15. kenny branshaw on March 24, 2022 at 5:44 pm

    4 words = I’m tired of arguing.

  16. Ema C on March 24, 2022 at 5:45 pm

    I still can’t stop thinking about his "hello kitty" comment and im 10 mins into the video.

  17. AudiAliasTT on March 24, 2022 at 5:46 pm

    Those words gives me strength for the day.

  18. Lic. Admin Daysiling V on March 24, 2022 at 5:53 pm

    Jajajaja hello kitty sleepers

  19. Jenny A on March 24, 2022 at 5:54 pm

    4 words = Jesus is our answer! Focusing on our Creator changes everything especially when observing Mat. 11:28-30 and working together on casting our cares before Jesus who’ll make a supernatural exchange with us where His burden is light and His yoke is easy. Got to learn to let go and let God stop trying to act as though we have all of the answers when we don’t.

  20. Magis VITA on March 24, 2022 at 5:58 pm

    Pastor Greg what about the men this is way to easy to talk about the men’s short comings

  21. Philip Buckley on March 24, 2022 at 5:58 pm

    the hippie Church….Calvary Chapel…..just preaching the word, of God….and this guy…..once more has a net worth of more than one million dollars….3.5 million to be precise….what is up, with this…

  22. Jamie Lacoste on March 24, 2022 at 6:01 pm

    Sad that my husband is still a twin brother to his twin sister than being my spouse. I can’t even consider our marriage a marriage at all.

  23. Amanda Webb on March 24, 2022 at 6:01 pm

    What if your husband isnt a Christian or has walked away from God? A drinker or an alcoholic? Or if he is a 2and husband who does not love his stepchildren as he should?

  24. Bugsy Freebury on March 24, 2022 at 6:01 pm

    Thanks Paster Greg…. Wife and I are parked in the Kia listening to your message. Should I say…… I, as a man was listing closely since you’re message was directed at husbands…. Good message, helped us out…. we will keep listening…. How can I, as the husband, get filled with the holy spirit?

  25. Dolly on March 24, 2022 at 6:01 pm

    Dont wait til you feel love, love now, love anyway.

  26. cm Cm on March 24, 2022 at 6:03 pm

    Prayer request for my kids, thx u prayer warriors

  27. Rosser Scott on March 24, 2022 at 6:04 pm

    Out of gas and the wife is selling the car.

  28. Dr Mugs on March 24, 2022 at 6:12 pm

    Paul was right…you will be happier single. Marriage is HARD

  29. Andy Bennett on March 24, 2022 at 6:15 pm

    I enjoy listening to your sermons. If there is any way to add on the screen the person signing for my deaf nephew it would be a blessing.

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  31. Lexie Overman on March 24, 2022 at 6:20 pm

    Love this!

  32. Steve G on March 24, 2022 at 6:22 pm

    I continue to look for honest advice and feedback from other’s who have experienced something similar. I am struggling on the path forward and would love to hear from others. Long story short, for almost 18 years, I have been married to someone who has narcissistic traits. Our marriage has been struggling for a few years now; about 2 months ago we attended our 19th marriage counseling session together. At that session I told my wife that somehow our marriage needs to drastically get better quickly, or I feel we need pull the plug and end our marriage since we have been going to marriage counseling for far longer than we probably should have been going; and not much, if anything, improved. Part of me was hopeful that this was going to be the warning shot and my wife would finally hear me; that she would finally understand that I am done with the narcissistic type of behavior, done with the mean comments, the high level of control, and being made out to feel like I am never doing the right thing, never doing it quickly enough, etc. Unfortunately, the few weeks after that counselling sessions things did not improve, they actually seemed worse. For example, one morning I started her car so it was warm for her when she left for work (which I do for her quite often). I wasn’t looking for a pat on the back, but she very rudely said “oh, thank you so much for everything you do”. One day I went and bought a snow shovel and salted and cleaned the ice from the sidewalk. Instead of getting any type of thanks or appreciation, she told me that it is so interesting that I had time to go to Dollar General (which is about 3 miles from our house) and buy a new shovel and salt. I got criticized for doing laundry and putting in on ‘her side’ of the bed and not having it moved off of the bed so she could lay down at night without having to touch laundry. I got criticized for having the space heater on in the living room. I got criticized for eating all the lasagna; when in fact I put it in a Tupperware container so she could take it in her lunch. I got questioned on going for a walk along the river. It was just relentless verbal attacks. By no means am I a perfect husband, I am far from it, and I have made plenty of mistakes, but I have always tried to be loving and supportive and take care of her and our kids. I have dealt with this type of narcissistic behavior for a very long time. Just another example, I recently learned why I was in severe pain for a couple of days this past summer; I was passing a 6mm kidney stone. While I was in pain, I got in a hot bath to try and alleviate some of the pain. I recall vividly her making a mean comment that I was in the bath while she was doing something for the kids. I have agonized over the decision for many months, and probably years now, but about 5 weeks ago I asked for divorce and have been moved out since that time. She said it wasn’t fair and that I blindsided her, even though we have attended those 19 marriage counseling sessions together; I reluctantly agreed to separation for now. For the last five weeks, I have been buried in loving texts, pictures of our kids and of some fun memories in the past, she sent me the wedding song that we danced too, she has been sending me quotes from the bible, she asked that I listen to various books on making marriages work, etc; she asked that I meet with our Deacon at church and attend a church marriage weekend retreat. She has buried me in a variety of, what I would consider ‘tactics’, to try and get me back home; she has thrown our vows in my face multiple times and said that I am destroying the kids by moving out. I have been holding strong and have not caved by moving back in; recently she has been all over the board with her comments and emotions. Seems silly talking about, but we own a car and a truck. For the last 5 weeks I have drove the truck and she has had the car. Roughly a week ago she said she wants the truck, which is no problem, but I asked her why; she said she doesn’t need to answer why, she just wants it. She said she plans on keeping the truck for a few weeks since its not fair that I got to drive it for a few weeks (I don’t know the intentions of this, other than some form of power play, or maybe knowing if she has the truck, I won’t be able to use it to do things I enjoy). She also seems to be getting controlling with the kids; she told me that I am the one who decided to leave them, so its not fair for me to ever get both of our kids overnight while she is alone, since she didn’t decide to leave. I reminded her that I didn’t leave the kids, that I only left her. Shortly after making these types of comments, she follows up with a load of very nice loving texts. This is all extremely hard for me, because she occasionally acts nice and says she is willing to try and change, but seems all over the place with her comments and emotions; I’m afraid I will fall back into the trap. Over the last few days she has attempted to be nice, although almost to the point of smothering because I have asked for time and space, but she seems to refuse to give that to me. Here recently she has been very frequently saying “I Love You”; almost over using the words. She has made multiple attempts to try and be affectionate, which in a normal circumstance would be fine, but not after we are separated. I worry greatly about our kids, I feel she is subjecting them to a ton of sadness and possibly emotional manipulation, with the intentions being of playing the victim card in front of the kids and trying to make them feel bad for her and make me out to look like the bad guy (she told me she is always crying in front of the kids…and even yesterday when I saw her she cried multiple times in front of the kids). Even though I asked for divorce, I still do not wish her unhappiness; I just want everyone to get along and be nice and supportive with everyone. To make matters even more frustrating, recently she told me she was offered a job in Michigan (about 5 hours from where we currently live in Ohio). I am settled here in Ohio now, have a good job here, etc. I am happy for her that she was offered the job, I know that is more what she wants to do versus her current job, so that part makes me happy; but come on, wanting to relocate now while we are separated. I feel like she is doing everything she can to try and make things difficult for me, especially with our 2 kids. It’s just very inconsistent, it can change by the day, or even by the hour; sometimes she is sweet and nice, then there are plenty of moments of comments and actions that just aren’t nice. I’m struggling on the path forward, so any words of advice would be greatly appreciated.

  33. Emanuel Cazarez on March 24, 2022 at 6:24 pm

    This belongs to Christ. These are the 4 words I came up with. Whenever we look at anything or anybody, those words must be brought

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  36. Anita Harrell on March 24, 2022 at 6:26 pm

    Merry Christmas and a happy new years

  37. LES on March 24, 2022 at 6:26 pm

    Four words: "We are not enemies."

  38. liz on March 24, 2022 at 6:28 pm

    What about a unevenly yoked marriage?

  39. Joan Cares on March 24, 2022 at 6:30 pm

    40 yrs married and I feel like we’re strangers we both argue over anything that is said. We need Prayer please and our children and grandchildren are all not wanting to be in our life. We need a miracle Thankyou God

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