My Husband Wants a Divorce, What Do I Do?

My Husband Wants a Divorce, What Do I Do?

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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “I have been married for 28 years and we have 3 children in their 20’s. We’ve had a good marriage and I would say my husband was my best friend but a little over a year ago he came to me and said he wanted a divorce, that he had been lying to himself and basically to me our whole marriage and that he was gay and didn’t want to hide it anymore. My world shattered as I tried to understand how I could have been so blind, how I could have spent all these years with this man and he was really always attracted to men. I’ve been going to counseling and am thankful that my church family has rallied around me but I’m still feeling like there is a hole in my soul. I found your videos and hoped you would help me figure out how to feel whole again.”

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  1. Mr. D. on March 20, 2022 at 6:02 pm

    It’s not just men. My Dad’s 2nd wife had an affair with a woman and divorced my Dad. She is still living with the woman that she had the affair with.

  2. United by United on March 20, 2022 at 6:09 pm

    11k subs 1 comment why?

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