The Christian Marriage Advice NO ONE Wants to Hear!
The Christian Marriage Advice NO ONE Wants to Hear!
Ladies, are you unknowingly pushing your husband away? In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the hidden habits that create disconnection, resentment, and emotional distance in marriage. My Rise Up Queens Christian marriage coaches are joining me to share the powerful breakthroughs that have transformed their marriages through faith, communication, and emotional healing.
We’re exposing the biggest mistakes wives make and how to shift into God’s design for marriage, including:
How speaking death over your husband is breaking your connection
Why expecting him to read your mind leads to frustration
The role of pride and self-righteousness in disconnection
How to validate your husband’s emotions without losing your own voice
Why your husband is NOT meant to be your source of security or self-worth
If you’re longing for deeper intimacy, trust, and oneness in your marriage, this conversation is for you. You do not have to stay stuck in the same patterns—there is a way to build a strong, Christ-centered marriage that thrives.
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Chapters:
0:00 – Introduction – What’s hurting your marriage?
0:13 – Welcome to Rise Up Queens – Helping women step into the freedom Christ died for
0:38 – What’s NOT working in your marriage – The hidden causes of disconnection
1:03 – Speaking death over your husband – How constant criticism is destroying intimacy
2:19 – Expecting your husband to be just like you – The trap of self-righteousness
3:02 – Dehumanizing your husband – How invalidation breaks trust
4:37 – Can you see his pain? – The danger of prioritizing “being right” over love
5:18 – Why your feelings keep getting bigger – The need for emotional validation
6:16 – Your husband is NOT the enemy – Overcoming resentment in marriage
6:50 – Your husband is not your source of security – Finding safety in God, not your spouse
7:09 – Expecting him to read your mind – The communication breakdown every wife must fix
8:10 – The guessing game is destroying your marriage – Why clear communication is key
9:07 – Are you blocking your husband from loving you? – The fear of being fully seen
9:50 – Invitation to Rise Up Kings & Queens – Transform your marriage with us
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It’s utterly astounding how even Christian vvomen destroy their own marriages effortlessly. They weaponize sex, want you to read their minds, stonewall, behave in such wretched sabotaging ways, etc. The psychological abuse and manipulation are truly remarkable. Especially after kids and with menopause. I don’t think I’ll ever get married again
It is rare that when either spouse reaches the contempt stage it is best to let each other go. Here this. Change him. That is not going to.happen. to secure your attachment and build love and intimacy, not just sex, you must have the hard discussions. Q&A and be prepared for very thought provoking answers and you must have the strength, both must ask, find out, share. If you don’t ask, you don’t receive. That way you are heard,
God gave us the perfect order of marriage in 1 Corinthians 7. When there is any deviation from this, both parties will struggle.
Modern churches, especially in America, will not preach this. In marriage, it is imperative to be living out the Greatest Commandment as well (Mk. 13).
Feminism is a cancer on society. Women were created to be a help mate.
So so good. Sometimes I just need to be heard then my feelings can relax!
Removing sex from the relationship because YOU don’t feel it….
Listen to your inner monologue sbout your spouse. If you are critical or feel contempt, surrender that to Jesus and ask the Holy Spirit for grace to share with them. Self awareness defeats self deception. Shalom.
Was not even a human to me. Thats funny. Did he know this before the marriage? No