4 Helpful Rules for Discernment
4 Helpful Rules for Discernment
When we are discerning God’s will in our lives, we often get overwhelmed by the anxiety of making the right choice and don’t permit ourselves to consider what we actually want. In this video, Fr. Mike Schmitz encourages us to weigh all the choices that are open to us, good for us, wise, and desired by us. The last of the four is often overlooked, so Fr. Mike explains why it is just as important to pay attention to our heart’s desires as it is to consider the other three factors when we are discerning a decision.
Fr. Mike is also a presenter in the following programs from Ascension:
Belonging: Baptism in the Family of God (https://bit.ly/2vQgGRx)
Chosen: This is Your Catholic Faith (https://bit.ly/2nCKKLK)
Altaration: The Mystery of the Mass Revealed (https://bit.ly/2vG9KX2)
YOU: Life, Love, and the Theology of the Body (https://bit.ly/2raspVB)
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That is my greatest fear, separating myself from God by ignoring him, or being to afraid to take a chance.
Excellent! Thank you.
thanks fr Mike, such a good compass
I love listening yo you and your very wise ideas, Father Mike. I never know if I am doing the right thing, so am probably not. I always ask the Holy Spirit to give me wisdom and discernment. I have made many wrong decisions in my life, but I continue to live what I think is the best way for me. I do ask Jesus to show me his will for my life. I wait for his answer.
Thanks for this. I feel overwhelmed and scared of being hurt, but I also don’t want responsibilities because they feel too much. But I’ve been seriously thinking of pursuing a business so… having this set into words helps a lot.
Thanks Father, this was very helpful.
Thank you for your guidance
I don’t have a hard time discerning relationships but I have a lot of trouble discerning jobs/careers
You have no idea how much this helped me. I pray God bless you. Thank you
Thank you Fr. Mike, God bless you❤
2024 and am here! Thank you fr. Mike! God bless you and this channel.
I have a girlfriend that has told me that she has started to think about potentially going into holy orders. She does not seem to be very sure though because she said she wants to put our relationship on pause while she fuigured this out. I of course would have a bias in this scenario. I want to make sure that Gods will be done before my own. The issue I’m facing is I’m not sure if my influence is me working as a tool for God to show her where she should be or If I am an obstacle. I think the correct answer is to just let her fuigure it out and stay back but I don’t know that this is what I should do. We are going to talk to a priest tomorrow. Does anyone have any advice? Preferably someone that’s in holy orders?
You’re the first Father that I would actually say, "You’re cool."
Beware of the one that winks the eye.
I remember reading a book in a book I read a book once ctfu forgive that just made me feel like I gotta stop drinking coffee 777 but I am grateful for the advice
This video gave me some much comfort. It really give me better perspectives on this.
THANKS FATHER MIKE! Once again you have explained something so well. I’m in my 60s now but never to late to learn something and try to improve. Wish i saw this video as a youth
What does this have to do with discernment of spirits in people? Can you see the colors? Do you hear Jesus?
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This has been very helpful. And I can say I am struggling right now… really struggling. I am discerning going into the Seminary. I’ve been in a serious relationship for 2 and a half years, and this is the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make, it hurts a lot.
Thank you Father, very enlightening.
I can’t discern, I have very poor capacity to apply common sense in life and a series of bad choices haunt me.
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Thank you father mike! ❤
Worldly vs Unworldly
Thank you, very helpful pieces of advice. Is it a good, open and wise door? And do I want to go down this door? The need to take responsibility for your decisions is true, I used to shy away from taking decisions though.
I really struggle with discernment with my business and relationship decisions.
I want to do God’s will at all times.
But I do struggle with choices and will.
Needed this word tonight- Thank you, Fr. Mike. God bless brother.
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Discernment/ prudence is also important in how we give our impression of others.
Discernment from a CATHOLIC priest? That’s like leaving your child with a catholic priest.
Discernment is extremely important. Something I am practising more this year.
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as someone who is discerning a big decision…this is a big help, a great relief and a point of reflection
This is what I needed. Thanks and God bless you.
Att: an ex atheist.
I love the last part.
"Even if you make the wrong decision even after asking all those decisions, the Lord STILL will be with you. And He always provides a way to get back on track."
This is so reassuring, especially for someone like me who always doubts themselves and their own decisions; who always rely on God’s voice. But there are times in my life when I feel like I don’t hear Him as much, or clearly; or maybe I did but I just didn’t like His answer. So I seek out the answers for myself and try to see if what I want to believe is what God wants for me.
Hearing this statement allowed me to not be scared, because knowing that even if I make mistakes, or make the wrong decision, I know my God will still love me, and will still accept me no matter what.
How can’t be discern?
Father Mike, you’re really hit on the point. I often say to God, ‘Your will be done, it’s up to You God. " Because i don’t want to take the responsibility of my choices. Thank you father Mike, this is what God want me to know.
Discernment/ prudence is also important in how we give our impression of others.
The Eureka moment for me in this video as I struggle badly with discerning what is mine as a free willed person that should pick up their cross and bare my responsibility vs when I need to give it up to the Lord is when Fr. Mike says "you are free to make whatever decision you choose and know that God will be there to support you on the other side of it." WOW. What a clarity moment.
You helped a lot