4 Tips for Christian Dating | Bianca Juarez Olthoff

4 Tips for Christian Dating | Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Did you know that nearly 50% of the Church is comprised of single people? In week 2 of Modern Romance, Pastor Bianca Juarez Olthoff has the Christian dating advice you’re looking for because we’re learning how to date for our soulmates.

Relationships are complicated, but do they have to be? How do you know if your one is “the one”? Can a book as old as the Bible help relationships today? We’re talking about being single, dating, marriage, and more in our new series, Modern Romance.

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The Concept of Soulmates – 00:00
Only God Can Make You Whole – 4:09
Date For Your Soulmate – 7:08
Power of Our Enemy – 12:50
Love Does Not Dishonor Others – 17:16
People Are Not Property – 22:05

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  1. PATSY MERCADO on October 2, 2022 at 1:32 am

    Wow… What a powerful message. So blessed.

  2. YouTubeVideoAdmin on October 2, 2022 at 1:32 am

    im hearing this a good time

  3. Bruce Hemsworth on October 2, 2022 at 1:34 am

    I am 42 & not yet married. Right now I don’t have the desire to be married and I may never marry. But, I know that Christ (God) will be more than enough.

  4. barkbb on October 2, 2022 at 1:34 am

    Wait how do you know if it’s the right time

  5. oaklandsoldier8520 on October 2, 2022 at 1:34 am

    I’m just single, lonely and depressed. Nuff said.

  6. Chris Hand on October 2, 2022 at 1:34 am

    Im a christian 🙂 but its a little bit different because girls expect that PERFECT guy. Just from my experience ive been judged , rejected , and put on a shelf because i wasnt THAT PERFECT guy girls want. Not every guy has tattoos, drinks on friday night, or just fits in.

  7. Jason Jones on October 2, 2022 at 1:39 am

    Amen my wife will come in Jesus name

  8. Nichole Cooper on October 2, 2022 at 1:39 am

    The right person at the wrong time..is a wrong relationship. The wrong person at the right time.. is a wrong relationship. The wrong person at the wrong time.. that’s a really wrong relationship! Oh man. Can I get a right relationship!?

  9. Andrea Dsouza on October 2, 2022 at 1:41 am

    Thank you Bianca! Amazing <3

  10. Octave Lindly on October 2, 2022 at 1:42 am

    She said her and her husband don’t talk about finances on dates. Does that mean they don’t agree on finances or aren’t excited about how they honor god in their finances?

  11. Nitro Needy on October 2, 2022 at 1:43 am

    "You complete me" is saying, "I’m not whole."

  12. Nicodemus Harding on October 2, 2022 at 1:47 am

    Soul is mind will emotions

  13. Brian Valdes on October 2, 2022 at 1:48 am

    I am giving my life to Jesus

  14. OWPS on October 2, 2022 at 1:49 am

    No not literally but people believe what allows them to justify their behavior rather good or bad.

  15. Anastasiia Rybiakova on October 2, 2022 at 1:49 am

    Right message at right time. Jesus, you pick for me. Thanks!

  16. Charlena Cole on October 2, 2022 at 1:53 am

    Shirt the shirt no judgement just prayers sorry lady

  17. Stan Chai☕️ on October 2, 2022 at 1:54 am

    So blessed to have come across this.

  18. oaklandsoldier8520 on October 2, 2022 at 1:55 am

    I hope this isn’t just for single and college educated women. What about single and blue collar men like myself? I want to be loved too.

  19. Sherileen Lambert on October 2, 2022 at 1:58 am

    Don’t I just know this!

  20. Mpumi Ntuli on October 2, 2022 at 1:59 am

    Really enjoyed this

  21. Tom Sin on October 2, 2022 at 2:01 am

    She got soul and brought the house down!!

  22. Agnes R. on October 2, 2022 at 2:09 am

    A few thoughts on this "property thinking" the preacher has mentioned around 22:00. I would have loved for her to clarify more in depth. My thoughts on this:
    1. People getting too far and everybody (friends and others) knowing too much about everything. Natural bummer.
    2. It simply is weird to stay friends with an Ex. Why would you?
    3. Knowing and having been friends with their Ex before it came to you being romantically involved, may really give the impression of only being ‘second choice’, that person not knowing what they really want and generally the high risk of getting biased, intrigue within friendship and other things that are actually making things very complicated, friendships breaking over relationships.

    Don’t tell me nobody would be affected by that, not even Christians. It is this dating culture in the West that has crept into Churches as well. What happened to: Let me think through it, pray about it, counsel through it BY MYSELF, then WITHOUT getting physically approach the other person and NOT experimenting á la ‘let’s see where this leads’ – deciding mutually to move on either with marriage or with partition. What happened to ‘let’s be friends and have a mutual goal’ instead of ‘oh this might be potential romantic/wife/husband material’ in the first place. This is actually imho what is messing up things a lot. We as a Church and grown ups in general need to get past that.

    Thank you for this message.

  23. Nitro Needy on October 2, 2022 at 2:10 am

    Stop searching for the right person and become the right person. You won’t have healthy relationships if you have a toxic relationship with yourself. Love yourself to completeness.

  24. Gina Isabel Raudales Mejia on October 2, 2022 at 2:13 am

    I believe God put this video in my feed thanks for this content. God bless you

  25. Jesse Rai on October 2, 2022 at 2:17 am

    I give my life to you Jesus

  26. lasi kailea on October 2, 2022 at 2:17 am

    Lol I loved this message

  27. Pia Love on October 2, 2022 at 2:17 am

    Thank you very much for sharing!!!! 🙂

  28. Life.Church on October 2, 2022 at 2:18 am

    What relationships have drawn you toward your God-given purpose?

  29. Sophie Opondo on October 2, 2022 at 2:20 am

    After listening to Bianca on Dr.Anita’s Podcast in the light.
    I cant stop listening to this lady.
    Empowering, teaching ,equipping and am here for it

  30. Rupielle Buhian on October 2, 2022 at 2:20 am

    AMEN !

  31. Rali S on October 2, 2022 at 2:24 am

    Intimacy starts with Jesus

  32. tater on October 2, 2022 at 2:25 am

    I’m giving my life to Jesus

  33. Shannel Avenido on October 2, 2022 at 2:26 am

    But can it be the person in the right person+wrong time be the same person in the right person+right time?

  34. Lesly Ayala on October 2, 2022 at 2:26 am

    I love herrrrr cara de fuchiiii lollll !!!!

  35. wendi weramundi on October 2, 2022 at 2:27 am

    Thank you so much for this amazing series. Thank you for recognizing that relationships are an important aspect of a Christian’s life. I’ve really enjoyed Pastor Bianca. As a single Christian who doesn’t know much about dating, this is a wonderful series. May God keep blessing and guiding all our relationships.

  36. Regina Woodside on October 2, 2022 at 2:28 am

    Amen, Glory to God!!!!!!!

  37. Josh on October 2, 2022 at 2:29 am

    This is great encouraging advice. I love how she mentioned your relationship blessing each other and those surrounding you. Gives me a lot to think about.

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