How to Heal a Broken Heart after a Breakup // Christian Advice

How to Heal a Broken Heart after a Breakup // Christian Advice

I’m sorry if you just went through a breakup and are broken hearted 🙁 BUT TAKE HEART!! God is in the business for HEALING especially HEALING your broken heart!! I hope this video will give you some good tips on HOW TO heal a broken heart after a breakup!

1. Don’t go through it alone 0:50
3. Replace thought with Scripture 4:20
4. Cut Soul Ties 5:24
5. Don’t live in sadness forever… move on 6:51
6. Forgiveness 7:54
7. Closure 11:05
8. Look at the positives 14:45




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  1. Jaqueline Navarro on July 26, 2022 at 11:16 pm

    It’s hard to get closure for me even if I seek God because it’s sometime from church that I have to keep seeing all the time and I am forced to talk to him because we work so closely in church in leadership ect. Idk what to do

  2. Tyler - The Fit Chemist, Ph.D. on July 26, 2022 at 11:17 pm

    Great advice!

    I’m about 4 weeks post break up. Learning the hard way how powerful soul ties can be.

  3. Lauren Lopez on July 26, 2022 at 11:18 pm

    This was posted 2 years ago. I just broke up with someone who I’ve had a lot of ups and downs with. I couldn’t love him like I needed. I looked up a Christian perspective and found your video. I have been watching CABT for a year or so. Thank you for not deleting this. It hurts so much to hurt someone else.

  4. Jarie on July 26, 2022 at 11:19 pm

    the closure conversation is super dangerous. in my opinion, let God give you the closure you need!

  5. Tony Mason on July 26, 2022 at 11:21 pm

    Love how girls are there for each other after break ups. The boys never want to hear about it.

  6. Dru Bot on July 26, 2022 at 11:25 pm

    Thank you for having this talk and the advice given. I am so confused, because I have just been dumped. Hard. So much time and energy put into something that is just gone now. I prayed about the relationship and if it was His will for us to be together, since everyone will have problems in some way in when it comes to relationships and marriage, and I was certain He said yes. I have a lot of growing to do, since I am also learning that God gives us the free will to choose, and we do, even when there are warning signs, commonly known as red flags. Then I am going to scripture, and the warning signs are there, mainly in 1 Corinthians. It’s very interesting that we have put so much pressure in dating before marriage as you don’t really see anything in scripture about the time leading up to marriage. Then, there is the truth to not twist scripture into our own views or make it work for our time in the present. It is better for people to not get married as it takes away their focus on God. So only get into a relationship with someone that has a strong relationship with God first, as well as yourself, so when a person disappoints you or your marriage falls apart, or even worse, your spouse dies, you are able to find the strength in God to carry on and not let it destroy your life.

  7. Summer Emblem on July 26, 2022 at 11:30 pm

    I know this is 7 months late, but I needed this! My boyfriend and I broke up last night because we felt that in our relationship we were distancing ourselves from God. We might get back together eventually, we might not, but with God and lovely ladies such as yourselves, I can get through this:)

  8. Maria Eduarda Fagundes on July 26, 2022 at 11:30 pm

    Best video everrrrr ❤️

  9. Heidi Frick on July 26, 2022 at 11:30 pm

    Thank u for being young & loving Jesus in your youth!

  10. Mumbi Mwewa on July 26, 2022 at 11:30 pm

    Hey, I’m asking for some of the Bible verses you used

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  12. Pageant Gonzales on July 26, 2022 at 11:31 pm

    God knows I tried my ex he always put me down because of my short comeing I tried I just couldn’t please him in anyway.

  13. Real Life Talk With Me on July 26, 2022 at 11:33 pm

    I wish I had gotten closure :(. My ex just ghosted me 2 months ago. When I tried contacting him through social media. He totally ignored me and blocked me. Im getting better slowly. But its so hard because I felt a total rejection and it lowered my self esteem.

  14. Eden Alemayehu on July 26, 2022 at 11:34 pm

    Thank you girls

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  19. T_Wilson on July 26, 2022 at 11:45 pm

    It stings…

  20. Kristy Long on July 26, 2022 at 11:46 pm

    I just got broken up with 3 weeks ago… I am hurting so much. I’m so glad I saw this video ❤️

  21. Elizabeth Sok on July 26, 2022 at 11:51 pm

    This really helps ❤

  22. dx on July 26, 2022 at 11:52 pm

    Thank you for this video. My ex GF and I were together for 3 years and I thought we were meant to be. But we broke up 6 months ago and I kept beating myself up over it. I kept thinking about what I should have done differently and I hadn’t deleted our photos and felt really distant from God. I am ready to make the moves I need to in my life and I hope anyone else with a similar struggle knows they are not alone!

  23. Maddio Bro on July 26, 2022 at 11:53 pm

    what if the breakup was over a year ago…

  24. Imogen on July 26, 2022 at 11:58 pm

    I am really suffering at the minute. I have just been in a year long relationship where I was repeatedly accused of cheating, lying and hiding things. I was called jezebel, told I was a narcissist. I haven’t been perfect, nor do I profess to be perfect (another thing I was accused of) but being unfaithful or unloyal has certainly not been one of those things. I found out that he was the one on dating sites, he was the one seeing other women behind my back. I’ve been told that his family are extremely annoyed and it hurts so much that all of this has been pinned on me, I really would just love my name clearing. All I’ve done is love this man and wanted a happy relationship with him.

  25. Laura R on July 26, 2022 at 11:59 pm

    Its the hardest thing i ever had to go through. Makes me just not want to be here anymore eventhough i know the Lord is forming me to be more like Jesus. It hurts so much

  26. Brianna Ray on July 27, 2022 at 12:00 am


  27. Cenia vargas on July 27, 2022 at 12:00 am

    I’m about to face this pretty soon, Me and the guy have commited some mistakes, we had a great potential as a christian couple but it didn’t show up… I mean, we rushed things up, I believe that by now after 3 years of relationship we should be married and I feel like I believed in something that would never happen, and is dissapointing and hurting. Even though I would like to keep walking in life with him, there’s a voice that tells me "No more" and by prayer I will take the sound decision to leave this relationship… I just can’t anymore, I feel like I’ve lowered my expectations only to keep a relationship and I don’t wanna feel that way anymore.

  28. Asif Munir ( Universe) on July 27, 2022 at 12:02 am

    It’s difficult for me at the moment

  29. Jonathan Gil Santillan on July 27, 2022 at 12:03 am

    I probably won’t ever even date anyone but i just love your videos lol

  30. Clara King on July 27, 2022 at 12:04 am

    September: Guy J saw me at a wedding reception and decided to text me the next day. He asked if I was single: I said Yes, I asked him: he said Yes.
    October: We went out for lunch.
    October – February: Texted everyday about the Lord, met up for lunch
    End of February: He kissed me.
    First day of March: The next day after the kiss, he told me he wasnt ready for a relationship
    Since this was my first relationship (ive been single for 27 years) it hurt a lot. Wondered what happened and such. So I turned to my church friend who knows him.


    Finding out the reason why he didnt want this relationship gave me a closure. For a week, I was fine, surrendered J to the Lord (he’s a Christian). Forgave J just as Christ forgave our sins.

    Last night, I broke down after not letting myself grief for a week and cried out to the Lord.

    I definitely would have brushed this video when it was uploaded, found it after Youtube search on how to get over a break up. Knowing that others have experienced break up, and its okay to grief and surrendering it to God is the best way gives me peace.

    I can breathe now! Thank you Ashley and Cassidy for sharing!

  31. Xitlali Ramos on July 27, 2022 at 12:04 am

    Thank you for that, I never thought about forgiving myself. I was in a 2yr toxic relationship & even now, that I’m with my true soul mate, I put myself down for staying with that other guy, I make myself feel so dumb. I gotta forgive myself

  32. F5 Pumps on July 27, 2022 at 12:05 am

    This really hits the Christian aspect of break ups! Although all details/info was correct when a Christian girl breaks up with a guy it isn’t always because of God. We use God in our own ways to say it was Him who did it and not me. Tbh it could be the other way around. Such as selfishness and pride from our inner flesh. Yes you could say God helped you push away the person but tbh it was your selfish desires and wants in a guy that you didn’t find with your ex. You’ve got to realize that although the guy did nothing wrong to you and never really let you down and always put God first that when you push him away it’s Satan that is winning. That isn’t God! It’s your pride that won and wants to feel your needs. Not Gods needs and wants. Maybe pray about it before you break up with a guy and tbh kind of stupid to break up with a person that’s considered like a perfect guy. Girls pray and look for Christian men that you break up with all the time. Yes God will always find a way to make the Believer happy again with Joy but it wasn’t God who attended you to break up. Sometimes even if your a Christian and the guy isn’t that wasn’t God who lead you to break up. He wasn’t even the one who attended you to date him in the first place. Girls try to find the needs for themselves in a guy. Does he have this? Is he like me? That mindset should be flipped to, does he have a heart for Christ? Does he have the same faith? Maybe try doing that 🙂 – This was mainly targeted for my ex.

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  34. Robert Decke on July 27, 2022 at 12:06 am

    Julia when we first broke up i said I would wait for you that I would never let you go, But I need to now, my sweet angel I have to let you go, for the last ten years I could only remember the bad things, I couldn’t remember our love, but now i remember I remember how you would hold me and calm my demons, or how when we hugged I would lift our shirts so our stomachs  touched and we called it tummy on tummy,I remember how much you liked nice touches on your arms or be kissed behind your ears. I’m so sorry I couldn’t forgive you or let the anger go, I’m sorry I couldn’t forgive myself. and I’m so so sorry for the women I turned down  in awful ways. I wasn’t trying to hurt them, I was trying to hurt myself.  you didn’t mean to hurt me, it wasn’t your fault. I’m sorry I couldn’t heal you or help fight your demons. I wanted to help but i couldn’t do anything..I’m sorry I didn’t hold you when I could see how much you were suffering. I want to thank you for coming into my life and thank you for the time you gave me, I wish I could have been on that bridge and stopped you. You were my best friend and I miss you. I miss your voice. It’s so silent now.Your life did matter and I promise that I will never forget our love, and I promise that I will always carry you in my heart, take care in your journey my baby.

  35. WW on July 27, 2022 at 12:08 am

    Looked up some videos on being a Christian and forgiving. This was one of the videos. Thanks y’all. It really helped. I was in a 3 year relationship. It’s been over a year now since. I recently got closure but it’s taking time to find peace in that closure but I know it’ll come soon enough.

  36. Hannah Williams on July 27, 2022 at 12:08 am

    I really needed this

  37. Brittany Hammer on July 27, 2022 at 12:11 am

    Thank you so very much for this. I found this tonight. I have been in so much pain, guilt, doubt, after breaking up with my ex fiancee. I felt God giving me peace to break up so much so I felt like I was going to throw up. I know it was the right thing to do, but I still feel hurt and pain.

  38. Mayang Embun Riamanda on July 27, 2022 at 12:11 am

    Hi girls.. thanks for the video.. Could you please share the bible verses u used to get rid the negative thought about your past relationship? Love from Indonesia.. <3

  39. Asif Munir ( Universe) on July 27, 2022 at 12:11 am


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