BEAUTY FOR ASHES || Identity & Dating Advice for Christian Women and Girls

BEAUTY FOR ASHES || Identity & Dating Advice for Christian Women and Girls

Have you ever felt like you’re not good enough? Or felt like you are finding yourself in relationships you just shouldn’t be in? Well in this interview, Melissa Faisst gives us advice on finding our identity, dating, and shares her testimony of how God can give us BEAUTY FOR ASHES! Christian women and girl don’t want to miss this!

The quality isn’t great, but hopefully the message still can impact your life. Marriage, dating, being beautiful, those things aren’t the goal of life, Christ is, so we hope that you are able to find your identity in Christ, know that you are loved and forgiven through His sacrifice on the cross, and you surrender your life for His life for you.

R O N N I E & M E L // Ronnie Faisst, a freestyle motocross pioneer turned preacher. Melissa Faisst, a motocross model turned missionary! On this channel, we help YOU find God & walk with Jesus in your daily lives!

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/ / Books we Recommend for this Series

For Single Women: “Passion & Purity” by Elizabeth Elliot
For Men: “Disciplines of a Godly Man” by R. Kent Hughes
For Dating: “The Right One” by Jimmy Evans & Frank Martin
For Marriage: “Sacred Marriage” by Gary Thomas

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This Interview was with Connie Marquart at Fearless Sisterhood Night ar Radiant Church in Surprise, AZ. You can find out more about them at:

Love & Blessings!
Ronnie and Mel


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Also, any information given in this video is just that, for informational purposes. We are not ordained pastors/licensed professionals, and are not meant to be your spiritual authority or a replacement for pastoral leadership and participation in the Church Body. We encourage everyone to be a part of the local Christian Church in your area and be under their spiritual covering. Or if you need deeper care, we encourage you to find a licensed Christian Counselor who can help you walk into freedom in Christ! In the meantime, we just hope to be a brother, sister, friends along the way and give you some tools and encouragement as you grow in God. Bless you all!

/ / Music
Intro & Outro: Razihel “Love U” (NCS Release)
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Video Music: Vexento “We are One”


  1. Jesse Foster on July 10, 2022 at 10:35 pm


  2. PLANER WAR on July 10, 2022 at 10:40 pm

    I’m single and I’m looking girlfriend for long term life. I’m 29 years old

  3. Ronnie and Mel on July 10, 2022 at 10:41 pm

    Thank you so much for watching!! What stuck out to you?? Or do you have a story of how God has given YOU Beauty for Ashes? We would love to hear it, so let us know down below! Bless you guys!

  4. Evelyn C on July 10, 2022 at 10:43 pm


  5. Learn With Binibining Clara on July 10, 2022 at 10:44 pm

    Im cryinggggg

  6. Singnuk Kunnuk on July 10, 2022 at 10:44 pm

    I’m the same. If God wants me to be single… it’s ok. As long as I get God.

  7. vakhakuono on July 10, 2022 at 10:47 pm

    I do not know what to write here. I am an ambitious lady. I dreamt of saving my society and be a hero and still do.I messed up my life three years ago . But in my messed life, God gave me both my life back and Ruth, my daughter. I see God in Ruth and that helps me to grow deeper in Jesus. I am trying to give my heart to Jesus. Everyday l see his beauty in different ways. Beauty from Ashes. Amen

  8. Carol Wong on July 10, 2022 at 10:49 pm

    Thanks Mel for your beautiful testimony. I showed your story to my high school students during our devotion time. They were so attentive, and God really used your ministry to help them. Love you so much in the Lord!

  9. Simply_Maliha on July 10, 2022 at 10:50 pm

    Love this!!! This was very encouraging. I am a 26 year old single who has not dated much at all, waiting for marriage and saving my first kiss for my wedding day. It can be lonely and hard during this time, especially with corona going on, but thankful that He is in control. Definitely subscribing!

  10. in ëvëry sëαsön on July 10, 2022 at 10:51 pm

    That was AMAZING, Mel! So articulate x

  11. Adriane C on July 10, 2022 at 10:53 pm

    I never thought this existed that a man would actually follow the rules.. Thats what i always thought to do..

  12. Nayeli on July 10, 2022 at 10:55 pm

    This interview made me cry because Jesus is so GOOD!

  13. Singnuk Kunnuk on July 10, 2022 at 10:57 pm

    The end made me cry

  14. Grace Mensah on July 10, 2022 at 10:57 pm

    Whom the Son sets free is free indeed

  15. Let the Word speak on July 10, 2022 at 11:00 pm

    I can see that the WoMan is in the Man even, when i am single and will stay like this forevermore.

  16. J S on July 10, 2022 at 11:01 pm

    Sorry to be a downer, but no beauty for ashes in my life…. I’m gay and I love Jesus, but no matter how much I beg and plead to be changed, I haven’t been and am still gay. No hope for me to ever have a romantic relationship I guess… It feels desperately lonely and hopeless

  17. John Jay and a Backpack on July 10, 2022 at 11:02 pm

    I know it says advice for women and girls but some of your points hit so hard in a good way to us males who at times afraid to express ourselves and our desires, thank you and keep up the great work! God Bless!

  18. Bree Stanciel on July 10, 2022 at 11:02 pm

    God bless you Melissa! You really touch me with your message! Thank you Jesus!

  19. TheYearOfLauran on July 10, 2022 at 11:06 pm

    I’m current down what I call a "Ronnie and Mel Rabbit Hole", which is where I watch their videos back to back for a while. I’m really enjoying it! ❤️

  20. Jesse Foster on July 10, 2022 at 11:06 pm


  21. ooviya manickam on July 10, 2022 at 11:07 pm

    Beautiful ❤️

  22. Red Shift on July 10, 2022 at 11:10 pm

    "If you love Me, you will obey My Commandments." – John 14:15

    *Yahshua The Messiah Saves.*

    We are praying for ALL of you, but TIME for this blasphemous, evil, sinful, corrupted, perverted, deceptive world, is RUNNING OUT, FAST.

    Peace and love, and prayers,

    T&M x

  23. Kissy Salinas on July 10, 2022 at 11:12 pm

    Not kissing before marriage is the way it should be I believe kissing is an open door for the enemy to come in like a flood and try and rip our young people of their purity and dignity

  24. Shannen Mackenzie on July 10, 2022 at 11:17 pm

    Wow, how much I can relate to this ♥️

  25. Marlen Mora on July 10, 2022 at 11:18 pm

    I love the way you talk about Jesus! Thank you! Can I translate your videos to Spanish and French?

  26. Rogerio Alves on July 10, 2022 at 11:19 pm

    you guys are amazing!! thank you for your videos!!

  27. Samantha Batt on July 10, 2022 at 11:20 pm

    Love you Mel!!!

  28. burke budding on July 10, 2022 at 11:25 pm


  29. Laurie Anne on July 10, 2022 at 11:26 pm

    I love ❤️ you my dear sister and praying for you

  30. stupidcakeboy on July 10, 2022 at 11:26 pm

    Wow I learned so much. If I hold on to my life I will lose it. I need to surrender everything to the Lord.

  31. ruth ruth on July 10, 2022 at 11:30 pm

    www its a really touching testmony stay blessed dear

  32. Jewishbride on July 10, 2022 at 11:30 pm

    Heavenly father, in complete agreement I bind the promises of isaiah 61:3 and 1 peter 3:3-4, 2 corinthians 6:14 at all times for myself and whom it to applies that a crown of beauty will be given instead of ashes, oil of gladness instead of mourning, a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair where oaks of rigtheousness will be planted for display of the Lord his splendor, knowing true beauty comes from the inner self by means of a gentle and quiet spirit, loosening every lack of true inner beauty upon no return in my life, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

  33. Grace on July 10, 2022 at 11:30 pm

    I needed this. Love this ❤️

  34. Fox Tanii on July 10, 2022 at 11:31 pm

    I know the feeling gurrrrrrl. Crying like a baby whilst repenting and giving up what used to be you. It’s very freeing though. Looking yourself in the mirror and say "hey you! Nice to meet you" when you meet with your God made natural beauty and your true identity

  35. Joey Kwan on July 10, 2022 at 11:32 pm

    I wish I could be a godly woman like you

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