Our Personal Struggle with Intimacy In Marriage

Our Personal Struggle with Intimacy In Marriage

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In this episode, we share our personal struggle with physical intimacy in the first 4 years of our marriage. We thought we had done everything right by saving our selves for marriage and believed God owned us a good healthy physical intimacy. But that was not how our marriage story began. In fact, we couldn’t have intercourse for over 4 years. Listen and see how God used this trial to draw us closer to Himself and to each other. This part of our marriage story is also where our marriage ministry was born.


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45 Comments

  1. Ruslan Konovalenko on June 19, 2022 at 9:48 pm

    Appreciate video content! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you tried – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (do a google search)? It is a smashing one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the hard work. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate after a lifetime of fighting got great success with it.

  2. Morgan Lai on June 19, 2022 at 9:51 pm

    Thank you for this. I am a wife struggling with my husband not being able to make love with me without looking at pornographic images first. It really hit me when you said "I can love and serve my wife even if I don’t get from her what I think I deserve," I need to think this way toward my husband. It’s been a difficult 3 1/2 of marriage because sex hasn’t come easy for us. We’re trying to get pregnant and when I found some Instagram accounts my husband has looked at from his search history, he did admit to looking at them and said he does so when he knows we should be having more frequent sex during my fertile window. Ouch. It’s a hard thing to hear, and it makes me not want to be intimate with him.
    How is a hurt wife supposed to respond to this and be OK with intimacy with her husband? I am insecure now that I know he "needs" those images to arouse him enough to have sex with me, his wife.

  3. Michael Johnson on June 19, 2022 at 9:53 pm

    Lovely Video! Excuse me for the intrusion, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you considered – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is a good exclusive guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the hard work. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my BF at last got cool results with it.

  4. MOMS Mushrooms Jody Foster on June 19, 2022 at 9:54 pm

    I completely appreciate your willingness to be honest and open with this! Married people struggle and need to have support

  5. Edita P on June 19, 2022 at 9:55 pm

    Thank you for so open video… THANK YOU it is verry good and helps a lot.

  6. malik urac on June 19, 2022 at 9:57 pm

    Thanks for the Video! Apologies for the intrusion, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you heard the talk about – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is an awesome one off product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some decent things about it and my mate after many years got excellent results with it.

  7. Foxy on June 19, 2022 at 9:59 pm

    Cheers for the Video clip! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your thoughts. Have you researched – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is an awesome one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. I’ve heard some amazing things about it and my co-worker after many years got great results with it.

  8. Siyana shana on June 19, 2022 at 10:00 pm

    Excellent Video clip! Forgive me for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you ever tried – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is a good one off product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my best friend Jordan got cool results with it.

  9. Igor Sidelkovsky on June 19, 2022 at 10:00 pm

    Excellent Video clip! Excuse me for chiming in, I would love your opinion. Have you tried – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (just google it)? It is a great one of a kind product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my old buddy Taylor at last got amazing results with it.

  10. Caroline Omori on June 19, 2022 at 10:05 pm

    This is a powerful testimony.
    Powerful.

  11. Aquarian Christianity on June 19, 2022 at 10:06 pm

    Very sorry!! I made it halfway through this video some time ago, and thought, give me a break! Jennifer is being unreasonable!! but now I know. I know chemicals can have a great impact, and seek to use more natural items and foods now. I would get lumps from my deodorant. I think when Jennifer said the enemy uses EVERY ANGLE, I knew that was BULLSEYE! Satan’s job is to destroy us, because he hates God and Jesus; and if he can’t destroy us, he tries to use everything at his disposal to hurt us. I though that was an excellent comment by Jen!

  12. Kasa on June 19, 2022 at 10:07 pm

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  13. Lara Fuad on June 19, 2022 at 10:09 pm

    I looove it I just can’t believe or imagine that it would take years??!!

  14. Armin on June 19, 2022 at 10:12 pm

    Kudos for the Video clip! Forgive me for chiming in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you researched – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is a good one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my cooworker finally got excellent results with it.

  15. Dora Edge on June 19, 2022 at 10:13 pm

    Thank you

  16. Kristian Lebsack on June 19, 2022 at 10:14 pm

    Lovely video content! Forgive me for chiming in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you tried – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the hard work. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my friend Sam finally got great results with it.

  17. Review Phim New on June 19, 2022 at 10:14 pm

    Lovely Video! Apologies for the intrusion, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you considered – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (google it)? It is a smashing one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the headache. Ive heard some decent things about it and my cousin at last got astronomical results with it.

  18. EducationTrumpsReligion on June 19, 2022 at 10:14 pm

    Unhealthy views of sex — Just one more reason not to be religious. Secular people don’t always have healthy sexual attitudes either, but the Bible is supposed to be the ultimate guide, and it’s clearly leading people the wrong way.

  19. Lacuna1122 on June 19, 2022 at 10:16 pm

    Evolution didn’t intend for limitless pair bonding. Neurotransmitters die off after approx 16 months, to drive males to mate with new women and encourage species diversity.

    Marriage has no biblical basis and was invented by the elite to keep wealth in a family

    Evolution wants you to find a new mate. That’s why sex with the same person gets boring.

  20. Cassandra M on June 19, 2022 at 10:18 pm

    It’s a medical condition called Vaginismus. I’m surprised your gynaecologist (assuming you let them examine you with their fingers) would be able to diagnose. Otherwise it sounds like years of trauma, being told sex is a sin and her body automatically closing down. Shame hurts us in so many ways. I’m truly sorry you had to go through this and if you have children treat them to love their bodies so they have a positive relationship with themselves and through marriage.

  21. Christina B. on June 19, 2022 at 10:19 pm

    This completely turns people off to sex in marriage. You guys have a unique medical issue. It’s not a Christian sex issue.

  22. Marbe Lz.P on June 19, 2022 at 10:21 pm

    Thanks for the Video! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you tried – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (do a search on google)? It is a smashing exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the normal expense. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my best friend Jordan after a lifetime of fighting got excellent success with it.

  23. Joel P on June 19, 2022 at 10:24 pm

    Marriage without sex is an agape Marriage or friendship Marriage I have enough agape love.

  24. Tofig Alasgarov on June 19, 2022 at 10:25 pm

    Great Video clip! Excuse me for the intrusion, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you thought about – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (probably on Google)? It is a great one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my GF after a lifetime of fighting got amazing results with it.

  25. Computer experience on June 19, 2022 at 10:26 pm

    Appreciate Video clip! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you ever tried – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (do a google search)? It is a smashing exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my cooworker at very last got amazing success with it.

  26. Miranda on June 19, 2022 at 10:26 pm

    Can you all please pray for my marriage? My husband and I love each other but have been unable to consummate our marriage for the 2 years we’ve been married. Its been extremely hard and frustrating for us both. There’s so much embarrassment, shame and loneliness that comes with this too. It’s hard to share out of fear that others will make fun or laugh-even christians. I saved myself for marriage and the struggle and isolation of not being able to come together with my husband I love so much is deeply painful. I also completely relate to viewing sex as something shameful, especially when society promotes it and uses and abuses it outside of marriage. I totally understand struggling with a hardened heart toward God. It’s hard when you feel like Lord I waited and tried to do all the right things why am I being punished?? It’s important to remember that it’s not God’s punishment or his way to see you suffer like this at all. (Read the end about Invicta Ministries).I feel like this whole struggle has given me that much more passion for seeing others succeed in their marriages with the Holy Spirit. I will never give up! I’m believing Jesus will do a miracle for us! God bless you guys! And thank you for sharing your heart and having the courage to talk about this issue. It’s NOT easy at all so thank you! Also, this is another reason why I believe deliverance ministries are so important today. Christians can be oppressed or possessed by demons without even knowing it and this can cause all kinds of demonic strongholds such as intimacy in marriage. Go check out Invicta Ministries on Youtube – there is a video titled curse of human sacrifice broken since conception. This man had become a follower of Jesus but a demon was assigned to him to give him all kinds of reproductive health problems that was not allowing him to consummate his marriage to his wife. I saw it and found it to be very encouraging that this demon was cast out and he was healed by Jesus! Thankfully the power of Jesus is much greater!! I’m praying for you all that God would bless your marriage and set you completely free!

  27. Nicole Yoshihara on June 19, 2022 at 10:27 pm

  28. CrittySizzum on June 19, 2022 at 10:28 pm

    So glad I didn’t do it like them, that sounds horrible. Glad they got through it but it’s not worth the strife they are talking about.

  29. Thought Keeper on June 19, 2022 at 10:30 pm

    I feel like this is actually a unique medical issue. Anyone else?

  30. Steve Adams on June 19, 2022 at 10:30 pm

    This subject has been a constant battle literally since day one. I am at the end of my rope, and not seeing any reason for hope for the future. The part of marriage that should be the most intimate and special has been a battlefield, and I don’t have any energy left to keep fighting.

  31. Hey There on June 19, 2022 at 10:30 pm

    Thanks for the video content! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your opinion. Have you heard the talk about – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (just google it)? It is a good one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my cousin at very last got excellent results with it.

  32. Savariz Savariz on June 19, 2022 at 10:31 pm

    Lovely Video clip! Forgive me for chiming in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you considered – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a good exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my GF at very last got cool results with it.

  33. Comfort Boahen on June 19, 2022 at 10:32 pm

    Great Video clip! Sorry for butting in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you tried – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (google it)? It is a smashing one off product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the hard work. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my close friend Aubrey at last got astronomical results with it.

  34. Arturo Goleman on June 19, 2022 at 10:35 pm

    Excellent Video clip! Forgive me for butting in, I am interested in your opinion. Have you heard the talk about – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a good one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my GF at last got cool results with it.

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  36. Bora Corba on June 19, 2022 at 10:37 pm

    Appreciate Video! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard about – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is a good one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the hard work. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my cooworker at last got excellent results with it.

  37. David Lawrie on June 19, 2022 at 10:38 pm

    Kudos for the Video! Excuse me for chiming in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you considered – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (do a search on google)? It is a good exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the hard work. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my BF finally got excellent results with it.

  38. MOMS Mushrooms Jody Foster on June 19, 2022 at 10:39 pm

    I can’t help wondering if both of you had shame in the core of your identities?

  39. mourad mebarek on June 19, 2022 at 10:39 pm

    Nice Video! Forgive me for butting in, I would love your opinion. Have you thought about – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (search on google)? It is a good one of a kind product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the headache. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my GF after many years got cool success with it.

  40. A Day in the Light on June 19, 2022 at 10:39 pm

    I need help in this area.

  41. Anthony Gachie on June 19, 2022 at 10:41 pm

    Thanks for the Video clip! Sorry for butting in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is a great one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some great things about it and my friend at very last got astronomical results with it.

  42. Marty McMartin on June 19, 2022 at 10:41 pm

    Thank you so much for this vid. I am almost 2 yrs into marriage and struggling with vaginismus. This video helped me a lot ❤️

  43. Rickymolina on June 19, 2022 at 10:43 pm

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    Appreciate Video clip! Apologies for chiming in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you thought about – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (search on google)? It is a great one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the normal expense. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my best friend Jordan after many years got great success with it.

  45. Joe TZ on June 19, 2022 at 10:45 pm

    Excellent Video! Sorry for butting in, I would love your opinion. Have you heard about – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (probably on Google)? It is a good one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the headache. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my GF after many years got cool results with it.

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