This Christian Website Gives Awful Relationship Advice

This Christian Website Gives Awful Relationship Advice

today, we’ll be taking a look through a christian website called biblical sexology. the “advice” is presented under the guise that it’s meant to help christians with intimacy in their marriages. but it’s really just thinly-veiled misogyny with a side of manipulation, all under the name of jesus! how fun!

0:00: intro
3:38: sponsor
5:43: 10 rules of sex for wives
15:37: a biblical guide to ravishing your husband
22:43: why christian wives should “fake it”
27:42: reflection
29:12: it’s over [thank the lord(e)]

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Joyful Heart Foundation:
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Arab-American Family Support Center (AAFSC):
Center for Pacific Asian Family:
Centro Multicultural la Familia:

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  1. Laura on May 4, 2022 at 7:37 pm

    It’s just sad that there are people like him calling themselves "Christians". They are not actual Christians, they use the bible as a means to justify their horrible actions. And for those who are simplifying Christianism by just reading the miscitations by this author, please read the actual verses

  2. Paul F. Jarnes on May 4, 2022 at 7:38 pm

    So christians are BDSM? Wow…

  3. ItsIsabel on May 4, 2022 at 7:38 pm

    Bro really wants his maidenly wife to become a wench for him on Wendesdays when he wants to put his apple tree in her countenance.

  4. Ray Ahui on May 4, 2022 at 7:40 pm

    "I’m spitting"

    no no no, you’re supposed to be worshiping the applesauce, didn’t you read the rules?

  5. asro on May 4, 2022 at 7:43 pm

    12:42 body modifications? It literally is a big sin in the Bible. The Bible is very strict about body modifications as it says that body modifications is a result of self-hate for your body, which God gave to you (I’m talking about healthy bodies here, Idk about those who medically need plastic surgery as the Bible doesn’t state anything about it).

    This guy isn’t even Biblically accurate.

  6. Soulful Arts on May 4, 2022 at 7:44 pm

    For some reason I thought the guitar in the background was careless whisper.

  7. Maque Sim on May 4, 2022 at 7:48 pm

    Holy shit. Usually this kind of rhetoric pisses me off.

    This, however, is so incredibly destructive and toxic that I cant muster up anything but sadness. … just… wow.

  8. Sanyu Yarber on May 4, 2022 at 7:48 pm

    I once heard this one lady say that once you are married you give automatic consent to sex so therefore it isn’t really rape. People like that disgust me

  9. Metamorphony on May 4, 2022 at 7:49 pm

    He sounds like a podcaster, also very degenerate and wicked this dude has a place in the hell he believes in.

  10. Lilly Ives on May 4, 2022 at 7:50 pm

    Bruh they literally said "womens breasts were made for men"

    Like feeding their baby wasn’t the sole purpose for women’s breasts. Jesus christ this is insane

  11. Rat Queen, Queen of Rats And also opossums on May 4, 2022 at 7:52 pm

    Bdsm but make it abusive and Christian

  12. Orionishi on May 4, 2022 at 7:52 pm

    Lmao! I had the ragu "like a mother" commercial. Right after they said she cooks like a mother it cut back to Annamarie with "We’ll be the judge of that!"

  13. Mallory Worlton on May 4, 2022 at 7:52 pm

    This is thoroughly disgusting

  14. Franki on May 4, 2022 at 7:54 pm

    Thanks for a fantastic video!

    All hail the Algorithm

  15. udonge 104 on May 4, 2022 at 7:55 pm

    satire identification challenge (impossible) (100% fail rate)

  16. Emerald Johnson on May 4, 2022 at 7:59 pm

    Speaking of Proverbs 5:19, which this man uses to write the article about ravishing.
    I was always under the impression that this command of being ravished by your wife and other commands/advice are more directed at husbands who may be prone to wandering eyes and marital frustration. Not that it is accusing men of being more prone to cheating or something like that, but I always understood some of it to be the influence of the human writer Solomon, who was a great king that had anything he wanted. He is giving advice to his son and sometimes there appears to be a flash of regret or unhappiness with his decisions, in my opinion. The man had 700 wives and it seemed that he was never satisfied with what life had to offer.
    I could go on to talk some about his life and the context of the books, but I won’t right now. It is so upsetting that that this frail and controlling man would use this beautiful verse about being enamored by your spouse as you gracefully age together as a diving board for his tainted and warped agenda.
    The nerve he has, taking this command to husbands to value and appreciate their wife’s body and unique charm and spirit throughout life’s changes and applying it to teach women how to please him, so gratifying his fragile and childish ego. How gross and disrespectful.

  17. Azure Ally on May 4, 2022 at 8:00 pm

    I wanted to vomit the entire time while listening to this and I’m surprised I didn’t. This is absolutely awful people like this should just not be allowed to be near anyone in general.

  18. Apples on May 4, 2022 at 8:00 pm

    I’d like to hear DeSantis explain why _this_ kind of grooming hasn’t been banned in Florida

  19. I sometimes just do stuff on May 4, 2022 at 8:02 pm

    That is so hypocritical! So women are “good wives and servants” for the lord when they please their men but when I do it I’m gay!? I stan with Judas

  20. Devin Sethna on May 4, 2022 at 8:03 pm

    Imagine a world where in the year 2038, all babies born that year were female. Since then, every single baby that has been born was female, meaning that the male population slowly died out. As a result, the world has descended into primal anarchy. Society is no more. By the year 2054, all male humans are gone. However, one 34 year old woman (Let’s call her Elsie) finds an abandoned warehouse, where she meets a hiding 14 year old boy named Adam. Turns out, Adam is the last male human on Earth still alive. Being the potential savior of humanity, Adam and Elsie begin a long and dangerous trek across a post-apocalyptic Europe in search of safe harbor.

    I wrote down a basic plot and it goes as follows:

    “The year 2038 signaled the end of human society. 150 million people were born that year. But not a single one of them was a male. No one knew why.

    After that, it didn’t take long for things to spiral out of control. The global population tripled – People desperately tried to create a boy. It didn’t work. With a massive surplus of people, global resources vanished at unfathomable rates. With not enough resources for everyone, a war broke out. It was a battle for the remnants. Millions of people died in this war. And billions more died from a lack of resources. And many of those deaths were men. Eventually, the surviving men grew old. And being the last of their kind, their deaths became the death of mankind as a whole.

    Now, all that’s left are the surviving women. There is no law. No government. No society. The world has fallen to primal savagery. In the chaos, the Archblade cult had risen to power. They were a group of radical evangelicals who believed that they were the chosen people of god. Archblade members believed outsiders to be inferior to them. They raided towns and cities, looting their resources and killing the inhabitants. The Archblade cultists did all of this for their leader, whom they believed to be their sacred ruler descended from the skies. Their Empress.

    Members who disagreed with the Empress were outcast from the cult. Many of these outcasts joined together to form the Midnight Rebellion. The goal of the Midnight was to overthrow the Empress, and take control of the cult members. Thus, a war broke out between the two factions. And the rest of us, who already struggled to survive, had to navigate through the war. Presumably, the final war, before humanity ceases to exist . . .”

    (I’ve also written a bit of the script in a google doc which further explains the motivation and plot of the characters)

    So what do you guys think? Is this a good idea for a potential movie/story? Feel free to share your thoughts

  21. Faith Sears on May 4, 2022 at 8:07 pm

    my blood is boiling. thank you

  22. Schemilix on May 4, 2022 at 8:09 pm

    Surprised cunnilingus came up at all
    Also the way you censor cli*toris (doing so as well for your sake) but not other words of that nature… feels… like Youtube specifically hates an organ that exists solely for pleasure.

    Also as a trans man, hee hee ho ho I suppose in that way, ‘God’ gifted me one… they are fun when they’re not dysphoria -inducing.

    Also the way the article suggests breasts are for male enjoyment and not for, you know, feeding babies.

  23. Kessia Wright on May 4, 2022 at 8:12 pm

    The person who wrote that is in a cult. They think they are Christians, but it is s cult. It sounds like the cult the Duggars are in.

    The Bible doesn’t say that Eve was made for Adam’s slave. It basically said Adam was lonely, so he created a "help meet." The original meaning meant partner. A partner isn’t your slave. Adam didn’t find himself or even God’s presence enough, so God created Eve. When I think of it, Adam wasn’t much of a leader. He even blamed God for his "sin."

    The Bible also says for husbands to love their wife, the way Jesus did and gave his life. Jesus isn’t going around telling wives to dress inappropriate way or smile while your husband hurts you in any way he decides. If anyone tries to tell you that, they either have the wrong understanding of the Bible or they are in a misogynistic cult.

    Men who are like that don’t stop at spanking their wives, they treat their families like slaves and it extends to their children and every gets ab@sed. It is only about their wants. They are a narcissistic misogynists who have control issues. The writer sounds like a 15 year old virgin. Or an incel.

  24. Orionishi on May 4, 2022 at 8:12 pm

    How do these people not know, in 2022, that we are all females first? The female sex organs develop first…so technically men were made from women…and literally.

  25. niki the gamer on May 4, 2022 at 8:14 pm

    I am a man from Bulgaria, and in here the traditional way marrige is viewed is as a partnership, men are usually shamed for arguing with their wife wich is a bit toxic but it is way less toxic than this bullshit

  26. Peachy Fucker on May 4, 2022 at 8:14 pm


  27. Alondra Cabiedes on May 4, 2022 at 8:15 pm

    Biblical gender roles!!!

  28. Helena Mariano on May 4, 2022 at 8:15 pm

    This needs more attention and people should talk more about fcked up this whole thing is. Disgusting.

  29. DragonBaby on May 4, 2022 at 8:15 pm

    If he wanted a BDSM relationship he should have just said that damn. I guess he didn’t wanna ask for consent though, so he resorted to abuse instead.

  30. Ghost on May 4, 2022 at 8:17 pm

    Ur back yayyyy

  31. Winter Wine on May 4, 2022 at 8:17 pm

    Me at 16:35 : If ‘ravishing’ or ‘ravish’ is used one more time in this blog post, it’s going to become my 13th reason

  32. Dimitra P. on May 4, 2022 at 8:18 pm

    ….Are we sure this is not all a BDSM advice site with a Christian blasphemy twist? No? Really? Okay.

  33. Seher Tuba on May 4, 2022 at 8:19 pm

    Wow… somebody is ashamed of their kinks and is trying to normalise it through religion. Wow.

  34. Katie McLemore on May 4, 2022 at 8:21 pm

    Annamarie said ‘ravish’ so much that I no longer hear the word right. It doesn’t sound like English anymore.

    Also, this website is disgusting. This made me so fucking uncomfortable lmao. I never knew I would hate the phrase ‘taste his apple tree’ so much, but here we are. And I do. Very much.

  35. saturncity on May 4, 2022 at 8:22 pm

    I’m literally 14, and annamarie has taught me more than any christian couple i see will know.

  36. Winter Wine on May 4, 2022 at 8:22 pm

    Article: "breasts were created for man’s pleasure"
    Me: Not for like…feeding infants…?

  37. vaylo on May 4, 2022 at 8:23 pm

    i just found your channel, i dont really know how to word this but i love the way you talk and explain things. i agree with literally everything you said.

  38. ally micheli on May 4, 2022 at 8:23 pm

    so they’re saying i’m not radishing my boyfriend when i’m wearing my kids size XL sweatpants bc they’re cheap, my oversized hoodie that goes to my knees, and my big ol fuzzy socks ?!?! i don’t wanna radish him either with my eyes, or my gd pomegranate. all in all, i hope this is a satire site.

  39. Uday Chauhan Shorts on May 4, 2022 at 8:25 pm

    This is just a Fifty Shades of Grey Christian Edition

  40. toad23567 on May 4, 2022 at 8:29 pm

    Can’t wait to show this to my Christian BDSM group! This will be good discussion material for our Bible Discussion Study Meeting!

  41. Caroline Kcenich on May 4, 2022 at 8:29 pm

    I’m Episcopal and I love how they represent women, BUT I went to a catholic school from grades 5-8th and I COULDN’T GET COMMUNION BECAUSE I WASN’T CATHOLIC!!! Also, I started questioning the bible since I was 9 or 10 and I still do. As a pan women who is flat chested and not as curvy as anyone would like, I don’t like these kind of men and rather be with a woman. All and all, men kinda suck. 😐

  42. Olivia Stoltenberg on May 4, 2022 at 8:31 pm

    "Easy way or hard way" that’s what my abuser said all the time tbh

  43. Orionishi on May 4, 2022 at 8:33 pm

    I kept hearing Radish instead of ravish.

    To radish your husband….

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