Christian Breakup Advice: 4 Tips If You Want to Heal and Move On

Christian Breakup Advice: 4 Tips If You Want to Heal and Move On

Christian Breakup Advice:

In this video we cover 4 tips if you just broke up. For more information on Christian breakup advice, click here: http://applygodsword.com/christian-dating-breakups-and-4-tips-to-help-you-get-through-it-with-god/

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Intertwined: Our Happiness Is Tied to God’s Glory https://www.amazon.com/Intertwined-Happiness-Tied-Gods-Glory/dp/1548333360/

Redeemed Like David: How to Overcome Sexual Temptation https://www.amazon.com/Redeemed-Like-David-Overcome-Temptation/dp/1533681333/

The Ultimate Guide to Christian Singleness https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Christian-Singleness-Secure/dp/1979126666/

Never Quit: A 5 Week Small Group Bible Study on the Power of Prayer https://www.amazon.com/dp/1979772673/

Basic Transformation: A Small Group Bible Study on the Basics of Christianity and Transformation https://www.amazon.com/dp/197959063X/

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“Christian Breakup Advice”

38 Comments

  1. Breanna Polhamus on April 18, 2022 at 6:15 pm

    I was forced to break up (for safety reasons & against my will) with a man that I met at my old group home. I broke up with him this morning and am now suffering from severe trauma & depression. Please pray for emotional healing & comfort. Thank you. Sincerely, Breanna Polhamus

  2. Sunday Dachomo on April 18, 2022 at 6:16 pm

    spelltabernacle@Gmail com helped me bring back my Ex lover to me through their powers

  3. The Yawning Owlbear on April 18, 2022 at 6:16 pm

    "I shall make a helper fit for him…" this piece of scripture makes me horse laugh every time I read it. Finally thought I was "blessed" by God at finally finding a wife at a church after almost 8 months thinking we were destined to be with one another, she stabs me in the back and ghosts me, after all I did for her including moving her out of a environment that was abusive and unloving. Tender one moment, and then as cold as a black heart. There is no "planned future" for a spouse. You either get lucky and make the connections, or deal with the fact that the social interaction is only for procreation, and is now a means for the state to use marriage as a cash grab when it fails in divorce, and that statistic has sky rocketed for the past decade and climbing. If you believe anything else frankly i find you to be a fool. Before you start slinging verse and book thumping, I still have a small pea sized shread of belief. I try folks, i really do, but after being rejected for years just to finally get two rays of hope, least I thought they were the one godly woman for me, they turn into nightmares. One who was a mental nut job and clingy single mom, the other used me to get her foundation started and bailed on me after I put my heart into it trying to a get a job to support both of us. The last i met in a new church, a church i wish i passed on by to this day. I’m done. If I’m destined to die alone, which I knew from the start, so be it. I don’t care anymore. Perhaps one day god will finally smile on me again, like I thought he use to. Least I still have my peace and freedom.

  4. Sweety Samanta on April 18, 2022 at 6:18 pm

    I just broke up with my bf after 5 years, he had no plan to make me his life partner, I always used to pray God, that please God let me know if that person is good for me or not and God has shown me his true side, it’s feels like I have wasted my time over a boy who don’t have a plan to marry me

  5. Sirena Montreal A.K.A Eli Battle Angel on April 18, 2022 at 6:22 pm

    Thank u God bless

  6. N Wz on April 18, 2022 at 6:27 pm

    Thank you, I made the decision to end the relationship as there were many points in which I struggled but I also regret it and want it back even though it was damaging. I ask God to please help me to continue to go through with this decision. Id appreciate anyone’s prayers please xx

  7. Della Swanson on April 18, 2022 at 6:28 pm

    I am recovering from a break up that hit on me recently. He told me that he has too many thoughts of lust and he has been trying hard to fight it but at about 7 months he just couldnt fight it anymore. Did this hurt me? Yes, it did. But by only God’s grace and compassion, am I healed in Y’shua’s Name.

  8. cherryblossom on April 18, 2022 at 6:29 pm

    1. Do not make an unbiblical point about God in your painful season.
    2. Grieve appropriately; not too short not too long.
    3. Put healthy boundaries between you and your ex.
    4. Confess your sins and forgive your ex. Forgive yourself and your ex.

  9. Hermella Getachew on April 18, 2022 at 6:29 pm

    Wow , thank you , this was for me

  10. Trey Wallace on April 18, 2022 at 6:29 pm

    Mark, thank you. I just got out of a relationship over the past few days and it’s with the person I thought was my best friend ever and who loved me more than I’ve ever known, I felt the same. This helped me see how to start trying to set the track right for it because even though it’s devastating, I don’t feel any sort of hate. This gave some clarity, thanks brother

  11. Helen Lopez on April 18, 2022 at 6:31 pm

    My boyfriend broke up with me after one year and I’m really hurt

  12. eden cams on April 18, 2022 at 6:32 pm

    I needed this. Thank you! But how come guys move on more easily?!

  13. Nick Garcia on April 18, 2022 at 6:33 pm

    my relationship just ended and i thought that this woman was going to be my wife. i cant stop thinking about her and i feel like ill never be able to move on. please keep my healing heart in your prayers because im feeling so broken

  14. humblepeanut 82 on April 18, 2022 at 6:33 pm

    me girlfriend of one year just broke up with me and i treated her so wrongly ive never loved a human being so much in my life as i did her, im so heartbroken i need prayer for healing

  15. føx paws on April 18, 2022 at 6:37 pm

    my boyfriend and me just broke up after 10 and a half months
    he couldn’t get a relationship with God but that good thing is that we had a good few laughs before we slept
    it’s 3:30 in the morning right now
    please God heal me
    i miss him so much
    and even though he didn’t want to turn to God fully, he was still a good boyfriend
    he believes in God and everything
    it was just a lukewarm situation
    he had different goals
    it still hurts bad
    it’s really true what they say
    “You never know the true value of something until you lose it”
    im this case it was mine and his relationship
    but we agreed to still be friends

  16. Absolute Grace on April 18, 2022 at 6:42 pm

    That person didn’t even ask a genuine sorry then how can I forgive him?

  17. Bee DiDo on April 18, 2022 at 6:43 pm

    Thank you. This was a good confirmation from God, that He comes before anything in life. Thank you.

  18. Yahnni & Bella on April 18, 2022 at 6:44 pm

    Thank you so much, it helps a lot. God bless you more!

  19. _heyimbritt on April 18, 2022 at 6:45 pm

    Hey! If you haven’t already can yiu do a video on this wave of "New Age" religion. The prosperity teachings of the church and the importance of applying Gods word. I hope that makes sense. Thanks!! Love your page BECAUSE you back everything with scripture.

  20. joe yawson on April 18, 2022 at 6:45 pm

    My girlfriend left me cos God told her I’m not the one for her.. I feel awful

  21. martina thom on April 18, 2022 at 6:48 pm

    I broke up with someone two weeks ago. I don’t feel a thing, its just like another day

  22. servant Leadership on April 18, 2022 at 6:49 pm

    There reasons for all things happened to our Life. God has a plan and purpose in your life.

    *Why God allows Breakups Relatonship?*

    https://youtu.be/gjU7x5HGMA0
    Yo will praise God when you came to know the truth Why its happent to your life.
    A Biblical Answer from….

    BENSIC MIRANDA,
    Family Counselor ,
    Director : Institute of Christian counseling.

    Please
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  23. Milton Music Tv on April 18, 2022 at 6:49 pm

    Kindly help me now. My fiance informed me through she’s pregnant yet the pregnancy is not mine. We are both Christian, it’s paining me alot. Here is my email issiyemilton@gmail.com

  24. Tanu Massey on April 18, 2022 at 6:50 pm

    thanks for this message we need this

  25. Keilea Messick on April 18, 2022 at 6:52 pm

    I want to have a healthy talk with my ex because I feel like that’s the only way I can move on but he blocked me on everything

  26. Bensic Miranda on April 18, 2022 at 6:53 pm

    There reasons for all things happened to our Life. God has a plan and purpose in your life.

    *Why God allows Breakups Relatonship?*

    https://youtu.be/gjU7x5HGMA0
    Yo will praise God when you came to know the truth Why its happent to your life.
    A Biblical Answer from….

    BENSIC MIRANDA,
    Family Counselor ,
    Director : Institute of Christian counseling.

    Please
    Like…….Shere……Subscribe

  27. Laurie Philips on April 18, 2022 at 6:54 pm

    This was very helpful. I know I let go of my faith because he did not believe in Jesus as his mother and I did. So I probably should have stayed friends with him and rubbed off some of my faith onto him. Instead, I let go of my faith. This was a big lessen for me after being a lone for so long. We started out as friends for 7 months before the relationship started The signs were there but I ignored them because I wanted it to work. That was my mistake. I forgave him for what he did to end the relationship and I am working on myself to forgive and coming to terms with renewing my faith and staying connected to God no matter what is going on in my life. Thanks so much for the video. Blessings to you and yours!

  28. Антон Петров on April 18, 2022 at 6:55 pm

    My ex fiancé broke our engagement and it’s still hitting hard on me… 12 days later. Please pray I get through this. I know the time isn’t right for us and she brought out a new plane of love and joy I never experienced and the lord is telling me I need to draw closer to him and trust him more than anyone else. In terms of my ex fiancé he told me to just be patient and wait and to seek him. I still love her so very much dearly.

  29. boss man on April 18, 2022 at 6:56 pm

    Thank you God for guidance by getting her out of my life

  30. Kerry on April 18, 2022 at 6:57 pm

    God will show his love…by protecting you from future hurt. He can see the big picture. We cannot see what the future holds.

  31. Weslee Van Slyke on April 18, 2022 at 6:57 pm

    Im young but did not take my relationship for granted. My heart has been trying to find a way to heal for just about a year. It hurts but i know the best thing to do is to turn to God! He has the answers and will help me! Thank you for sharing this it has brought ease to my heart and can allow me to continue to move forward!

  32. Mary Swenson on April 18, 2022 at 6:57 pm

    Great advice! Not enough people stop to think about what they did wrong after a breakup rarely does anyone admit they had faults and then they go into another relationship with the same end results and the cycle continues.

  33. Ngala Hansel on April 18, 2022 at 7:01 pm

    Very important to own up to our own contribution to the dysfunction in the relationship. I am going through a breakup and my heart literally hurts. I pray this season gets over real fast and I can settle down and see where God leads me. I feel like a horrible failure.

  34. Engelbert Soliva on April 18, 2022 at 7:02 pm

    Thank you so much and God Bless you too…

  35. Silvana Valderrama on April 18, 2022 at 7:09 pm

    Hi,I have a question on the boundaries! What if I’m not sure he isn’t the one and maybe it’s just not the time for us to be together?

  36. martina thom on April 18, 2022 at 7:09 pm

    I don’t think I grieved because I noticed God protects me from intense grief and literally blocks certin memories. He has done it before. the guy wanted to be friends with me . I broke up with him, I told him nicely no we cant . we should move on and I wish you well in life and he said he loved me and that was that. I feel nothing at all about this situation

  37. Eric R on April 18, 2022 at 7:12 pm

    You’re so amazing. Thank you for all of your videos

  38. Ashley Rose on April 18, 2022 at 7:13 pm

    How long should I wait before I remove someone as my follower from Instagram? It boggles my mind not being unfollowed already and I just want to be able to make post without worrying about who’s actually seeing what or what they might Misunderstand about me. I don’t want to think that my post are just shots in the dark because I know they are not.

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