What To Know About The ENGAGEMENT PERIOD- What Intentional Christian Dating Looked Like For Us (5/5)

What To Know About The ENGAGEMENT PERIOD- What Intentional Christian Dating Looked Like For Us (5/5)

‘What To Know About The ENGAGEMENT PERIOD- What Intentional Christian Dating Looked Like For Us (5/5)’
Just like the other phases in dating, the engagement period comes with its own things to be mindful of. Engagement should be fun and exciting, but you’re not married yet so let’s not get ahead of ourselves! Enjoy the final video in our Intentional Dating series, and don’t forget to check out parts 1-4!

⭐️What Intentional Dating Looked Like For Us (SERIES)
(1/5) BIG Questions We Asked Each Other Early In Dating

(2/5) What We Did Together/How Much Time Spent?

(3/5) Our Physical Boundaries

(4/5) How We Knew They Were ‘The One’ To Marry

(5/5) What To Know About The ENGAGEMENT PERIOD


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  1. Jesus Sierra on March 15, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    God Bless you guys! I needed these videos

  2. Truck Driver on March 15, 2022 at 5:12 pm

    My Girl and I started dating in July 2018,I proposed to her in March 2019.So we have been engaged 4 months now!!! It seems like such a short time when you find someone who loves you and you Love them!!! God is SO good my sweetheart has pretty much everything I wanted in a wife!! I just watched this happen to other people thinking,"O it will never happen for me.There is a time and season for every purpose under heaven!! So for those of you who are discouraged be patient God is the God of the impossible.Our wedding is scheduled for October 2019 so just 3 months to go!!

  3. Ruzeth on March 15, 2022 at 5:15 pm

    Has your book come out yet??

  4. Iconique on March 15, 2022 at 5:16 pm

    Morgan may not know you’re a closeted homosexual Paul, but God does.

  5. Christelle N on March 15, 2022 at 5:17 pm

    How fast is your channel growing oh wow #THisIsAMoveOfGod

  6. Tea on March 15, 2022 at 5:17 pm

    Everyone in these comments go watch Jaclyn Glenn debunk these idiots.

  7. Candace on March 15, 2022 at 5:20 pm

    A year or less! With the way things are today, people wait so long to get married for diffferent reasons, but people can spend so much time getting ready and prepared for their wedding, but not for their marriage.

  8. Sarah D on March 15, 2022 at 5:24 pm

    What kinds of questions does a premarital counselor ask?

  9. Awesomeness on March 15, 2022 at 5:26 pm

    Is Youtube your jobs or do you have jobs outside of it? I haven’t heard you talk about it.

  10. zippy blessed on March 15, 2022 at 5:26 pm

    So handsome.

  11. TheKchar on March 15, 2022 at 5:27 pm

    Why is the woman proposing strange?

  12. Sarah Brubaker on March 15, 2022 at 5:30 pm

    It’s so encouraging to know that other Christians believe these things. We shouldn’t put ourselves in tempting situations… which is what a long engagement is!

  13. Usikkert111 on March 15, 2022 at 5:31 pm

    Why do you think it is so strange if a female makes the proposition? Like, I find it equally as weird that you find women proposing that weird.

  14. Benjamen Drummond on March 15, 2022 at 5:31 pm

    I think the engagement period should be anywhere from 4-6 months. As a patron myself, I think a great idea would be to do live discussions through video chat where us patrons can both talk to you and you talk to us at the same time. We could discuss the topics in the videos on a deeper level and open it up to further learning.

  15. Latonya Battle on March 15, 2022 at 5:32 pm

    Great video!!

  16. Autumn Hampton on March 15, 2022 at 5:33 pm

    Ok after 4 months I went to a church for Christian marriage counseling.
    to see if my boyfriend was the right fit and the last day he broke up with me.
    We talked all about sex. But didn’t come close to doing anything. I’m an open book. It all depends on the person.
    I love digging in real deep. Lol

  17. C J on March 15, 2022 at 5:36 pm

    My pastor did a sermon on exposure to your spouse, not physically but spiritually. And about spiritual intimacy being replaced by physical intimacy in a pre-marital relationship. And losing spiritual exposure because of that physical intimacy building up walls betwwen each person. What do you think of the idea that couple can cause a false sense of intimacy and exposure between the couple. And that being mistaken for what an "ideal" ( I guess lol) and Godly relationship? How do you thibk this would affect the path to marriage. Also, how can you heal a relationship from sexual sin in the past? Or is it even lossible to move past that?

  18. Jonathan Krech on March 15, 2022 at 5:40 pm

    This is really good practical advice!

  19. Heather Savonne on March 15, 2022 at 5:43 pm

    I just got engaged and we are still intentionally dating doing things God’s way! Still have another 4 months to go and it’s getting harder but it’s so worth it to wait for him! Y’all pray for me!

  20. Daniel Scully on March 15, 2022 at 5:43 pm

    All 5 of the series! Booya!

  21. Veggies by Eos on March 15, 2022 at 5:45 pm

    Nothing against you guys, I love you guys, but this is why I don’t believe in saving sex till marriage. When you do, most (not all) couples seem to rush dating and rush the engagement period. It took me about 2-3 years with both my exs to realize that it wasn’t going to work out in the end. I feel like most people who save sex until marriage get married in less than 2 years

  22. Scott Family on March 15, 2022 at 5:49 pm

    Conservative in dating but that button shirt could up a little, ahem!

  23. child of god on March 15, 2022 at 5:50 pm

    use me as a jamesxfraser button

  24. Delihlah on March 15, 2022 at 5:50 pm

    My parents just never got married so it was pretty easy for them. No rules besides consent. I plan to wait to marry my partner simply because I’m not ready to call myself a wife yet, plus I’d like to save up money so I can afford what I want to achieve. House first, pets are my priority to get them adjusted, engagement, marriage after everything is set and whatever happens after that happens. I’ve been with my partner since our freshman year of high school and no, of course we didn’t wait for marriage since I don’t believe in it, hell, weddings/engagement rings are man made things anyway. I believe in waiting until both you and your partner are ready (and educated on sex of course.) One of the biggest reasons I left church was the pressure on my virginity and sexuality as if the church owned my body. My mother has encouraged and educated me as much as she can to tell me to live my life how I want as long as it brings me joy. I fell in love with my partner in 9th grade and we’ve been together for years after, after he FINALLY finishes college that’s when we’re thinking about getting married, not for us, just for our families and friends. It will be very small as large crowds frighten me so it won’t really be a traditional wedding, probably just a small ceremony and a "party" afterwards with friends and some family.

  25. Anni Storey on March 15, 2022 at 5:51 pm

    For me, the ideal engagement length depends on how long you were dating. But if I had to choose, I’d say a year to a year and a half for two reasons: the first being that you have enough time to plan your dream wedding (many places are booked at least a year in advance). And the second reason being that you’ll be more sure you want to spend the rest of your life with this person! As a psychologist with a minor in statistics, I know that shorter dating and engagement periods (under one year) are more likely to lead to divorce, as do long engagement periods (over 2 years).

  26. Amazing Grace on March 15, 2022 at 5:52 pm

    Please not 2 years! lol

  27. Leah Melendez on March 15, 2022 at 5:52 pm

    Y’all live your life SO different from my fiancé and I

  28. R O M E O GARCIA on March 15, 2022 at 5:52 pm

    Should I ask her dad or her dad and her mom to propose to her

  29. هاجر الهاشمية on March 15, 2022 at 5:53 pm

    Love with the series❤❤❤much love Morgan’s

  30. Tea on March 15, 2022 at 5:55 pm

    Morgan acts like she is on drugs.

  31. luxconcept on March 15, 2022 at 5:58 pm

    If all sin is equal why are you so hateful towards gays when you have tattoos? Such a hypocrite. When I was Christian I was never like you filled with such disdain for others. I don’t know who you learned this from but I was taught that Christ loved and spent all his time with outcasts and sinners. You guys are a bad representation of Christians in general. Please stop this nonsense….you give Christians a bad name.

  32. Gillian Wong on March 15, 2022 at 5:59 pm

    My fiancé and I were planning to be engaged for 6 months, but cut it down to 3 months

  33. Laura Vieira on March 15, 2022 at 6:02 pm

    Hi how about after your married what is your opinion about not nice in-laws

  34. Delihlah on March 15, 2022 at 6:02 pm

    It’s only 2 minutes into the video and they’re already saying women Shouldn’t propose to men because it’s weird.

  35. MadMadi on March 15, 2022 at 6:04 pm

    Why is it the only Christian thing you guys speak on are about marriages(even though marriage predates Christianity).How about spending free time being constructive, charity, finding friends, insecurities, self doubt, self care, being a good person, different types of prayers/verses you fall back to during rough times? Or maybe helping out others and how you go about doing that. So far from your vids, Christian life looks drab and boring.

  36. Artonique Hodges on March 15, 2022 at 6:04 pm

    loved this video! you guys are such an inspiration!

  37. Jill Evans on March 15, 2022 at 6:05 pm


  38. Taylor Pitman on March 15, 2022 at 6:08 pm

    Romans 10:13 "For WHOSOEVER shall call upon the name of the LORD shall be saved!" God bless you all and much love to you no matter our differences, especially from our Lord Jesus Christ, God’s only begotten Son!

  39. Bianca Hiestermann on March 15, 2022 at 6:08 pm

    Hey guys
    I personally would say between 6 and 8 months is an ideal engagement time, but obviously it depends on some other factors and is not the same for everyone 🙂

  40. Cecily Haag on March 15, 2022 at 6:10 pm

    I wish I knew earlier that you shouldn’t keep dating for a very long time, and that engagement shouldn’t be too long. My fiancee and I are already together for over 5 years (4 years dating and the rest engagement) and it will still be 8 months untill we’re finally getting married. I should have known that it shouldn’t take that long at least two years ago so I would have been wiser in this regards (and already be married).

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