Christian Dating Advice for Women

Christian Dating Advice for Women

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Christian dating advice for women starts with applying the Bible. Here are 6 tips for Christian women in the dating scene.

1. Don’t Date Someone You Know You Won’t Marry
2. Never Settle, But Make Sure Your Standards Are Realistic
3. Don’t Trust a Guy Who Seems Too Perfect
4. Listen to Your Friends and Family
5. Don’t Just Think About Now. Think About Your Future
6. Look for Character, Not Talent

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  1. Trino Ponce on May 28, 2019 at 12:27 pm

    MMMMM your 2nd thing you mention is on target, but your 1 thing you mention goes in contradiction to the 2nd thing you mention. The 2nd thing is right on target.

  2. URHO TM on May 28, 2019 at 12:29 pm

    Hey, I’ve always wanted to be someone’s little sister! Yay! And thank you foe these advice. My prayer to God is simple, to marry someone closest to Jesus’ traits but I think that’s the highest standard ever. Well, that’s my dream. I pray to be Christlike too. 🙂

  3. Suz on May 28, 2019 at 12:30 pm

    I agree 100% 1) Date with a purpose to find your spouse. 2) Yes, realistic standards and don’t settle. 3) too many fraudulent men so be aware 4)yes, friends and family see things that you don’t see. They care about you. 5) Their past dictates their future most likely. 6) look for character not talent. So true! Great advice bro! I love this video. I wish I would have seen this video when I was 21. I’m older and wiser now and this is sound advice for younger single christian women

  4. tohonour on May 28, 2019 at 12:31 pm

    God bless you!

  5. ludmila hayati on May 28, 2019 at 12:34 pm

    I just love your words they are so truthful. This gave me more strength to continue being single, I’m not looking for a perfect man but a good man.

  6. Tony Rowan on May 28, 2019 at 12:35 pm

    My advice is for young Christians not to date or marry at this time. Our nation is in serious trouble! We are facing violence and upheaval soon. I think you should take the Apostle Paul’s warning seriously: you will fare better single when these difficult times come.

  7. Augusta Yarteh on May 28, 2019 at 12:36 pm

    is very true. I will do not do it, for sure especially for somebody who I am not going to married to i will never think about that to go out with them. this is a bright great advice Of course. i refuse to rush to any Relationship Some of those men always judge people wrongly but their is a God Who has final says. Is true my dear I am always thinking of my future especially of how. I am doing things great sound advice sir.

  8. 90 & Out on May 28, 2019 at 12:37 pm

    My parents have been married for over 40 years. My dad pursued my mom in high school and she courted him. Yes, in that order. My mom describes my dad as a man of God and one who knows how to woo her. She describes him as a man of integrity who stands for what’s right even when it’s not popular. He’s a man of wisdom and strength.
    I find it comical when she talks about when they first met. She told him to his face he was the ugliest man she had ever met. LoL

  9. Trish G on May 28, 2019 at 12:40 pm

    I’m so glad I found your channel. I’m enjoying info on relationships, dating and marriage. Keep up the good work! Thank you! 🙂

  10. Puppet Master on May 28, 2019 at 12:40 pm

    Great advice. The video you made for men is excellent as well. Too high of a list of standards will scare people off.

  11. Monika on May 28, 2019 at 12:40 pm

    Thanks you for this common sense summary

  12. Lauren P. on May 28, 2019 at 12:42 pm

    So many awesome points in this! Thank you for posting!

  13. Bonnie Bost on May 28, 2019 at 12:42 pm

    What standards are too high? Are these standards to high: mature Christian, wants to serve the Lord, sexual purity – virgin, and has a job that provides. I am older and even I still get crazy guys who can’t do these standards. Plus I think you need to tell the guys to give a girl a chance. They don’t see physical beauty, they just walk away with put trying to get to know me either.

  14. Mr. R on May 28, 2019 at 12:48 pm

    Be perfect in all things. That’s the expectations at least if you are a black male ha.

  15. Imary Diogo on May 28, 2019 at 12:50 pm

    I wish my sister could watch this video when she was blindly in love with and non-christian, because she’s now married, suffering and still believing that the Lord has revealed to her to marry this guy. I feel so sorry for her choice!

  16. Tanesiha Herise Johnson on May 28, 2019 at 12:50 pm

    We all grow from what we do and say but something’s are not caught when taught, thanks for sharing but I’m keeping busy with the things of the Lord and do desire marriage but it has to be according to the Lord leading that man thanks for your breakdown. 1Cor.7:8-9, 32

  17. Betsy De Jesus on May 28, 2019 at 12:51 pm

    Thank you big bother !!!! ❤️❤️

  18. Jacquelyn Langhein on May 28, 2019 at 12:52 pm

    Very informative thanks Mark.

  19. LATEESHA SMITH on May 28, 2019 at 12:52 pm

    …… #3 #3 #3!

  20. Brianna on May 28, 2019 at 12:53 pm

    Such good advice!!!! WOW

  21. Panda Polo on May 28, 2019 at 12:53 pm

    So true…my husband seemed perfect when we dated. There would be weeks when I wouldn’t see him and he wouldn’t show up to church, so I only ever saw him at his best.
    When married (after dating 3 years) He ended up abusing me physically, emotionally and mentally.
    Neglecting me etc. The point is God has the best for you so make sure that any red flags know- that God has someone better.
    Pray for your spouse don’t just wishfully think he’s the one.
    My ex husband was selfish. He seemed godly but an awful husband.
    Be careful. Hope this blesses someone

  22. Hamilton Rowan on May 28, 2019 at 12:56 pm

    "Now concerning the questions you wrote about. It is good for a man not to touch a woman!" 1 Corinthians 7:1. That’s good enough advice for me!

  23. SymphonicCrown on May 28, 2019 at 12:58 pm

    One of the best channels I’ve ever come across. Every video is life changing. Please keep up the great work and I pray God keeps blessing you and enriches you with his wisdom

  24. Shirley McKenney-Hornyak on May 28, 2019 at 12:59 pm

    Thanks for the advice. I appreciate your insight.. May God bless you and your family.. Keep up the great work.

  25. Rose Morales on May 28, 2019 at 1:00 pm

    Awesome reality check! Great advise! God bless!

  26. Trino Ponce on May 28, 2019 at 1:00 pm

    Ok… there are many problems I found with your first statement. Date to marry. Your idea will chase anyone away, talking about marriage already ? This will scare anyone away.
    2nd thing wrong: Is this the one God has for you ? God doesn’t have anyone for you. That would violate His Word, God has given us a free will, we choose, we decide, NOT God. That’s why He tells us, Be Not Unequally Yoked Together With A Unbeliever.
    Now we can pray and ask God, help me find a good Christian man/woman. We can pray for guidance and direction. But we’re the ones who decide.

  27. Matthew Garcia on May 28, 2019 at 1:00 pm

    Thank you so much for your knowledge brother . Plz pray for me I will pray for you all. God save us all. Let’s do this.

  28. Lauren The Heiress on May 28, 2019 at 1:05 pm

    What about evangelizing?

  29. Tony Rowan on May 28, 2019 at 1:06 pm

    Again I urge all single people to stay single!

  30. Glenda Johnson on May 28, 2019 at 1:10 pm

    No l think go straight to the point why going around the bush it like playing game we are human been you make it feel like rules that my opinion.

  31. Gregory Hellenkamp on May 28, 2019 at 1:11 pm

    Quite a load of bullshit.

  32. destinee Siseho on May 28, 2019 at 1:13 pm

    Thank you so much for the confirmation

  33. Nella Ab on May 28, 2019 at 1:14 pm

    Religious people are hypocrites. They are dirty perverts who cover up by pretending to be man of God.

  34. Anointed Prophet on May 28, 2019 at 1:17 pm

    This is my testimony concerning dating or courting: I didn’t date my wife nor did I court her. I asked God to pick my wife for me and He did. I met her online, even before all those dating websites came to be. I talked to her the first time on April 1st and I asked her to marry me on April 5th. We were married for almost 18 years and she died before our 18th anniversary. We met each other in person, two days before we got married. I would never recommend anyone to do that, unless you know that it is the will of God and God has told or shown you that is the person.

  35. nobody46820 on May 28, 2019 at 1:17 pm


  36. Meesh on May 28, 2019 at 1:19 pm

    My best advice for anyone dating is to know your own values VERY well, and to put God as your number one value. Then seek a partner who also who puts God first, knows their own values very well, and whose values in other areas are as aligned with your own as much as possible

  37. Eve Williams on May 28, 2019 at 1:20 pm

    This misses out the biggest challenge Christian women face., None of this advice can be put into place unless you actually find a Christian single male and the Church is 66% female. Most single Christian women, especially those older than student age, don;t even get to the point where hearing any of this would be relevant.

  38. Splat the roadkill Cat on May 28, 2019 at 1:22 pm

    My ex dated me because he came out of a bad relationship and wanted to take a chance to see if it would lead to marriage. Marriage was not something he said was definate but possible if things come together ok. Bearing in mind he had a bad marriage a child involved and the ex has learning issues. He pandered to her alot. I was gradually excluded to the point where she was around so much they were too emotionally involved. That was just so I will get out the way. He was too eager. Even fasted to "win" me. Stopped making an effort to say or show affection after six months, then when he did show it it was few and far between, saying he did not want to do it too often incase it becomes routine! God made it clear to step away from him. Behaviour such as excluding me from his affections got so bad he was pointing out my flaws, particularly when I pulled him up on the things he was saying and doing. That was when it was clear to be shot of him. Before it was do you want us to split? He was I don’t know. The confusion was blocking the obvious answer. I have a very good godly friend who helped me see he was stringing me along. Walking away was hard as I was saying goodbye to my only chance as I saw it of marriage and child. I am 40+ (He had the cheek to let me know he did not want anymore kids 2 years into our relationship and was not going to tell me. It just happened to be something he added to to a conversation we had about his having to move) God gave me strength to walk away and trust him. What you said about being just too good to be true …he was like that. To get me to date him.That act wears off in time anx he was also too keen on talking about appologetics and doctrine rather than pray and talk about us or bible study. His actions were not godly in terms of behaving fair towards me during his dilemma of making his mind up. Instead of going to the lord about this he carried on stringing me along. The right thing would have been to both step back and pray. But not him. He chose to disrespect me so I was the one who walked.
    I am saying this so someone else will not fall into the trap I fell into. When things don’t add up ..their explanations seem too convenient or feel like half the story ..or they use avoidance tactics if pressed with the blame "we had this conversation before" "There is no answer" "your going round in the same old circle over again" Walk away. Just go. Do not play their games. Your instinct is usually right. Unfortunatly alot of men (and women can be guilty of this too) go into churches looking for a partner and not focas on God. We need to be aware of that.

  39. Angela Wolfe Puente on May 28, 2019 at 1:22 pm

    PLEASEE could you make a video related to christian/nonc christian dating???? I mean, should a christian date a non-christian?why??

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