Christian Dating Advice for Men

Christian Dating Advice for Men

Every guy is different. We all have some unique gifts and challenges. So not all of this Christian dating advice will apply to all Christian men. I’ll have to make some generalizations . But I believe these 6 pieces of dating advice apply to many Christian men.

1. Think About Your Future Together, Not Your Fantasy
2. Before You Pursue a Life Partner, Stop Watching Porn
3. Be the Type of Man She Would Want
4. Don’t Turn Her Purity Into Your Sacred Cow
5. Make Sure Both of Your Life Trajectories Are Similar Enough
6. Marry Someone Who Respects You, Not Someone Who Worships You

For more information about each of these 6 dating tips for Christian men, read this article with all the Bible verses and info to back them up: http://applygodsword.com/christian-dating-advice-for-men/

Problems with the some “Christian” views on purity: http://applygodsword.com/sexual-purity-how-the-church-often-gets-it-wrong/

Free eBook to help with sexual temptation: http://applygodsword.com/a-bible-study-for-mens-accountability-partners/

26 Comments

  1. Joshua Moore on May 28, 2019 at 12:28 pm

    When I heard no.2 I stopped the vid and liked it instantly. Good job.

  2. James Robertson on May 28, 2019 at 12:28 pm

    Life has taught me that you can’t control someone’s loyalty. No matter how good you are to them it doesn’t mean that they will treat you the same way. I have been married to my wife for two years with no idea she was cheating. Suddenly i started noticing changes in behavior, i suspected something was wrong. So i confided in a friend who convinced and introduced me to a hacker. He was able to hack into my wife mobile phone, Text messages, Call logs, IG, browser history, deleted messages, Emails and WhatsApp . It seemed as though my life was spinning out of control getting to find out she has someone else. I filed for a divorce just could not continue with lies. If you feel you are been exploited in your marriage and you need proof. I suggest you give masterhackerr099@gmail.com text +19184209323.He has been of great help to me and i believe he can be to you.

  3. Boitumelo Manake on May 28, 2019 at 12:30 pm

    Thank you!!awesome i have learned a lot, I’m subscribing to this Channel.

  4. George Penton on May 28, 2019 at 12:37 pm

    It seems to me that the kindness, meekness, and humility that the Lord expects of men is diametrically opposed to the aggressive alpha male types that women, even Christian women, want and expect.

  5. James S on May 28, 2019 at 12:38 pm

    I don’t know about focusing on what kind of man she wants me to be, I’m going to focus on the man God wants me to be, I was married to my wife she became saved way before I was, I did everything I could for her, worked hard for her, provided for her, stayed by her when she needed a shoulder to lean on, put Jesus Christ in the center of our marriage, I cooked, did laundry, watched out kids as she went to college, what does my "Christian" wife do, constantly complains what we didn’t have, compared me to our single male neighbor admiring his car, hung out with her divorced friends, when I lost my government job, she told me she can’t be with a man who works an any penny job, even though I worked 2 minimum wage jobs and still paid the bills, she ended up divorcing me, and abandoning my kids, raised my kids by myself with the help of Jesus Christ. 17 years later she still has nothing to show for her life. I love my children their a blessing, ex-wife.speechless , looking for a proverbs 31 woman. My time is valuable, and I don’t have time to play with Christian women not grounded in the word.

  6. Augusta Yarteh on May 28, 2019 at 12:39 pm

    wow nice one they will always struggle because, they don’t pray to God for God to choose the right one for them. My brother some christian men has high thinking in a relationship.Some thing really baffles me with some christian men this days;they like to listening to then says what people will say to them about somebody they set their eyes on. When some christian men are going through their own frustration they will take it and bring it to the innocent woman who is going through their own stuff.My brother what i am praying to God for.God to give me more grace to love my husband respected him do what I am supposed to do as a woman in that home.This world we are now I see the way some men are treating their wives so arrogant, with no respect . I strongly believe that when i am inside that institution I have abide to that rules and regulations big time. The way I am seeing things is happening in a relationship ooh boy I am so afraid to enter into it some treatment is very terrible. Sound teaching most of my friends they know I am very nervous about that I don’t want somebody that will come and yell at me like their boy or kids. The world is very advance men will do anything they don’t care about anything. great preaching.

  7. Kyle VA on May 28, 2019 at 12:43 pm

    Huge misconception, dont belive what social media tells you about being this grate alpha male just looking to hook up, its just a temporary display, as soon as she see through the fakeness of that, she gone.. An you just run around like the rest of the clowns doing the same thing. whats the spirit of that? Its not of Christ.

  8. Octavious Mckenzie on May 28, 2019 at 12:43 pm

    I agree with about pron and sexural addiction and honestly I need to over come on this with God help and also in other things you michen and I would like to be with the right woman that what you have said

  9. Emota 1q3 on May 28, 2019 at 12:47 pm

    Awesome video!

  10. Scott Brockman on May 28, 2019 at 12:51 pm

    7:42, Amen to that :-).

  11. HCoRE8 on May 28, 2019 at 12:53 pm

    Nice tips, thank you from a Christian.

  12. Brotherin King Prophet Blake Devon A/Sawan on May 28, 2019 at 12:54 pm

    Terrific advice brotherin

  13. socallawrence on May 28, 2019 at 12:55 pm

    Awesome channel man

  14. Barbara Thompson on May 28, 2019 at 12:59 pm

    Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!

  15. Bunfire123 on May 28, 2019 at 1:00 pm

    Thank you

  16. Venancio Rodriguez on May 28, 2019 at 1:02 pm

    These are great!! I loved #4. Right on!

    Yes! #2 is huge. I overcame porn & God opened the floodgates of blessings upon my life, the freedom is unreal.

    Subscribed!

  17. Penafiel Airelyn on May 28, 2019 at 1:03 pm

    hi i hope i can find true man here

  18. Zackary Zielinski on May 28, 2019 at 1:05 pm

    When it comes to career choices you guys do what God calls you to do and that needs to be the compromise!

  19. Joshua Kalin on May 28, 2019 at 1:05 pm

    Thank you for a much clearer advise.

  20. AIM on May 28, 2019 at 1:06 pm

    Hey brotha, i just wanted to thank you, i needed this im going to be honest I’ve been a bit wild and got into worldly relationships and sexual relationships and one day i hit rock bottom hard and i found God and i found my girlfriend of one year she is very spiritual but the man i was a year ago i was thinking of her that way i got to know her more and more and i love her so much excuse my language but i feel like an asshole for trying to get with her sexually im getting closer to God and i want to be equally yoked with my women thanks again for this advice i been stuck in my worldly ways for to long its time to be a man of God and gain a beautiful relationship with God for me and for the sake of my wonderful girl…. God bless you bro keep up with the videos you really hit home today….

  21. Emota 1q3 on May 28, 2019 at 1:06 pm

    Awesome video!

  22. USS ENTERPRISE on May 28, 2019 at 1:09 pm

    I’m amazed at how much I don’t know ,even at my age! You ,my friend ,have a new subscriber! Thank you!

  23. Kent Peterson on May 28, 2019 at 1:10 pm

    I actually made a deal with God. Told him I’d quit watching porn and going to strip clubs but he never did so I just kept doing it out of anger

  24. Matthew Roy on May 28, 2019 at 1:12 pm

    Where’s your references to scripture? I don’t say this to disqualify everything you said, but if your channel is called “applying God’s word” I think it’s important you let them know where you’re getting this advice from. This isn’t to say you can’t say anything other than what is in the Bible… just make sure your clearly show where you came to this advice. I say this because you did not reference one verse. Just keep that in mind maybe. Gods word should never be underestimated! I hope you implement this into your videos! We need people to keep speaking God’s word into all situations.

  25. Paul MacArthur on May 28, 2019 at 1:12 pm

    This should be much higher on the search results for single christian male searches. The best presentation I’ve seen yet. Thanks man. Liked and subscribed. Even hit the little bell.

  26. Jason Martinez on May 28, 2019 at 1:18 pm

    Prayers are really requested for me.Tomorrow i will ask this girl out!

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