Before The Person :: Relationship Goals (Part 1)

Before The Person :: Relationship Goals (Part 1)

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  1. Elly Hujon on May 28, 2019 at 12:29 pm

    It is such a blessing …God bless you n use u more

  2. JMissy 205 on May 28, 2019 at 12:29 pm

    Changed my life yesterday

  3. Edwin Agas on May 28, 2019 at 12:31 pm

    This is nice..The Magical Text That Makes Almost Any Man Psychologically Addicted to You… Forever…?
    Try this tip..

  4. Simbarashe Mashamba on May 28, 2019 at 12:32 pm

    I think it’s beautiful people sharing things in the comments it makes me smile and helps me with my own path. So let me say my part too, recently I have been struggling a lot with depression. Not being able to find purpose In my life, losing people I love, not being able to hold relationships and make sure they are nutured and healthy. I recently came out of a toxic relationship too which just topped everything off, I decided to turn back to God. Nothing was happening, I was becoming impatient and would find myself doing things of the flesh. (drinking, smoking weed & pornography) I always thought at least I’m doing something at least I’m learning the word of God. But after watching this I realised, if I truly want my life to be forever good and forever happy. I need to let go of everything and let Him fill me up and take control. I’m watching this at midnight and cant wait for the next day to start so I can fully begin my journey of knowing him. I’m going to fill myself with Him until the day I die. God is all loving and powerful he truly does heal and makes me feel better when I come to him. But being stuck in the same situation is draining and can make you shift eyes from the bigger picture. I can’t wait to complete this series and take on the journey of my life with God and who he has destined for me to be. Thank you God for giving me this message I am truly greatful, amen! Much love and peace to all, I hope you find what you are looking for in life through Him!

  5. Happey67 on May 28, 2019 at 12:35 pm

    I have always known that my body was the temple of God so I did not toy with it. I did experiment though but it was not worth it. You are absolutely correct. The Christian path, people are so pretentious. They pretend they are not lonely, some don’t have friends, some men all they do is to read their Bible and do not talk much to their wives (mostly Caribbean people) We mostly pretend. Well I want to travel with my mate, I work every Sunday in the children’s ministry. I have done missionary trips overseas and locally and I do not understand why God has not given me the "One’ for me. I drive a nice car, I have traveled, I am very attractive, nice looking, I am educated, ambitious so what is wrong God? I am told to wait, LOL! Over 45 years old and those silly Christians are saying to wait. DWL!

  6. Martha Kinyua on May 28, 2019 at 12:39 pm

    This message hit me real hard…God bless pastor Mike

  7. Rohan George on May 28, 2019 at 12:44 pm

    wth u disliking?

  8. Anna Patjane on May 28, 2019 at 12:45 pm

    this was everything i needed.

  9. a b on May 28, 2019 at 12:45 pm

    As first I was kinda bugged by that guy always going "he did", "preach it", ect for 26min. Then I realized he was just a hype man for the preacher. Now I kinda dig the guy. edit: at 36 min it turns out "the guy" is the pastors father. Totally called him being the hype man.

  10. Ironesha Jones on May 28, 2019 at 12:47 pm

    Do you do podcasts ?

  11. Karla galan on May 28, 2019 at 12:53 pm

    Wow this was amazing

  12. LoloTheScammer on May 28, 2019 at 12:54 pm

    Not even 20 minutes into the sermon and im boo hoo crying.
    Thank you for helping me through this healing process. Its new a thing for me and it’s been long time coming.

  13. Briana Dingle on May 28, 2019 at 12:54 pm

    I love when God leads me directly to the message that will deliver me. I needed this today more than ever. Thank you Mike Todd. I’m definitely going to be watching your sermons all the time now.

  14. Abhishek Tiru on May 28, 2019 at 12:55 pm

    Answered my questions.. praise the lord ❤️

  15. Katlego Ramagaga on May 28, 2019 at 1:00 pm

    This series has honestly changed my life in so many ways… I am watching for the second time and I have a feeling this is a series I will always go back to throughout my different seasons… what an amazing series, Thank you and God bless you Pastor Mike and the Transformation Church family… I have shared this to all my family and friends because this message needs to be heard <3

  16. Born Sinner on May 28, 2019 at 1:00 pm


  17. Rachel Jeaniine on May 28, 2019 at 1:02 pm

    this is helping me in so many ways omg

  18. ATAKPU IKHIDE on May 28, 2019 at 1:03 pm

    This blessed me… Thanks pastor

  19. D A Williams on May 28, 2019 at 1:03 pm

    blank blank blank

  20. Ruan Myburgh on May 28, 2019 at 1:03 pm


  21. Nadya Addai on May 28, 2019 at 1:05 pm

    I really enjoyed this. God has a plan!!

  22. Danielle Lewis on May 28, 2019 at 1:07 pm

    Yessss LORD!!! Amen to all this truth and instruction from God. Fill me up God! ♥️♥️

  23. Adriana Nimo on May 28, 2019 at 1:10 pm

    This series is really teaching me a lot……God bless you Pastor Todd

  24. Milena K.E on May 28, 2019 at 1:10 pm


  25. JD7708 on May 28, 2019 at 1:12 pm

    Brothers & Sisters, what the Lord Jesus said in Luke 14?
    “If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be My disciple. Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple.

    You can have your relationships. Give me Jesus and none other.

    "There’s a builder of the house of God named Christ, and that house is not a physical structure made with hands, it’s a people. God can create ANY physical structure , but that does not satisfy His desire to share Himself and to give Himself relationally.

    That desire is only satisfied in a relationship. God is all about the giving of Himself (that’s just a part of the nature of who He is- The sharing of Himself) – His inward desire is to make Himself available to His creation, to move out of the invisibility arena, the unapproachable arena. The only way He could do that, is create for Himself a vessel that would allow Him to inhabit them. Through habitation, they would willingly lose their life (the nature of the Lamb) that He may life through them and accomplish a great eternal purpose: that the invisible God becomes visible in a new humanity- a new creation, through which He first transforms them by inward life then releases that transforming light of the knowledge of God through them forever, to the vastness of His creation. This is God’s eternal plan and eternal purpose."

  26. Suntacee Edwards on May 28, 2019 at 1:14 pm

    Thank you so much for this message. I’m a lost sinner who has been living in sin for so long. I didn’t have any standards and accepted almost everything in the hope of being loved and accepted. Didn’t know my identity and lost myself so many times. Pray for me.

  27. Suntacee Edwards on May 28, 2019 at 1:15 pm

    Hallelujah Jesus. When you are filled with God……thank you for your word Jesus.

  28. Poised N Polished on May 28, 2019 at 1:15 pm

    I remember watching this series almost 2 years ago when I was fresh out of a situation and didn’t know where to start. Now I am still single but I know how to navigate it better. I’ve been frustrated lately and needed a refresher course. I love Transformation Church!

  29. Vay Babe on May 28, 2019 at 1:15 pm

    After years of praying for a spouse this video randomly showed up in my recommended list, for once I am so happy I paid that list any attention! I feel so blessed by this series.

  30. Alex Danelle on May 28, 2019 at 1:17 pm

    Teach us  Pastor Mike!!!

  31. oxi fellon on May 28, 2019 at 1:19 pm

    My xams are nearby.. tyms short nd there’s so much to study.still I can’t stop listening to u

  32. Constance Sawyer on May 28, 2019 at 1:20 pm

    But seek ye first .

  33. Gweneth Tumayan on May 28, 2019 at 1:21 pm

    Please anyone teach me a proper way to download this sermon along with the other parts (from part 1 – part 8). I don’t mean the download on youtube so i can watch it offline, i mean download it so i can save it in a flashdrive so it will be easier for me to share these whole 8 series of sermon to others. Not everyone i know have android phones/iphones/laptops but i know everyone needs to hear these messages about relationship goals. It is crucial that everyone listens to these 8 series of sermons on relationship goals.

  34. Legitness Lauryn on May 28, 2019 at 1:22 pm

    How do you know you know yourself?

  35. Michael Trn on May 28, 2019 at 1:23 pm

    Relationship is between husband’s and wife’s not boyfriend’s and girlfriend’s.

  36. kelley pierson on May 28, 2019 at 1:26 pm

    had a stroke in 2011.. homeless n snd off for years. focused on believing .. very lonely

  37. Mane Style Blog on May 28, 2019 at 1:26 pm

    I watch this every time I get down or discouraged. This series is so awesome and encouraging!

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    You really make it seem so easy with your presentation but
    I find this topic to be actually something which I think I would
    never understand. It seems too complex and extremely broad for me.
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