Wisdom for When You're a Single Christian: 4 Tips – Whiteboard Series
Wisdom for When You're a Single Christian: 4 Tips – Whiteboard Series
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Im 16 and i have been longing for a girlfriend to eventually marry for a long time but sometimes i noticed myself getting carried away looking for a girlfriend and my mind was way to occupied and i wasnt spending as mucb time with God so now especially in this time of lent I have stopped looking for a girlfriend for quite sometime im first accepting me being single and working on my self physical and spirituall so my future wife will have a strong husband.
I’m 17, 18 soon, and want to be in a relationship so badly but this helps me realize that God hopefully has someone for me, and I just have to wait for his timing.
My four tips….
1- seek the kingdom of God first Matt 6:33
2- seek the kingdom of God first Matt 6:33
3- seek the kingdom of God first Matt 6:33
4- seek the kingdom of God first Matt 6:33
Added bonus…. Don’t make finding a spouse the objective. Make it being like Jesus.
Extra added bonus. This one is for the fellas…..a woman loves a man with purpose and is passionate about it. In this context, preferably passionate about impacting his part of this great big world for Jesus. Be sincere and genuine in your walk with God. Make her feel safe. Lead her with a servants heart! Not a doormat, but a servant with backbone that will man up and bow up when it’s time. I can go on and on……
going through a recent breakup, I now understand how to properly love someone. unfortunately the person i love has fallen out of love. At least i know my faith in the lord has grown so much and my walk with christ is much stronger. I am so ready for when God puts the right man in my life. I hope it is my ex as he is working on himself. i hope God strengthens me and him and brings us back to love and do things right in Gods eyes. I am willing to be a Godly Biblically correct wife and have a family surrounded by Gods love! i am now involved in the church.
i think this changed my life
This was the Video i need to see. Thanks!
wow
I was all alone for 7 years, and i always wanted to be with someone and i miss the 1 from France but passed away from a car accident and i felt broke
Amen❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
What about disabled christian men and women? how should they behave as a single disabled christian, with a learning disability I mean.
I’m very impatient but i know I’m not ready . Its very frustrating but I know I’m not ready at all .
Totally agree but I would say when it comes to financial stuff be content with what you have. Not everyone can afford a nice house and lots of things. Dont get the definition of provide twisted. And the bible talks about rest and being able to enjoy life among many other things. No one should be working 50+ hours a week every week.. Thats not healthy or good for anything
There’s marriage culture and then there’s marriage religion. Being single is a sacrifice and if as a believer means there is a relationship with God. How many human individuals with cancer in a hospital or beggars on the street or strangers on the bus or volunteers at a soup kitchen or professors or internet people or just church congregants in general are single? Guess! That’s a lot of devotion without distraction.
Being single at 50 and STILL a virgin with less than NO dating prospects ever is NOT fun. Since my freshman year of high school, I KID YOU NOT, I’ve had the MOST difficult time SIMPLY being able to find/meet a date or girlfriend or someone special and I have TOLD God I do NOT appreciate this! Yet because He is GOD and just BECAUSE HE CAN, God continues to CHOOSE and WILL for MORE and MORE of my friend to get blessed with that VERY SPECIAL someone and NOT me! For over 15 years, I have been calling prayer lines over and over requesting prayer for a Godly mate, to what feels like LESS than NO avail! On top of all this, SO MANY churches have turned a blind eye to singles! Churches put SO MUCH emphasis on children, teenagers, couples, families, senior citizens, widows and the elderly, NOT singles! Because I have absolutely HAD to go through this all these years and it seems NOTHING I do EVER makes ANY difference, I don’t love God very much! He has let me down BIG TIME and then some! Oh well, so much for faith and prayers.
amen
I am married for 16 years, but God just showing me how I made a “successful” aka lasting marriage an idol. He brought me to a place of humility and surrender to the idea that the marriage could crumble due to my husbands addiction and lack of sincere repentance . It’s been so hard. But God is good. I believe HE can heal and restore! Now I’m trying to teach my teenage son these lessons. It’s not just physical purity but spiritual and emotional purity as well. God is FIRST no matter what and the rest will come.
Thank you for one of the most balanced video on this topic ❤
thank you, it’s really encouraging and giving wisdom. god bless you
So yes looks aren’t the most important thing but you still need to be physically attracted too them. God made us that way. You can grow to love them like that if they have a good personality.
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I thank god i am not compatible nor remotely worth marrying. Just calling this a great thing. No matter what anyone trues to tell me i know i dont want to be married without love and ive not ever been loved by anyone. To me that us a blessing in disquise. Not a single conservative would be lioking my way. And i will celebrate that every day.
To my husband to be, thank you for praying for me. It’s been effective. Now, I’m content with Christ. God, I pray to lead us into Christ-likeness when receiving this gift of companionship and marriage. Your name be glorified and magnified in our lives.
Chef’s kiss. Just bravo. Bravo
There’s this lady from church that i’ve been gradually getting feelings for. We been hanging out mostly at a bible study once a week for a pretty good chunk of the year so far. The only thing that’s stopping me is me because of my past. I wasn’t the best person at the start of this decade and i’ve been getting back in line with church for Jesus. It’s been going very good. I’m just not sure what to do because of the past choices that i made. She ain’t like the other women i attempted to be with either because those were women of the world. This is a woman of Christ here i’m talkin’ about. I’m ultimately afraid that i’ll ruin her if some kind of the wordliness i was in comes back.
Ive heard 2 Christian scholars tell me that you shouldn’t marry someone unless you feel a bit attracted to them after some time of knowing them. How would you feel about that?
Good timing video :/
John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life."No matter what you are going through, you are never alone! Be patient and believe! Jesus loves you!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
great vidoe. I never imagined writing about a breakup after eight years together. The pain was like nothing I’d ever felt, leaving me to pick up the pieces of my heart. I still hope we can come back to each other someday.
I’m Buddhism but I believe in Jesus and God ❤️✝️✝️✝️❤️
I really needed this video today thank you, God bless you
I made the mistake of idolizing my ex . She was all I cared about and when we broke up , I was shattered and lost. When the Holy Spirit convicted me to read the Gospel, only then did I realize the true power of God. And it changed my life. Thanks be to Jesus Christ for rescuing me
Needed to hear this
Here’s a word of advice I’ve discovered; I’m still trying to master it: “LETTING GO is NOT the same as GIVING UP!” If you want to get married, like the video says, own that choice. Just don’t let it be an idol.
I am very conflicted on this. I understand that marriage takes work and to both be fully committed to God to maintain the relationship. I’m still slowly working through and breaking strongholds the enemy established in my life through the Word. I Do Not (in my mind) want to be married because I allowed someone in my heart that negatively affected and lead me astray. I no longer want any parts of relationship, but my body desires to be physically intimate. I want no parts but its so hard sometimes.
God is good, true, and beautiful❤❤❤
This is why is so important to teach the christian values at the schools of our children.
As soon as you said "i am not gonna lie tho" I LAUGHED lol. That how you know that is real fr. But atleast God loves me. That Love won’t leave you even through death
The "Jesus Love You", can make me cry no matter what time of day
i’m 14 and ive always liked the idea of marriage and having kids after marriage. but there were times i’d get made fun of sometimes by my peers when they hear im a virgin and want to marry when im 25 or when im atleast financially stable.
It’s not bad. I agree with about 90% of it.
But it isn’t what singles are actually struggling with or want to hear. I know they should hear it, and it’s part of the process, but it’s not the thing that’s burning on their hearts.
This is the opinion of a married person to singles. It’s all about the PREPARATION but nothing about the PROCESS. It always baffles me why married people seem to forget what it was like to be single. It’s like they are living on another planet.
Singles want to know how to find someone, not "what mental state I’m supposed to be in". They are sitting there wondering "why am I being rejected when I approach?" Or "why did he break up with me?" Or "why do I always seem to attract the wrong type of woman?" Or "why didn’t the guy call me the next day after the date?". There are a million questions. "Am I too fat?" "Why, when I am nice and kind to women do they think I’m weak and go for the bad boy?" "Where have all the good men gone?" "Why are women always playing games?" and on and on and on.
These are just a few, and not even the most important things, that singles are struggling with.
If you want to helpful to singles, you’re going to have to focus have to focus on THOSE questions.
I’m lonely
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