The Bible's advice for your Marriage
The Bible's advice for your Marriage
Relationship problems? There’s good news. God has given us instructions on how to have the best marriage. Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of marriage, parenting, communication and more. Dr. Eggerichs has authored several books, including Love and Respect, which is a New York Times bestseller, Platinum and Book of the Year Award winner, and has sold over 1.6 million copies.
Based on over three decades of counseling as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs developed the Love and Respect Marriage Conference which he presents to live audiences around the United States.
Men and women will learn how to resolve conflict, dealing with the negative reactions (the crazy cycle). They will also learn how to motivate each other by meeting each other’s need (the energizing cycle). Even those who feel hopeless in their relationships will gain understanding on how to handle an indifferent or unresponsive partner (the rewarded cycle).
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When I saw this video, it was really touching and enlighten me and to think all the past scenarios. I realized that the condition of my wife to finish out our marriage is so immature. God bless you all.
Great content.
Thank you!
How does satan potentially deceive & how has Jesus shown me how the bible is being used as an idol before him, when he is our heart intuition?
Marriage/union bound by law, is satan’s law/rules/way for society inspired into reality, as we are where satan reigns & has dominion. .
How the real human God Jesus in heart intuition sees “marriage” is whatever he deems marriage (short or longer term) without being joined by the law for, just what ever is God willing experiences.
As Jesus has shown me in my life, experiences can be physical sex, or non physical sex experience connections, whatever is God willing unique for us all.
The bible is society control, who uses the new covenant Jesus in heart intuition first for that relationship?
That’s why the gate to God is narrow.
Are people truly saved, with true salvation, or does Jesus currently see them as angels of satan still burning in the fire, as tortured souls not free, not dealing with truths in their life, or not living in their truth, or not truly being real & not Godly marked with 666?
Who wants to keep dying myths/legend as people, who were angels of satan, or who wants to step up, take the personality & the soul they occupy & go home after this life is scripted to end God willing?
You kind of lost me when you said you see women as your mother.
Most marriages are crap, that’s why 50% end in divorce and another 40% are "struggle" marriages where the couples stay together for a variety of reasons outside of their happiness. Anyone with an ounce of common decency would see what marriage does to people spiritually, emotionally and financially and would be warning people to avoid it. You’ll notice that all the people that promote marriage have a financial interest in its promotion; they all want to keep that money train going. Take a step back and you see an entire industry that profits off marriage (including these hope mongers).
He made the point quite succinctly: two well meaning people, when married, will descend into "the crazy cycle".
The husband must love the Holy Ghost to love his wife. Frankly I avoid much of the Apostle Paul’s writings after listening to Tovia Singer, a Jewish Rabbi.
So perhaps any perceived failure of Paul’s writings stems from the fact the "secret teachings" of Jesus were passed down through history?
Some view the "spirit of the Anti Christ" as those who believe in an external God, not one within – yet you have the bridge of the Holy Ghost.
Paul did not like women teachers. Rabbis did not accept Paul also because he claimed to be a devout Jew, but was actually involved with intense studies of Roman philosophy (paraphrasing)?
Look up where he studied, what he said about the Torah, what did he say about the ox? Devout Jew, master of scriptures? Perhaps not?
Well why would he do that? It took me a couple weeks to wrap my head around that.
Tovia also points out there only appears to be three authors perhaps of the New Testament – the style and writings are too similar?
God will sort it out, focus on what is right. Do unto others, what you would want done to you does not require you to check your biological genitals does it?
If you hate yourself so badly you treat women with less respect, even if they anger you, then perhaps you are better off fixing yourself before you try "fixing women"?
Forgive each other, bless each other, teach each other, be prosperous?
If there were two thrones and your wife sat in one, and you in the other – you better know what kind of face she is going to have, because that is the face she is thinking about wearing before she married you and wishes to share with you?
If you think she will sit on that throne with a scowl on her face, do not worry, you have not passed the test yet and you will not marry?
Expect a happy marriage – get one? Expect doubts – no thank you, I personally reject anymore pain in my life.
What did the Apostle Paul say about raising children from all his intense study of Roman philosophy and Paganism?
Some of his writings say paraphrased: "I do what I don’t want to do, struggle with my flesh"? sounds like the writings of what kind of man? What kind of man does not have children of his own?
I have joy reading other scriptures. When I ask questions I am not divulging my faith, I am divulging the logic of others so you can be secure in yours?
Treat others as showing up in your life the best they can, expecting miracles and wonders, teaching others and learning what they can to be a blessing to others?
That is how you treat yourself?
Peace.
Is it right if you are married that your husband don’t want y to work or yet go out to church have fellowship with other Christian or go to meeting like conferences
I thought watching videos like this will give me solution to forget but It made me think about my ex-fiancé more. I still love him so much and can’t imagine moving on without him. I just want him back
There is no command in the original greek, except for Mutual Submission to God & eachother. There is a command for husbands to love their wives in such a way that the natural response is her respect. Look up Dr Cynthia Westfall; BareMarriage podcast & research. This idea is Not in the original Greek translation. Toxic.
This is pivotal info… Spread this to married couples far n wide.
Respect is a 2 way and definitely earned
On time God always. Thank you Lord. After 31 years of marriage and lots of ups, downs, and a near death experience, im getting it.
When a man seeks to understand a women’s “love language”, respect follows.
What is this man’s name?
I love my WIFE
Thanks for the very important talk . Blessings from Pakistan.
No, men eed respect thats their biological need, and love is a womans biological need, we dont need them equally, one needs it more then the other
Nice Video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, l’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life as anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him.
Marriage is the most overrated institution on the planet. People can delude themselves into believing they are doing God’s work.
So good. Thank you for sharing this it’s exactly what I’ve been trying to explain to my partner but it never comes across right
I love and respect my husband. But yes it is hard to love and respect him because. I feel un loved everybody is first for him then me. He is the light if the street and the darkness to our house. When he lost his job I was thier for him 100% so he would not feel depressed 6 years later he always has an excuse for not looking for a job and to top it off he spent all the saving his 401k yes some of it was for rent n house stuff. But also he spent it on casinos, while i working nights and 12 hour shift. Also he never wants to go with me to my home town ,we have been together 24 years 22 years ago he went with me never again did he go with me. I don’t go to his families house either because every time I go he will ignore me and or embarrassed me. For example . One time that I went to his sons house and I was sitting with the wife’s grandmother n mother. I said to my husband "look honey your daughter and your ex wife are here go help them ,they are caring something heavy" his answer to me was" oh my ex wife is here? I guess it’s time for you to leave jiji". Yes he thought it was funny I didn’t neither did the ladies. He is a very nice man to everybody else but he never ever thinks about me. I said once to him "do you remember when you got me a birthday cake for my birthday ". He said no, and I said "Never ever have you gotten me a birthday cake or even celebrate our anniversary. If he does fill the need to do that it’s because he just does not care.
I’m just really trying to watch this to see if I will feel better but my heart is aching, and every moment feels empty without him. I’m holding on to the hope that we’ll be together again, and my happiness will be restored.
Guys you are right
How does this work with a narcissist husband??
Thank you GOD because this did bother me and I’m glad your showing me ❤
This is the best 10 minutes of information I have ever heard.
This was very insightful. Thank you.
"Wives, submit to your husband as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, just as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of the body. So just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify having cleansed her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing but that she should be holy and without blemish…" Ephesians 5:22-
Jesus created marriage, spouses serve the marriage, in the end serving God. Our love we give to God isn’t turn based, neither should our love and respect be in marriage.
So who goes first? Does the husband love first or the wife respect first? It’s hard to respect someone that doesn’t show love and hard to love someone that doesn’t show respect..
biblically I believe it’s the man but many men demand respect but have not shown sacrificial love.
The problem is low self esteem.
I dont think anybody has a working marriage. I dont believe they exist.
Amen
This is fantastic advice & a fresh perspective I don’t hear often
I feel unloved and disrespected.
This was super interesting. God’s design may be imperfect in our eyes but perfect in fulfilling His purposes.
As usual, not a word about men RESPECTING women, or accepting that women are EQUAL to men, and not a word about MEN pulling their weight with housework and childcare, and not a word about MEN making any effort to make sex worth it for women. This is misogynist poison.
I love this man with every inch of my being… what am I going to do?
What if I made one mistake of one thing that he counts disrespectful and he uses it against me forever? Like and it has to do with letting the cats in the kitchen? They had just had their medicine and needed food and water. And I had forgotten. But now I supposedly don’t respect him at all he thinks.
I can’t explain it but i understand it and i respect my husband in a way that most would say is insane but us women need to respect our men! We will receive the same in turn. God will always provide us all.
Thank you so much for this video. You have no idea how much it has helped to open an understanding of each other in our marriage. May God bless you both.
Loved this
I try everyday, I pray every day, I start anew every day, he has a list that will always be used against me. But if I ever bring something old up, I am not allowed to. Even though honestly… it’s extremely where the trust was broken.
The idea that marriage is the only way to happiness is delusional. For many people marriage is a suffocating trap. The attitude of the early church toward sex was that Christians should never have sex at all. Paul’s idea was that marriage was a waste of time. If you were a weakling, go ahead and get married, but you were better off not to. As for procreation, it wasn’t necessary because Christ was coming back soon, and Christians would all go to heaven before they had time to procreate. Early Christians believed even in marriage, sex was an occasion for sin so it should be avoided altogether. If you couldn’t control yourself, OK get married, but it wasn’t pleasing in the eyes of God, so it was best not to do that.