how to make Christian friends | tips for finding Godly friends as a *Christian girl* ✨

how to make Christian friends | tips for finding Godly friends as a *Christian girl* ✨

how to make Christian friends | tips for finding Godly friends as a *Christian girl* ✨
In today’s video, I show you how to make Christian friends, find Godly community, and find Christian friends as a Christian girl! I hope you enjoy 🙂 YOUR FRIENDS ARE OUT THERE!

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TIME STAMPS:
0:00 intro
1:47 the signs of a good Godly friend
1:51 Christian friendship green flags
2:28 Christian friendship red flags
3:38 PAY ATTENTION TO THE FRUIT
4:49 real talk – what my current season with friendship looks like
6:30 put yourself out there
8:01 prayer for finding Christian friends
8:23 get out of your comfort zone and around other Christians
8:29 where to meet Christian friends
9:36 do it afraid
11:38 what to talk about
14:22 going to a worship night!
15:09 WORSHIP NIGHT / the merge

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40 Comments

  1. @NoAccountInfo671 on February 26, 2025 at 6:21 pm

    Hey Ashley I love your videos so much and wanted to ask for your advice. I’m a 14 year old girl who loves God, but both sides of my family wouldn’t support me if I told them I was a Christian. I want to get closer to God but I don’t know what to do that won’t anger my family or hurt their feelings. Love ya <3

  2. @BRITTANYFREI on February 26, 2025 at 6:22 pm

    Just a reminder; we are called to judge one another and sharpen one another when need be. Unfortunately today a lot of people hate truth tellers, even Christians that are just reminded of the Word of God. There are kind ways to righteously judge and ways that are unnecessarily cruel. As someone with ASD it can be rough because I have issues with tone and body language, I’ve been working to be better but it is part of my life. Even my husband of over a decade can misinterpret me as being mean. We get past it pretty quickly now, understanding one another better.

    I appreciate constructive criticism, I think friends shouldn’t be afraid to help one another become better. Today’s world is very sensitive and tends to enable sinful choices. There CAN be a difference between being mean and being honest.Also wouldn’t guess by this comment; but I rarely say much when I meet new people. I tend to be THE listener and it’s led me to a lot of toxic people trying to take advantage because they just want someone to dump on and don’t ever ask questions, don’t listen etc. So have boundaries and pay attention to red flags for sure. When someone shows you who they are/shows their fruit…believe them! Same goes for good people. I think it’s a common trauma response to fear people who seem "too good to be true".

  3. @denistofan5443 on February 26, 2025 at 6:24 pm

    I love you Ashley ❤️

  4. @JacobDover-s4m on February 26, 2025 at 6:25 pm

    I’m still searching for the right christain friends. My other christian friends l need to cut out of my life forever.

  5. @Official_Melodia on February 26, 2025 at 6:25 pm

    I’m 14 and I’m looking for Christian friends. If you’re around my age and live in Dublin and are looking for some Christian friends, please pop your name underneath my comment so I can make a gc on Snapchat with y’all and who knows? We might even meet each other

  6. @daughter_of_the_KING123 on February 26, 2025 at 6:26 pm

    oh my goodness Ashley, you had me dying with laughter at the friend interaction demo. Thanks for all the tips!!!

  7. @BlessingNwachukwu-t2c on February 26, 2025 at 6:29 pm

    Wow thank God that is what I was looking for

  8. @esthercat245 on February 26, 2025 at 6:31 pm

    so sad that we actually have to pay for this honey scoop thing

  9. @LoriBothwell on February 26, 2025 at 6:31 pm

    That prayer was as fast as Gods lightning bolt ⚡️

  10. @valeriecummings5667 on February 26, 2025 at 6:31 pm

    asking

  11. @Jesus_is_my_Lord-and-sav-gh4qn on February 26, 2025 at 6:33 pm

    my friend that i feel like God is saying to me to put her out of my life litterly being what you discribed a bad friend is

  12. @Johnson-uq9gk on February 26, 2025 at 6:34 pm

    You keep frend with me , you never do sin in your life ,

  13. @sweetmiminoodle on February 26, 2025 at 6:36 pm

    you said apple and i thought adam and eve as well as snow white !!

  14. @sharonmagwood6728 on February 26, 2025 at 6:39 pm

    Thank you Ashley for the video!!! ❤

  15. @jessicaarmy-animegirl9454 on February 26, 2025 at 6:40 pm

    The thing is my Dad is a Pastor and in our Church we don’t really have young people my age most of our church members are older
    And I am from German and it’s not a very Christian country they are religious but not on fire for Jesus
    I really want to meet Christian friends

  16. @EA_SBC on February 26, 2025 at 6:40 pm

    I went to my church by myself the first time I went! And I joined women’s Bible study by myself but GUESS WHAT SO IS EVERYONE ELSE. And you’ll meet awesome people who are also pursuing girl friends and the Lord

  17. @lolo54260 on February 26, 2025 at 6:40 pm

    this has been really hard for me , i keep praying but it’s been 5 years or so but i know god will answer my prayers

  18. @RodreneLiverpool on February 26, 2025 at 6:41 pm

    ❤❤

  19. @RayRay_936 on February 26, 2025 at 6:43 pm

    I’m 12 and in NEED of Christian friends my faith in God has been kinda distant honestly making friends online or in-person I need good friends, praying constantly❤❤❤ ur vids help a lot Ashley

  20. @BeyiAngu on February 26, 2025 at 6:46 pm

    Hi it’s me Bro James Angu from India, Arunachal Pradesh.

  21. @valeriecummings5667 on February 26, 2025 at 6:47 pm

    some cant go to church disabled or other reasons
    need online

  22. @Joy_is_saved on February 26, 2025 at 6:47 pm

    Watching this cuase I have no friends

  23. @HoneyNtheRock on February 26, 2025 at 6:51 pm

    This lady is hilarious. Love her.❤

  24. @msmaya.papaya on February 26, 2025 at 6:52 pm

    I’m young and I’ve been going to my church for my whole life and I’ve never made a friend. All the girls are either younger than me, older then me, gossip, just don’t like me, or I’m to scared to talk to because they all ready have there own friendship. Now it’s awkward because I know everyone and it’s not really me just meeting them and asking to be their friend. I really hope I can get my godly friend, and if I don’t, it’s all part of gods plan. ❤

  25. @ALC77787 on February 26, 2025 at 6:54 pm

    Finding and making friends in church has failed for so many years, for me

  26. @Johnson-uq9gk on February 26, 2025 at 6:56 pm

    Have visa for me ?

  27. @TerryPark-q4o on February 26, 2025 at 6:56 pm

    I really want christian friends but I struggle to find haha

    Thank you Ashley ❤ you are truly blessed by the Lord everyday❤

  28. @NOJH462 on February 26, 2025 at 7:02 pm

    Let me know if you gals need a friend to talk to

  29. @Illumineheart on February 26, 2025 at 7:04 pm

    C’Mon! Go there! So good – so important. Great wisdom! Praise the Lord for your heart of discipleship!!!!

  30. @Sylvia-c5j on February 26, 2025 at 7:04 pm

    I need a Christian friend

  31. @Bubblygirlinzone on February 26, 2025 at 7:10 pm

    I think that God has been telling me to church hop alone as well! Like you said I am scared but through God all things are possible ❤❤

  32. @SamuelLee-gw6wr on February 26, 2025 at 7:11 pm

    From 2022 onwards, I often watch graduations from my university online, with each department having its separate session. When the names of some fellow brothers and sisters in Christ were called, I would suddenly cheer very loudly for them!

  33. @kaitlynm7943 on February 26, 2025 at 7:13 pm

    but where can i go to worship nights? i live in canada and im 13 so idk 🙁
    i will also trust God to bring me a friend when He thinks the time is right. and He doesnt just THINK the time is right, He KNOWS it! p.s. happy Canada day

  34. @RodreneLiverpool on February 26, 2025 at 7:13 pm

    You have to let God discern you to genuine Christian friends. ❤ It’s not about making friends, it’s about allowing God to lead you to the right friends.

  35. @martha4577 on February 26, 2025 at 7:14 pm

    I pray to God to bring me Christian friends.

  36. @donnabennett4075 on February 26, 2025 at 7:14 pm

    This has been so helpful! I started going to church on my own about a month ago and I went 3 of the events by myself, it was terrifying but I’ve met so many amazing people already! I put myself out there, pushed fear to the side and it’s paid off. I’ve also been praying for community! I will say during my first service that I attended by myself, I was about 2 songs in and was going to leave, but the ladies sitting next to me were so friendly and made me feel welcome. Always remember to make newcomers feel welcome!

  37. @Mindsetolympics on February 26, 2025 at 7:16 pm

    Why’s it so hard though? It literally used to fall into my lap until me + everyone got older lol

  38. @SiyandaSibanyoni-z1p on February 26, 2025 at 7:16 pm

    Ash. I’ve been isolating myself from others for years. Im 14 right now and i started isolating myself since i was 12 so i don’t know what to do anymore i don’t even attend church in this new town we moved to so i don’t know how to make Christian friends but i know God will help me❤. Thank you for these tips.

  39. @preciousAdaji on February 26, 2025 at 7:18 pm

    Good but still didn’t get what I wanted. Van this friendship be found only online at first?

  40. @tialynn1111 on February 26, 2025 at 7:19 pm

    Thank you!❤

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