Christian Advice for Singles
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Christian Advice for Singles
Giving Christian advice for singles is a challenger because each person’s life is unique. With that said, I believe there are 4 common phases Christian singles usually go through.
1. Learn what the Bible says about singleness.
2. Don’t waste your singleness.
3. Use singleness to prepare for your future.
4. Follow God in your search for a spouse and not your personality type.
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Been single my whole life. Almost 21. I used to hate it, but right now I’m just praying for God’s will.
can you give some advices for those who have been cheated on?
singleness is the greatest thing ever!. ive dated before ive had alot of them but didnt last more than 6 months. i just have learned that girls in general are not for me. ( no im not gay) i jus dont like all the drama. an emotional bs. and the whole. im fine thing. or qhere you ask them if there ok and they say yes but they get mad at you because there really was something wrong an i should have read her mind and all tht bs. guys know what im talkin bout. an the jelousy and insecurities bs. i have no pacitnce too put up with that. girls are crazy, annoying an jus drive me nuts. being single is great. i have freedom and plenty of time and im actually happy. im more happy single, by myself and not hanging with girlfreinds. having a gf is miserable. and i dont need freinds. so if your single. enjoy it while you can.
You guys that have been single this whole time cmon? You only have one life to live and there’s over a billion women in this world. You really think God is going to bring only one woman to you? No? Definitely after you’ve dated 3-5 wrong ones but You need to get out there and live your life and see who you will be yolked with. If you wait too long then you’ll miss the one whose really meant for you. You need to date different women to see who God really has planned for you.
In some of your videos on this topic, I laid down some negative comments and replies. Truth be told, I was holding on to bitterness, and was using relationships as a distraction from the issue. Well, this last one finally forced me to open my eyes, and my heart, and see the problem, and repent of that. I am happy now. I thank God for His patience ❤️
I have been always searching for love dear Mark. However, a couple of weeks ago, I got the impression that God wants me to do more, before I met the right one. I also understood it that my life is in this time so busy, that a relationship will be a real struggle… I hope I understand God’s intention and be patient as well in the future.
God don’t want everyone to be happy, that is why alot of people don’t have anyone
Sorry for the errors!! I’m just learning English!!
I am usually okay with my singleness but always wanted to be married. I am very disappointed with the church, I feel like a outcast. Looking for ways to serve but honestly there isn’t anything at my church and how can you go on missions trips when you have to work? I am hurt at the church for their neglect and really want a helpmate.
Being single is very painful
Does anyone know what I can say to a friend who encourages me to seek out men to go on dates? We are both single but I’ve told her repeatedly that I am not interested in looking/searching and using the time to strengthen my relationship with God as it has become extremely importantly since I now see the significance of this. However, on the occasion we are talking over the phone, texting, or catching up in person, she is constantly asking if I am seeing anyone and I remind her that it is not my priority. She’s been going on dates a lot and I’m not going to ask her to stop but just remind her that her singleness is important too and maybe she can work on other things besides dating. Also, she is Catholic and religious and traditional minded and wants to be in a relationship now. Do you think this is a friendship worth trying to get her to understand where Jesus stands in this or is this something that she’ll not understand now and ultimately I am not the one to help her see that? Because her attitude towards my new life sometimes hinders any progress or growth. And we haven’t been close like we were in high school which is fine with me. I just have no idea.
First I want to say that God bless my live in every video is a really bless for my live !! My question is !! Can I pray for someone that i really like!! But hi is not Christian!! And probably I will never see him again?
Lol im in the pesimist column you didnt speak of….. im destined to be aa crazy cat lady
Could you address singleness and dating as a single parent? I have seen one video that breifly addresses it saying that its okay to date single parents but i havent seen anything else about it although i may have just missed it. How do those in who are single moms or dads…how do we go about healing and growing in god and how do we address dating?
The biggest breakthrough of my singlesness has been finding the deepest, most intimate relationship I could ever have with Jesus Christ…. It has been the greatest gift I could eve ask for. It will fulfill your life in everu aspect and reshape your perspective in life.
I accomplished this spending my first hour of each morning meditating with Jesus. Just seating and imagine him hugging you and be still in HIS PRESENCE… don’t ask anything don’t talk about anything just sit there…. (ABIDE with Him) and he will start talking to you after while. Root yourself in Jesus this way it is a greatest method I found to be life changing.. (YouTube has guided meditation in the presence of God, find them, there are a wonderful resource..) If you do this, your heart will be healed and you will be spiritually anchor in Jesus and HE will shape the best version of yourself, in His image… then abundant Grace will be poured over to you. I will be praying that you seek him this way.
Blessings,
Just confirmed to my heart. I’m single. Go on a mission trip. Okay!
I’m single and I’ll admit I have an opportunity to serve God in extremely unique ways, but it doesn’t seem the least bit amazing ! You can’t find a spouse unless you look for one !
i stopped praying for the one since it is a NO. i am always rejected, dumped, denied, discarded, ignored, and i am getting used to it. i am a Christian, and serving in the minstry, but i always getting a NO from God. it is always the case, that’s why i stopped asking…
I have been single but I need to settle and find true love again.. I don’t have kids.. I’m a teacher +254722681697
Marriage is great but much better if you’re both believers in Christ Jesus
I’m in so much pain. So many cycles of meeting someone, things going well, I get excited, and then they stop showing interest or I was misreading signs the whole time.
I love Christ and desire to spread his love to others, but I’m so broken and hurt and I just want someone that I know and love to hold me tight. Some girl that I can just cuddle with and listen to her heart beat. To grow in love with her and Christ. To be a father.
I often think I’m too broken by my family. Too used. I’m so tired of fighting. I’m so tired of waiting. I’ve been waiting for a good relationship for years. Every single time I meet more heartbreak and rejection. More pain. Suffering.
I don’t even have the energy to be mad at God anymore. I’m just sad. Tired. Defeated. I’ve given up. I don’t want to die alone. Actually, I’d rather die alone now than live alone. I’m so confused. I’m so done. I’m scared.
well introverts can get girls if they man right personally type. I knew ISFP man who was able to few girl friends and married now. For inverted thinking type male my social skills are not that great and men expected to pursue so it like nightmare I can not wake up form. I great all things technical and not so good at all things social.
If God wants me to stay single then so be it. I want to go to heaven, my kids too!! He provides for us, and I love depending on him only, my husband left us and God moved in!!
I really don’t want kids .. ugh that sounds awful I don’t know if I should get my tubes tied
I’ll be 30 in 3 months. I’ve been single my whole life. Loneliness, sexual urges and guilt for seeking any relief from these things is anything but a blessing. I’ve accepted that I’m not meant for marriage. But something no one talks about is how to deal with the problem that being forever single creates. We have no outlet for our emotions and our fellow Christians either don’t care or are unable to give any advice. It seems to me that unless you are one of the chosen that are meant for marriage, you don’t really matter.
I understand singleness in our 20’s but what about over 30?? Is it ok
Best video on the subject
Well said. It’s amazing how one can know all these things but yet so easily forget them…
God’s favor on my life has been unreal. I lack almost nothing and my life is easy. I always try to keep my chin up and remember just what God has given me but I always eventually end up falling on what I still lack, and it always makes me feel guilty…
I guess I just look at my siblings and how they actually have someone in their life to love and wake up next to in the morning, and it’s hard to not want that for yourself…
Thank you I like this just within the 1st few minutes I feel like I understand.
I been single for 1 1/2 years it’s boring. But I need to be strong
I’m a 17 year old guy. I’ve turned into a horrible piece of crap recently. I’ve been told I used to be so much nicer to people. I feel like I need to go back, but I know I can’t. I can only go forward. I’ve been so horrible I’ve lost the things that I held so dear. I lost my girlfriend and some friends. I put the wrong things in the priorites spot. The only good thing I have right now is my family, my grades, and my passion for welding. What I’m really tryong to ask for is a prayer from a stranger kind enough to do so.
Your videos are top notch quality and wisdom thank you they have made me think quite a bit. Very helpful
What I recall from The Holy Bible if u want 2 sleep around u need 2 get married n if ur a single women thats idle n gettin n ppls business but is been a long time since I read that
6 years of a season? Man when does this season end? lol.
Exactly! Life will fly by you in singleness without you even realizing it!!
i’ve already reached the 21st phase
I will Find, don’t worry, in Time…ok 😉
Hey Mark! What do you have to say to those who are “single again?” Could you share some insight for us as well? I’d love to know how I can honor God after failure.
Very Good Video Of Truth.
Big lack of encouragement for older Christian singles.
I’m tired of being told it’s about seeking a deeper relationship when I do that already and I’m in pain while I’m waiting and it’s just making me resentful and questioning Him. At this point it feels like I’m wasting more energy worrying about it than benefiting from it and it feels like punishment or at the very least, heartlessness.
I m not doing anything for God in my season of singleness..how how
I’ve been single all my life, but recently I’ve gotten such a burning, passionate desire to get married, and soon. I’ve been so lonely and so conflicted with these overwhelming feelings.
IDC I don’t wanna be single forever