FAITH TALKS ✨| Having a crush as a woman of God, romantisizing & why we are single…
FAITH TALKS ✨| Having a crush as a woman of God, romantisizing & why we are single…
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Let’s talk about love, dating and having a crush as a woman of God!
The Lord is protecting us as his precious children, we can trust him with his plan and timing 💖
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This is quite vulnerable of me to do but I’m a female in my mid-20s, but I’ve always felt kinda behind compared to those around my age. So, I’ve got audhd, which means I’m on the autistic spectrum (High function) but also have adhd (mostly internal symptoms for Adhd).
I’ve liked guys as most do but nothing has come of anything but it’s also cos I’ve had fear surrounding relationships due to seeing relationship breakdowns around me if its not from my own parents, to my friends and their partners (and exes) etc.
I’ve even been kinda let down by guys who claim in being christian but they still act like the world with hooking up and having s*x before marriage etc.
I’m nearly 30 and feel lonely even in the friendship department. It’s just a lot of loneliness and would be nice to have a partner who can be my best friend. Please pray for me in Jesus name!
I was thinking very similar to this and it nice to know others felt this way that he was protecting my very giving heart. There’s a reason my only 2 relationship were only a month long. God removed them fast at the time and I wasn’t even walking with him when he did so. Which just shows how good he is. Even when I didn’t follow him he protected me 🙂
I totally relate to it!
15:24 as soon as I heard this I thought of a song that I used to listen to as a teen/young adult. It was all about just that—telling your family who is trying to protect you from a guy that’s a HORRIBLE influence that they know nothing, they’re just jealous, etc….and that song was marketed to teenage girls…those were the types of songs that I was listening to, and at the same time I was wondering why I had never had a boyfriend. I’m still single and unmarried at 24, I’ve still never had a boyfriend, but I understand now that God has been protecting me. If I had dated as a teen or even in college, I very well may have become someone who threw her whole life and future away for a man
One of the best videos I have seen so far! Too many times we neglect these facts , and at the end create more heartache for ourselves. Thank you for your words of encouragement, wisdom, and understanding of Gods true purpose for us.
great ❤️
I needed this! Blessings to you, thank you ❤
I searched videos like these, and I bump to this one, such a good message.. May GOD give more wisdom
Ok hear me out, why is it always the guys that aren’t even christians that I am interested in. I feel like the worst person ever for it. But jeez, I’m working on giving it to God and I KNOW better than to pursue a worldly man. The flesh is so annoying, I can’t.
18:00 thats goooodd, I love this
Been single most of my life. Will remain so for the rest of my life. I no longer desire marriage, sex, relationships, or dating. I enjoy my solitude and can do whatever I want to do without having someone else to consider. Maybe I’m selfish, but Scripture backs my choice to live as a single person.
Girl I just recently prayed a similar prayer and in the matter of days the crush is like pretty much gone.
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4:12 this was me but my crush is gone for this dude.
I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE redeeming love, read it like 3 times and I just got the masterpiece lol
Twenty-seven? Please, try 39, never mairried (no kids), and no real relationship, and no hope in site. The pool is non-existent at this point.
Oh my goodness, watching your video was like hearing my whole life story being repeated back to me! I’m in my early 30’s and have never been in a relationship other than a few situationships. I have an awful habit of developing deep crushes as well. And only recently, I’ve seen that God has been protecting me because of how easily I give myself up for people I love + how easily I throw away my own aspirations to cater to a guy. And I see now that he’s been working on me to build my reliance on Him, not a guy + developing my own personal life/career before he brings a guy into my life.
I love this,especially as a young single lady that is trying to build her relationship with God.
Omg. I’m 19 and have a crush on a dude who’s 10 years older than me. We shook hands most times the church ended,.and we had a chat twice. He’s totally out of my league though. Way out of my league.
Thanks so much for this. I actually was in such a situation.
Wow, this was so great. Could not relate to you more – from being a hopeless romantic to being in my twenties and having never had a relationship. Thank you for this chat <3
Heyyy. I think when the Holy Spirit convicts us, it’s more of an eye-opener to our own selves and what we would’ve done. And that’s why Proverbs speaks about acknowledging the Lord in all our ways, because he is the one to guide us and lead us into making the right decisions. Beautiful message btw❤
I have more to do actually, i think I like the waiting season more than wanting to get into any relationship for now. The freedom that comes with it, the just thinking about how i need to grow and my relationship with God, I’m not in a hurry. I’m staying glued to all about my journey with God and being a better version fully healed.
I am single because God wants me single. I’ve tried dating, but God stops me cold every time. When the answer is NO over and over, I’ve concluded God really wants me to remain single.
Hi! You have a new sub! So i’m 11, 12 as of August, i’m so excited!!- i’m struggling mentally and don’t know how to deal with it. I am the oldestsibling of 3 children, 5, 9 and me, 11. I have all the preassure. Helping theach my little siblings- we’re homeschooled, taking care of them, making meals, taking care of our farm animals, gentling my green horse, making time for friends, and still being able to get my school work done and focous on God is rewally hard. My biggest probloms are that I feel used, like no one really cares about me, feeling like I do all th work, and i’m betrayed by the people I love. Lettme vent-1. Backstabbing bestie. My BFF of 3 years decided it would be good for her to lie about me, say that I made hwe watch adult films, and never want anthing to do with me again. When I heard that, I broke down in histr=ercial tears. I got so lonely, that now I have a imaginary bf, his name is Tate and i’m very fond of him btw, and a whole imaginary life going on. No matter what I did, I would zone out while I did it effortleselsy and ended up blocking people out, not following instructions properly, and getting in trouble. I was a little depressed, and my anxitey was off the charts. I still am imagining people and lifes, but have managed to work my way into reality bit by bit. 2. A boy I really like. SO there’s this guy I really like, and he REALLY like me back. I met him a few weeks back at a christian summer camp and so my mind went like : oh, he’s here at SDA camp, no prop, he’s a CHristian. NO! He came out to me, saying that he didn’t buy the God and Jesus stuff. I tranformed into pastor mode and gave him a tedious long speech, then stormed off with my final words- : Your choice in the end:- ahhhhhh. THen I asked him if he’d thought about it, and he said yes he had and that GOd sent him a sign to start believeing. Apperantly I’M his sign. THis boy really likes me i believe. I’ve been praying for GOd to send me something- My soulmate, to be my bff for a while while i’m still a kid. My anxitey is even worse now that I have the boy drama. AND!! He got a hair cut, ahhhhhh3. Small bullying that is putting my off the hook. AT summer camp, i’l get lightly teased about a jerk who calls me his ex and that i’m his gf, when respectfully, i’d likw to slap said jerk. 4. FAith. I struggle a lot with my faith, and when I die im afaird im going to let GOd down and go to hell, and ill have to live and dissappear knoiwng I let him down and failed him. Im currerently suicidal, lonley, anxious, slightly depressed, getting horrible headaches ramdomly, and very stresssed with zero patience and scrict parents. Anyways, please reply to this comment and check on it everyonce and a while, i’m willing to talk to strangers! Any comments, or advice will be accepted with open arms, like the Prodigal Son. THanksssss
Truly blessed me today! Thank you
Wow thank God for this video.
thx for this message, as a sensitive person , I didn’t realize it’s a protection from God, thank God
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Hit subscribe immediately because I need more encouraging and true content like this. Thank you so much ❤️