Christian Dating Advice for Men

Christian Dating Advice for Men

Christian Dating Advice for Men

Every guy is different. We all have some unique gifts and challenges. So not all of this Christian dating advice will apply to all Christian men. I’ll have to make some generalizations . But I believe these 6 pieces of dating advice apply to many Christian men.

1. Think About Your Future Together, Not Your Fantasy
2. Before You Pursue a Life Partner, Stop Watching Porn
3. Be the Type of Man She Would Want
4. Don’t Turn Her Purity Into Your Sacred Cow
5. Make Sure Both of Your Life Trajectories Are Similar Enough
6. Marry Someone Who Respects You, Not Someone Who Worships You

For more information about each of these 6 dating tips for Christian men, read this article with all the Bible verses and info to back them up: http://applygodsword.com/christian-dating-advice-for-men/

Problems with the some “Christian” views on purity: http://applygodsword.com/sexual-purity-how-the-church-often-gets-it-wrong/

Free eBook to help with sexual temptation: http://applygodsword.com/a-bible-study-for-mens-accountability-partners/

45 Comments

  1. SmoothView on July 30, 2022 at 11:28 pm

    The 6th one was perfect

  2. Morgan Greenlee on July 30, 2022 at 11:31 pm

    “You don’t need a wife who worships you but respects you. She is going to need to tell you hard things. She can’t be living to make you happy.”

  3. Blue1Q3 Lovely on July 30, 2022 at 11:32 pm

    Awesome video!

  4. Paul MacArthur on July 30, 2022 at 11:33 pm

    This should be much higher on the search results for single christian male searches. The best presentation I’ve seen yet. Thanks man. Liked and subscribed. Even hit the little bell.

  5. jeremiah bridgmon on July 30, 2022 at 11:33 pm

    I don’t have high standards I don’t think men usually do at this point I would go on a date with anyone who doesn’t want to hookup first thing claims to be christian and isn’t over 200 lbs

  6. Toy L on July 30, 2022 at 11:34 pm

    #2 Everyman’s battle book. changed my life.

  7. Malcilra Eure on July 30, 2022 at 11:36 pm

    This is good !

  8. faithfulwarriorz on July 30, 2022 at 11:37 pm

    Thank you for this video

  9. Andy on July 30, 2022 at 11:38 pm

    Great video! I am ashamed that I never was able to totally overcome porn but after I got married it did in fact get exponentially easier and basically end that problem.

  10. James S on July 30, 2022 at 11:41 pm

    I don’t know about focusing on what kind of man she wants me to be, I’m going to focus on the man God wants me to be, I was married to my wife she became saved way before I was, I did everything I could for her, worked hard for her, provided for her, stayed by her when she needed a shoulder to lean on, put Jesus Christ in the center of our marriage, I cooked, did laundry, watched out kids as she went to college, what does my "Christian" wife do, constantly complains what we didn’t have, compared me to our single male neighbor admiring his car, hung out with her divorced friends, when I lost my government job, she told me she can’t be with a man who works an any penny job, even though I worked 2 minimum wage jobs and still paid the bills, she ended up divorcing me, and abandoning my kids, raised my kids by myself with the help of Jesus Christ. 17 years later she still has nothing to show for her life. I love my children their a blessing, ex-wife.speechless , looking for a proverbs 31 woman. My time is valuable, and I don’t have time to play with Christian women not grounded in the word.

  11. Azor Lepcha on July 30, 2022 at 11:43 pm

    hey i’m trying to access the ebook but i am not being able to, please could you help? God bless

  12. E L on July 30, 2022 at 11:44 pm

    Manipulative brainwashing rubbish

  13. Will Widrick on July 30, 2022 at 11:45 pm

    Great advice, thanks!

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  15. Octavious Mckenzie on July 30, 2022 at 11:48 pm

    I agree with about pron and sexural addiction and honestly I need to over come on this with God help and also in other things you michen and I would like to be with the right woman that what you have said

  16. Jamie Bunnell on July 30, 2022 at 11:49 pm

    100%! I walk a string spiritual walk and won’t accept anything less than what my Father has for me!
    I always love your videos and so in time with the word and being led by the Lord…

  17. devoted hyperpoliglot on July 30, 2022 at 11:51 pm

    I love your videos and I have a question is reciprocation a sign of interest as well as complimenting ?

  18. Garrison on July 30, 2022 at 11:51 pm

    I’ve been trying to be patient and wait for God to lead me to finding a girl that I could marry but recently I’ve been feeling so alone. My heart longs for a relationship and I’m struggling to trust in God’s plan for my life.

  19. Zackary Zielinski on July 30, 2022 at 11:51 pm

    When it comes to career choices you guys do what God calls you to do and that needs to be the compromise!

  20. AIM on July 30, 2022 at 11:53 pm

    Hey brotha, i just wanted to thank you, i needed this im going to be honest I’ve been a bit wild and got into worldly relationships and sexual relationships and one day i hit rock bottom hard and i found God and i found my girlfriend of one year she is very spiritual but the man i was a year ago i was thinking of her that way i got to know her more and more and i love her so much excuse my language but i feel like an asshole for trying to get with her sexually im getting closer to God and i want to be equally yoked with my women thanks again for this advice i been stuck in my worldly ways for to long its time to be a man of God and gain a beautiful relationship with God for me and for the sake of my wonderful girl…. God bless you bro keep up with the videos you really hit home today….

  21. Lightskin Ogre on July 30, 2022 at 11:54 pm

    I want a girl to be pure because I don’t want her to have been with a whole bunch of dudes before me

  22. Mariah on July 30, 2022 at 11:56 pm

    Thank you so much for this. My little brother is 19 and he’s becoming very toxic in his relationships as he also keeps getting into relationships that are destined to fail. He always listens to me and my advise so when I talk to him soon I hope I’ll be able to get these points across to him as well as you did

  23. Bober Bib on July 30, 2022 at 11:57 pm

    I am looking for another wicca witch to date.but thees good neutral tips here.

  24. Indigenous Beauty on July 30, 2022 at 11:57 pm

    Excellent Advice!

  25. skojig oquist on July 31, 2022 at 12:00 am

    I never realized that even Christian guys are so much into sex – it’s just disapponting

  26. Bluish Aqua on July 31, 2022 at 12:01 am

    It is nice to be married with someone who is honest, loyal, responsible,
    loving, and someone we can talk about anything under the sun.

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  28. Reality Check on July 31, 2022 at 12:03 am

    Porn use MUST be cut off immediately otherwise there is no way you will EVER be marriage material.

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  30. tune_builder_96 on July 31, 2022 at 12:04 am

    Mark, you’re the best! Thanks for your ministry. I love how you break down so many issues to small chunks that are so easy to process.

  31. Joshua Moore on July 31, 2022 at 12:06 am

    When I heard no.2 I stopped the vid and liked it instantly. Good job.

  32. Lucas Bohannon on July 31, 2022 at 12:07 am

    Tip number 7: Get used to hearing "You’re a brother in christ to me."

  33. The Duke on July 31, 2022 at 12:07 am

    I keep on searching for advice about dating and no one seems to be answering the right questions.
    These points are so pointless and not hitting the real issues about dating as a christian.

  34. Jason Dean on July 31, 2022 at 12:08 am

    This guy is talking about unicorns. In 2022 these Christ loving, God fearing women don’t exist in the western world.

  35. Boitumelo Manake on July 31, 2022 at 12:11 am

    Thank you!!awesome i have learned a lot, I’m subscribing to this Channel.

  36. Ronge on July 31, 2022 at 12:11 am

    Thank you!!!

  37. Joshua Mancilla on July 31, 2022 at 12:12 am

    That looking for a "perfect pure" girl is very interesting. . I’d like to hear more on this matter

  38. islandcop on July 31, 2022 at 12:12 am

    ok thanks for the advice, great advice. Two questions: can you expand on beauty because I always wanted an Esther someone who is beautiful on the inside and out? Why cant I get that? What’s wrong with looking for a virgin?

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  40. Jason Martinez on July 31, 2022 at 12:14 am

    Prayers are really requested for me.Tomorrow i will ask this girl out!

  41. Blue1Q3 Lovely on July 31, 2022 at 12:17 am

    Awesome video!

  42. John C on July 31, 2022 at 12:19 am

    My question is about life trajectory. I very much see the purpose of marriage being to bear and raise children. Yet, I typically see girls around my age (I’m 23) wanting to go to college and pursue careers of their own. Not only is there never any mention of marriage or family, but I see on of my roles as a husband being the provider for my family. I simply don’t need a woman who is able to provide for herself.
    One other thing is that my gift is easily service to others. I enjoy helping others and stepping up in little ways wherever possible. So, naturally, I also want that samd servant-heart in a woman. Yet, the only ones I’ve seen these in (servant-heart, no real career ambition) are 16/17 and I think that’s a bit too young.

    Do you have any advice for this? Is there anything I should be looking for that might indicate a desire for family, even while she’s maybe going to college and pursuing some occupational skill?

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  45. Master Shorts on July 31, 2022 at 12:20 am

    Number 6 was very good

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